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Archived questions from: 14 September, 2017 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I want my husband to share me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2536 days ago

14 September 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - i want my husband to share me. i have had this desire for a long time. it started when my husband told me, during foreplay one night, he wanted to watch me have sex with another man. we talked about it and i said i would like to do it. but after the sex was over i told him ... (649 words)

Is my husband bisexual, I see he's been looking at gay porn!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2610 days ago

14 September 2017 (F)

age 41-50 - I found my husband has been looking at gay porn. He also looks at regular porn... more than the gay. The regular doesn't bother me, I'm open to a lot but this has me totally freaked! Is he bi? Is there anyway a straight man would view this? Please help! ... (50 words)

Is it too soon to mention I'd like more contact?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2617 days ago

14 September 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello and thanks in advance for reading. I'm having trouble dating and trusting men after a very difficult year that I'm slowly getting through and coming to terms with. This year I've had to deal with sudden job changes, dates going wrong and being treated badly, ghosted... (661 words)

What are basic expectations people in relationships have in regards to social media?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2623 days ago

14 September 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together six months. Everything seems good between us and he's always expressing how much he loves me, wants to stay together for ever and how I'm beautiful in his eyes etc. One of the few issues we have, though I've only sightly mentioned it to hi... (250 words)

How do I encourage my girlfriend to deal with her depression?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2623 days ago

14 September 2017 (M)

age 26-29 - I think my girlfriend is depressed, I've been dating her for 8 months now and she doesn't have any close female friends and she's incredibly lonely. Most of the time she'll only leave the house to go to classes and she misses quite a few, she has some friends on her course but ... (232 words)

I'm bored and miss affection in our marriage!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2623 days ago

14 September 2017 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 6 years now. The past four years has been boring. Not sure if that's how all marriages become. The sex is boring and comes once a month. No kissing or hugs for four years. He doesn't call me sweet names anymore. He just acts like an authoritative ... (108 words)

Ex-boyfriend (considerably older) left me for someone else while being on holiday. I don't understand it and am now thinking of asking for closure.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2622 days ago

14 September 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, will try to keep this as short as I can. A little background: A few months ago I met a charming older man (49 years old) and what began as a short romance started developing into something more serious and longer, with him (he lived in a different city 4 hours away from ... (975 words)

We just don't DO anything!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2623 days ago

14 September 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together since we were 17 and although we are happy, I feel our relationship is just really boring. I was watching a show the other day and this couple did so many fun activities together and when we talk his sister, our friends etc they talk about ... (152 words)

Kissing Cousin ... yech!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2624 days ago

14 September 2017 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all, One of my older cousin's has been sending me a lot of boring links lately on messenger , which I never have the time to respond to or know what to say. He has complimented my Facebook profile pictures a lot , which is fine . Then yesterday after sending a few li... (140 words)

Are we incompatible if he has these concerns early on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2623 days ago

14 September 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, my boyfriend is hurt that I don't spend more time with him and that I'm not giving him enough attention. I have crippling depression and often I am so anxious and so deflated even basic functions are difficult. I still see him at least two times a week, sometimes ... (151 words)

Husband has changed after marriage, is aggressive in bed and demands rough anal sex. How do I fix things?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2617 days ago

14 September 2017 (?) age 30-35 - Hi was looking for some advice. My husband has changed since we got married he, he became really fussy about everything I do and he's quite aggressive when it comes to being intimate. Nothing I ever do is right or good enough for him anymore. I don't know what I'm doing wrong. ... (83 words)

I love my husband very much and am quite a 'fangirl' for him but then why am I so attracted to the younger guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2624 days ago

14 September 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I've been married for 10years now. I'm very much still happy in my marriage and I still find my husband very attractive, I have no intention of ever needing or wanting to look elsewhere. Yet I find myself attracted to a younger man that I've only every met in passing w... (155 words)

I didn't ask for his number but I know where he lives so should I just land up and knock on the door? Or is that creepy behaviour?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2624 days ago

14 September 2017 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, so I met this amazing guy last week and hung out at his house most of the night. We hit of so well like we new each other from years ago, before I left we kissed, we both wanted to just be with one another. The problem is we were both so into each other, neither of us ... (150 words)