New here? Register in under one minute Already a member? Login

245057 questions, 1084625 answers

Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!

New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us . Articles . Sitemap

To browse questions by day in January, 2009, use the links below (in brackets, number of questions on that day in this category)

1 (2), 2 (13), 3 (10), 4 (10), 5 (13), 6 (13), 7 (8), 8 (13), 9 (21), 10 (11),
11 (14), 12 (11), 13 (18), 14 (12), 15 (10), 16 (7), 17 (8), 18 (10), 19 (19), 20 (10),
21 (6), 22 (15), 23 (14), 24 (8), 25 (2), 26 (15), 27 (9), 28 (7), 29 (15), 30 (8),
31 (7),

Archived questions from: 3 January, 2009 (see latest in Breaking up category)

(More questions from January, 2009)

Breaking up: Help and advice

Met up with my ex but he looks soooo different now and I find it hard to handle.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5800 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - I had been with my boyfriend for six years and had a great relationship. Then my family suffered multiple devastating losses, the family members we lost were the glue of our family and everyone left behind seemed to be fumbling around in the dark as ...

Now I just feel used and like he never intended to get with me. I feel so hurt.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5800 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - I've been friends with this guy for a few months and have liked him since I first met him. He said he liked me too but he has depression so I didn't want to rush into things and hurt him. A week ago we kissed and texted each other a lot over ...

She dumped me to get back together with her controlling ex...will she come back to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5800 days ago

3 January 2009 (M) - hey all...need some advice. about a year ago i started dating this girl and things began wonderfully. she had just come out of a 7 year on/off relationship with a guy that was controlling, jealous and had cheated on her in the past...really had ...

Why is he still talking to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5800 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - I was with my ex boyfriend for 6 months on and off. He had commitment issues and couldnt handle our relationship and ended up breaking up with me. He insisted that we still be friends as he didnmt wat to lose me. We've hung out once since our break ...

Breaking up is hard to do...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5782 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - When we are intimately involved with someone sometimes we see them as an escape, we don't realise it but we break away from who we really are. At the time, it seems to be a good thing for you that your experiencing these range of emotions with this ...

Why is my ex playing these games?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5800 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - right so, me and my boyfriend of like a year broke up about 5 weeks ago. it was my decision because he always promised he would change but he never did! he was perfect to begin with, always made me happy but then gradually after about 8 months he ...

What do I do? Does this seem logical? Is he just pulling my leg?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5800 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 years and his mother just passed away in august very suddenly and her death has taken its toll on him. We're both only 20 years old but we care for each other very deeply and are like two puzzle pieces that ...

Is he just messing with me or still cares in a weird way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5801 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - hey i recently got dumped by the love of my life he was my everything he made me feel like i was his everything he told me i was the one and stuff .. throughout our year and a half relationship i felt really close and trusted him with my life .. ...

Six months and I'm still not over him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5800 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - First note; Usually when I ask about my problem online, I tend to lie about my age (I am 16), making myself older. Why? When I am truthful about it, it seems that my experience or feelings are invalid, that I'm too young, or something of that ...

Do I accept that its over?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5799 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - My fiance broke off our engagement on NYE after spending that evening with me on a date. Prior to this we had been arguing for about a week about some personal problems he was going through and his need to seek some professional help. He decided on ...