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writes:i seriously need help. im a 16 year old and a married man of over 40 years has been chasing me for sometime now, ar first i turned hi down but later on we became friends and got talking. he promises to take care of me and finance my studies, he is a,lso very rich, considering the fact that my education is sort of like a burden to my parents. ive got 4 younger siblings. i know dating him would be wrong but i dont know what to do. he loves me and is willing to take care of me.but my consience is killing me
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (21 November 2014):
 You are 16 years old. This OLD dude wants to BUY you, like a piece of meat in the store. He is DANGLING the "I will pay for your education" in front of you to make his offer more enticing. My guess is he KNOWS you are a girl with a conscience who doesn't WANT to be a burden on her parents.
If he REALLY cared for you, don't you think he would have GONE to your parents and asked their consent?
Instead he TRIES to manipulate you by appealing to your sense of duty to your parents.
He is MARRIED. He wants to USE you. Have a little sweet thing (you) on the side.
Stop talking to him. Walk away from this. YOU deserve better. LET your parents help you with your education and in turn HELP them with your sibling's education when YOU are educated with a GOOD paying job.
YOU are worth so much more then being a married man's plaything.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (21 November 2014):
 If your conscience is killing you now just think how you'll be feeling if you do get entangled in his web. This is wrong on numerous levels. He doesn't love you, he is just having a mid-life crisis. Tell the horndog to leave you alone or you'll call the cops. Oh and tell your parents, I'm sure they will be very interested in this "gentleman".
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