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female
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30-35,
*uyya
writes:hi everyone,I have had 3 painful relationships one after another.The first one lasted nearly 2 years, we were thinking to get married, at least i was, but he cheated on me and left me for another girl.after that i could not overcome this situation for a long time.Because he was the first to kiss,to have some stuff together... But i decided to forget him and be with someone else. We dated, i thought i was in love with him. Then he said an offensive thing to me about me and my ex and a very sensitive subject about me... I left him at that moment... Then i had a one night stand like relationship which was impossible...my life was getting a rubbish when i met him...we met in a concert, he was my friend's friend. we had fun, i never thought that we would come together...here comes the story of US!He fell in love with me... But i rejected him for many times as my heart was really broken.When I heard about his story everything changed...He had had a girl friend 2 years ago, and after having a quarrel , she had an accident and died...it almost took him 2 years to get it over and fell in love again.. and I was the one after her which makes me very special for him... He loved me so tenderly, behaved me like i was a princess... He was really in love with me... He was the only son of his family and was having family problems... his parents decided to divorce... He did not want me to get upset and our relation ship was over even if i did not want...for a moment i decided to leave him alone, as he wanted me to do.. he tried everything to forget me... we officially ended our relationship... i was really upset but i agreed for him... i hoped that we would be together again when he overcame this situation...but one day he said his parents were ok, and they were not going to divorce, and thanked me for everything and said farewell!i could not stop saying i still loved him.. nothing made sense for him, he said go on your life, we cant be together anymore as i hurt you so much and can not make amends, he also said 'i loved u so much, but i do not have a heart anymore...' then i said ok... i erased his msn adress, phone numbers etc and i wanted him to do so, he got angry but did so... there is nothing behind him any more, months passed ... but i am really missing him, i just can not get him out of my head and continue my life... everything reminds me of him when i am happy or upset... i know he does not think of me anymore... but it really hurts for 3rd time... i am done with this 'so over' stuff... i have a heart, i bruise easily... i need him ... what should i do?i tried everything to forget... i almost forgot him, but when i am all alone i always think about him and ruin myself... Help me... :(
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reader, huyya +, writes (2 January 2009):
huyya is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks , it is good to know that there are people who understands me... As i am surrounded by people who are incapable of seeing the situation i am in... Thanks again...
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2009): Ive had some bad relationships in the past and from experience i can tell you that the pain of an old fling does get better. The main issue you may have is getting over insecurity issues or issues that came from previous relationships. Im sure you have friends, rely on your friends to help consume the painful times, laughter can be the best medicine. Go out and try to have fun and try to forget even if for a little while. It will get easier. Your young, dont take things too serious right now, enjoy life.
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