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Archived questions from: November, 2014 (see latest in Age differences category)

Age differences: Help and advice

He's in his 40s so about 15 years older. What could be the reasons for his actions? He appears to be nervous when interacting with me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3645 days ago

26 November 2014 (F) - I am asking why a man seems OK around me one minute then next comes across nervous? He knows me through work, and sometimes he comes across OK, then others he can't get away quick enough. Like today he said hi dance around me for a bit then hurried ...

He wants to take care of me and finance my education, but ...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3652 days ago

21 November 2014 (F) - i seriously need help. im a 16 year old and a married man of over 40 years has been chasing me for sometime now, ar first i turned hi down but later on we became friends and got talking. he promises to take care of me and finance my studies, he is ...

How do I show him I was interested, I was just scared?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3655 days ago

17 November 2014 (F) - Hi, I met a guy through then summer he was very flirty with me, and always stared at me, he did come on quite strong that scared me a little. So I started ignoring him in the street. Wasn't being mean but I was nervous and little shocked as he is 15 ...

I saw him more as a father figure, how do I give him the message I am not interested?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3656 days ago

16 November 2014 (F) - I am friends with a man who I learnt just today that he is 10 years my senior. I had from time to time, confined in him on some rather private matters; like dating and choosing the right chap etc. I had always thought he was at least 20 years o...

Does my boyfriend think he's too old for me and is using my health issue as an excuse to end things?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3657 days ago

15 November 2014 (F) - My boyfriend of 3 months is a director of a company where he entertains potential customers at his house and as I am his partner he says that he expects me to come and help him, 3 weeks ago I had a IBS episode during one of these evenings and I said ...

Do I believe him or not? My older married lover says he'll leave his wife when I finish college.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3640 days ago

15 November 2014 (F) - My older, married lover tells me he will eventually leave his wife once I finish college. He has brought up the idea of having a baby together recently. Does this mean he is serious about our relationship and would having his baby be a good choice? ...

Why did this guy act so nervous and tense around me at this particular time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3658 days ago

14 November 2014 (F) - It was supposed to be one of the dorm parties they usually have and he (let's call him K) invited me and also my friend. K has tried to organize one specifically for us so we can go, since K found out I had never drunk and he wants me to try ...

His family think I'm a gold digger! Should I go on this trip with them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3659 days ago

13 November 2014 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for seven months now. I'm 22 and he is 38. I have met most of his family ( his dad,step mom, two of his sisters and a brother in law) all but one of his sisters were friendly to me but they all told him they don't think ...

I am not sure if this body language things are right, but I was wondering if maybe he likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3658 days ago

11 November 2014 (F) - There is this guy in three of my classes. I have met him in summer and then we ended up being in the same classes. He is pretty smart and pretty knowledgeable about a lot of things. We had lunch at the beginning of the classes. He asked for my ...

I'm in love with my married lover

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3659 days ago

9 November 2014 (F) - I've been in a relationship with an older married man for a year. In the last year, my feelings have grown for him, and I am in love. I know it's selfish, but I want more of his time to be spent with me. He insists that it will get better, but I'm ...

How can this situation be addressed? He still lives with his family and we get no privacy when we visit his home.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3664 days ago

9 November 2014 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for nearly a year and half and love him to bits but there is just one thing getting me down. He is still living at home with his parents and siblings and when I go to his house we have no alone time and have to do ev...

Is the sex that important?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3665 days ago

7 November 2014 (F) - I am 44 years old and my boyfriend of 2 months is 59 and is divorced with 2 children of 27 and 25 and last week my sister turned up at my house saying that she has left her husband and told me that she has been put on anti depressents by her doctor ...

What is a good compromise age for us to have a baby?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3666 days ago

6 November 2014 (F) - Hello! I need a little advice about when I should think about having children with my boyfriend. We've been together for over 3 years, lived together for over 2 and are planning to stay together for the long run. The only reason I'm think...

Why can't my boyfriend reach orgasm once in awhile? I feel like it is my fault.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3664 days ago

5 November 2014 (F) - My boyfriend is 60 and I am 45. He sexually satisfies me and performs very well in the bedroom. We have great chemistry and an incredible sex life. That is why I am baffled when once in awhile he cannot reach orgasm, despite my doing everyth...

I would be leaving my wife of 12 years for her, so I need to know if she wants me too

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3666 days ago

3 November 2014 (M) - First time I have done something like this online but there is no one else i can speak to about this. I am married with a child and 2 step kids, I love my wife but I don't know if I am still in love with her. I met a girl in her 20s a couple months ...

He tells me nothing has changed but I'm not convinced. What could have made him change his mind?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3666 days ago

1 November 2014 (F) - I met a guy 3 weeks ago...random but he got out of his car and passed me his number...I texted him and added him on facebook and we chatted constantly about how much we liked each other...seems mad I know but we just seemed to click. Anyway I have...

Was my cousin flirting with me? Why deny it? Then he called me delusional

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3671 days ago

1 November 2014 (?) - I would really appreciate your help. I met some cousins of mine I didn't know I had for the first time a year ago. I got on best with the youngest , lets call him M , being the more sociable of the bunch, and we had a bbq and played outdoor g...