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Archived questions from: 31 May, 2009 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

I waste so many opportunities and have so many regrets!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5493 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - Hi, I feel like life is passing me by,im 22 sitting at home when everyone else is out having a good time, enjoying their lives, i feel like i sabotage myself by turing down invitations and making impulsive stupid decisions.I didnt go out tonight ...

How do I let him know that it's ok to be open with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5657 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend always seems afraid to tell me things about his past. He was married before and has two kids. He also has had felony charges for drugs. Last time we hung out I caught him smoking, but he has quit now. At the time he was down to one c...

Disowned by family, homeless and with a child.... Help!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - Hi me explaining my situation might take a while but i need help.so please dont get bored.im 21yr old muslim and i am also at university.my family are very respected in the community but iv brought shame to them by getting pregnant without being ...

What are guys opinions on girls with short hair?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5657 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - Hi, my last few exes have all loved my short hair (i sometimes have a chelsea cut, then let it grow out into a sort of pixie cut) it suits me and makes me look a lot more mature than what long hair does, i prefer it on me. My last real boyfrien...

Chosing between 2 guys. How do you do it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - I dated a guys for 2 years he wasn't able to commit to me (wasn't ready to move in with me or get married). We broke up because I couldn't handle that anymore. After the break up I ran into an old friend from highschool and we started talking. He ...

Engaged, but I don't want to marry him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - i got engaged ...but now i dont want to marry him ..he is not the kind of husband i thought of...i want to marry my love means my boyfriend ...i cant tell my family about this nor my fiancee ...pls help me what should i can do now?...

What was the meaning of her looking at me this way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

31 May 2009 (M) - sometimes in church our eyes usually meets that's i and a girl of about 17.when our eyes meet we shyly remove it.it was one sunday on which i went to church alone just by coincidence our eyes met we look ourselves for close to 25 seconds before i ...

Falling in love with my sister

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4947 days ago

31 May 2009 (M) - My sister and I seem to have feelings for each other. She has a boyfriend and I also have a girlfriend. I feel like I should tell her that we can submit our feelings to each other. Can I give a try incest and what it feels like?...

I find older women very attractive, is there anything wrong with that?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - Ok im 18 f i have this problem. I seem to find older women attractive but i simply cant be coz its just wrong it says in the Bible. I dont know what to do. Please help!...

Fatherless and always get attached

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5658 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - Hi, my parents got divorced when I was about five or six years old. My dad has been in and out of my life. It's been really hard growing up without a dad. I usually get to see my dad twice a month, but these past three months, I haven't seen him. I ...

I am shy, but want to make more friends, would you give me some suggestions, how do I make that happen?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - I am feeling lonely. I have a great boyfriend but very few friends anymore. I am extremely shy and my confidence is iffy, but I think people mistake this for me being stuck up. I am willing to talk and befriend anyone who approaches me, but don't ...

Had a vivid dream about a guy I hardly even knew, what does this mean, if anything?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - Last night I had a dream about this guy I used to go to school with. In my dream we were talking and stuff. Then the next thing I know we are having sex. I haven't seen him in like two years and I wasn't thinking of him. I never even really had a ...

Engaged but, he doesn't work, smokes weed all the time, plays video games and I'm tired, any suggestions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - i dont know what to do thats y im asking for help. i been with my boyfriend/fiancee for 2 yrs, the reason y i put the slash fiancee is cause im engaged to him but i feel like our relationship is going no where, im 24 he is 25 he has a daughter from ...

Goth or Diva?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - i need help.im going in to middle school and i wanna become a goth or a diva.my friend says if i become a snotty diva she won't be my friend no longer.but my dad says that if i should become a snotty diva to show dont mes with me who should i listen ...