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anonymous
writes:Hi, I met a guy through then summer he was very flirty with me, and always stared at me, he did come on quite strong that scared me a little. So I started ignoring him in the street. Wasn't being mean but I was nervous and little shocked as he is 15 years older than me. We met at work (how I met him originally). we had a good laugh and it was back to how it was at first, since then he has started ignoring me when he sees me in the street, like making no effort to say hi or anything. How do I show him I was interested, I was just scared? What should I do now? Or did I make him think I wasn't interested? I didn't want to appear desperate so i tryied to hide that I liked him back. But now nothing.
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (18 November 2014):
 I don't think you should show him anything until you straighten yourself out. Why were you scared in the first place, and what would your fear, undealt with, do to you now if you wanted to try to show him you were interested?
No, the truth is this - if you're interested, you tell him. No stares, no avoiding, none of that 6th grade stuff your age group (and his!) should have long trashed. A lack of confidence leaves a stench that turns off even the most interested of people.
Work on yourself first.
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reader, Flower89  +, writes (18 November 2014):
 Had to read your age 2x there!
Sorry but this man liked you, you played childish games with him.
He moved on!
Did u expect him to wait around until u could be bothered to speak to him? You were very rude to this man, now you wonder why he wants nothing to do with you.
Grow up! Stop playing games! You have shown him your immature and he has prob moved onto a women his age. Sorry but look at your own actions here, not his.
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