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Archived questions from: 19 November, 2008 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

She says she was forced into oral, but is there more to it?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5850 days ago

19 November 2008 (M) - alright, so my girlfriend told me recently that the reason she doesn't go down on me all too often is because she had a bad experience with it once. she said she was forced to do it by a big, aggressive guy she was kind of seeing after a break up...

How can I possibly be this happy after all the mistakes and bad choices I made?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5850 days ago

19 November 2008 (F) - I am having trouble forgiving my sexual past and its eating me up inside. I have slept with 12 guys - only 6 of them were relationships - out of the others I was completely drunk and/or believed that we would end up having a relationship. All these ...

I do wanna so believe him but not too sure if I can??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5850 days ago

19 November 2008 (F) - I've been with my partner for 4 years now and I love him dearly he says he does to but a couple of months ago he began 2 stay up late real late 3 in the morning.. I then found out an read some emails off my next door neiqours daughter. I ask him ...

I'm a teacher - should I continue to respond to this pupil's emails?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5850 days ago

19 November 2008 (F) - I am a secondary school teacher. One of the students from the school I work in has started writing emails to me to which I have responded to. He is only 3 years younger than me. The messages are quite innocent but I am a bit worried as I would not ...

How do I heal the rift and resolve this??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5850 days ago

19 November 2008 (F) - I am 33, married to a 34-year-old man, we've got a 6-year-old son and a 5-year-old daughter. Recently some longtime friends of ours asked our husband to cook for their wedding (my husband is a particularly good cook) and he did. I thought all w...

Why am I getting all these mixed emotions about who should be in jail?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5835 days ago

19 November 2008 (F) - Okay, so here's my issue: I was raped when I was 9-12 and then when I was 13 (2 different people) The first one is my cousin, and I never pressed charges, and the second is an acquaintance. My problem is, when the second guy got charges pressed on ...

Why is he acting like my boyfriend again when I know he doesn't want to be?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5850 days ago

19 November 2008 (F) - My ex came over and we watched tv for an hour and cuddled on the bed. We broke up over a month ago because he had commitment issues but he insisted that we still remain friends. When we were cuddling he told me how much he missed me and he started ...

Will it ever happen for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5851 days ago

19 November 2008 (F) - Ok so, I've never had a boyfriend. I have guys who are friends, personally they are easier to get along with than guys, but i've never actually had a relationship. I can always seem to be friends with guys, but nothing beyond that. I'm about 6 foot ...

Are all redheads bad tempered?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5850 days ago

19 November 2008 (F) - Are red heads really tempered?? Cause my bf has red hair and oh man he has the "temeper of a red head. Haha he is one like one time he was drinking and he didnnt get something that he wanted on the game so he sqeezzed my leg dropped the guitar. ...

Is it simply bad luck - or something else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5844 days ago

19 November 2008 (F) - My life is full of tragedies. Illness, divorce, financial crises, betrayal, losing home, losing job, and losing loved ones. Not any of my plans ever goes ,where I want it. I'm trying ,but no success. Yet I see , everybody around me,having a pretty n...

If a girl is raped, her first time, will it always affect her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5850 days ago

19 November 2008 (F) - if a girl gets raped her first time will it bother her her whole life?will she ever be happy?wil she be able to live happily?will it be terror for her life?or will she be alright afterwards...

I am a 29 year old virgin, and I need advice as to how I relax on my wedding night, he is a virgin as well?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5850 days ago

19 November 2008 (F) - I'm getting married in 2 weeks! I'm a virgin and 29 years old. Bf is also a virgin. We have already done loads of foreplay but i get nervous thinking about our first penetrative sex. I'm finding it difficult to relax. Bf seem very confident about ...

I need help getting over this guy, what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5850 days ago

19 November 2008 (F) - i need advice badly! So i have a really big crush, on someone that is off limits, and i need to get over it! i'm driving myself crazy! at night i think about him, when i'm getting ready for skewl i think about him, i think about him a lot!! I ju...

I feel totally judged by others when I'm in public places.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5851 days ago

19 November 2008 (F) - I have a weird problem, maybe someone can help me out here. I feel totally judged by others, when I'm in public places. I don't know if it's true or I just imagine this. It's really hard to tell. I feel everybody looking at me really mean, and l...