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female
age
41-50,
*ndreastar
writes:I've been with my partner for 4 years now and I love him dearly he says he does to but a couple of months ago he began 2 stay up late real late 3 in the morning.. I then found out an read some emails off my next door neiqours daughter. I ask him about this he said they were just friends. This was going on 4 a while then one Saturday he was going out with his mates and I asked him to meet up with me later on in the night, but he said no!!! The next night I found out this girl went up town too so I phoned him an asked if he had saw her he told me no I didn't believe him so I went on his email account and she was on there an I started chatting 2 her but as if I was my partner... she told me I'm really happy I enjoyed last night an that everything she said and done she meant from the bottom of her heart... so I had my partner about this and there was a big row he told me that he knew I would go mad and didn't want to hurt me so I didn't say anything. I asked him if she had her number he said no!!! but a couple of weeks later someone gave me her number and I found it in his phone under the name of a male.. I phoned it and she picked up I went mad at my partner and he still said he hadn't got it untill I told him I just phoned her.. it's just lie after lie. She kept coming around her mom's house and she's there all day and everytime my partner goes out she's by the front door... I'm so confused and heartbroken. We are trying to work things out as he said nothing happened that night they bumped in to each other and she told him she had feelings for him, he says he just said don't be silly you have a bf and child???? I do wanna so believe him but not too sure if I can?? and when I ask questions bout it he just says I'm trying to ruin it but I just want answers??
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reader, smiles12 +, writes (19 November 2008):
I really wouldn't believe this guy, there seems to be too much that has happened, and that he's already lied to you about to even make me think there could be any element of truth in anything he his telling you. Girl, I think he is stringing you along BIG time, and if I were you I wouldn;t be standing for it. You are not the one that is ruining your relationship, it is him and don't let him make you think any different.
I really think you will be better off out of this situation. Trust is one of the biggest parts of a relationship, if you don't have that then it's not a good start.
Be strong and true to yourself!
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reader, Boonridge McPhalify +, writes (19 November 2008):
 this man is a liar and you need to ditch him if you want to not be cheated on. if you can cope with being cheated on by him then stay-he is clearly going to have his cake and eat it.
you deserve better-dont let him walk you into the floor
(also-what a little tart this girl is!)
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reader, Jendorset +, writes (19 November 2008):
I cant help thinking that his constant lies are just him covering something up. I cant see why the girl would say ''everything i did and said came from the bottom of my heart'' if nothing happened. It sounds like hes guilty to me but only you know what you beleive. good luck and message me if you need to.
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