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Archived questions from: 13 September, 2017 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Do I call him out on his porno lie?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2656 days ago

13 September 2017 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend were trying to find something to watch and he jokingly said "porn" - we're very open, so I said I was up for it and I'd like to see what he's into. But he then told me he didn't watch porn, that he had me and didn't need it, and got really complimentary. ... (277 words)

Parents blighting my life

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2656 days ago

13 September 2017 (F) age 30-35 - How do you cope with toxic parents? And how should you go about protecting your child from them? Breaking off contact isn't something I want to do. My mother can be wonderful but also horrible. She makes snide comments, is passive aggressive, and uses guilt to manipulate me. I ... (94 words)

How should I deal with this fantasy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2653 days ago

13 September 2017 (M)

age - I have been married 30 yrs. As far as I know my wife has never cheated.I find myself fantasizing lately watching her have sex with a stranger with a huge penis. I don;t mean like an affair. I set it up with an escort service and watch. It is not as though we have ever had ... (86 words)

My destructive behaviour regarding my boyfriend's past is ruining my relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2654 days ago

13 September 2017 (?) age 51-59 - I have been seeing a lovely man for over four months. He is kind, caring and treats me very well. I have been on my own with my daughter for 17 years, her father left me when she was a baby and i was left devastated. He got on with his life and it took me a long time to get ... (295 words)

Will this breakup mend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2654 days ago

13 September 2017 (F)

age 41-50 - I've just split with my ex a week ago over argument. I have an 11-month-old baby. When I asked if any chance getting back together he says don't know. Then when I ask well would u like to he says I ain't saying no. Maybe down the line. I'm so confused. I can't just walk aw... (112 words)

Not ready to meet the kids - but how to tell her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2656 days ago

13 September 2017 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi! I started dating a girl about 5 weeks ago (I'm 36 and she's 34). She has 2 children. She said the other day that she spoke to her ex, told him about me and that she'd like me to meet the children and he said that he's fine with it. I really am fond of her but want to just... (107 words)

Huge crush on the petrol station guy but how do I pursue him without looking like a stalker?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2654 days ago

13 September 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - So...this is a weird one. I'm pretty sure I'm being weird. So I go to the same petrol station once a week. There is a guy there who is always on early shift which is when I fuel up before driving to work. We always have a chat and increasingly he has been asking ... (243 words)

Is my friend's sister not interested? Or is she just forgetful and not very organised like her brother?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2622 days ago

13 September 2017 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey all, I'm in a situation that I'm unsure how to judge. Basically randomly one night, I ended up sleeping with one of my very good friends sisters. We have never really spoke previous to that time and it was a bit of a whirlwind how it all happened. She said the whole... (381 words)

Wifes past haunts me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2568 days ago

13 September 2017 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been married almost 20 years now. When I met my wife she told me that she had been raped. A few months into our marriage she told me that she had been gangraped as well, I didn't question her too much about it and just left it. A few months ago she began opening up to me ... (195 words)

How do I find some interesting dates?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2655 days ago

13 September 2017 (F)

age 41-50 - I went on a date recently. I had loads of interests in common, he was attractive and he has a stable job. We have a second date. There is only one problem I found him a little boring but I find this is my fault as I normally find people boring partly as I hate small talk. My ... (334 words)

Feeling the pain but finding it hard to let go

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2619 days ago

13 September 2017 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I went through an extremely bad breakup lately and it has left me reeling worse than any other breakup and has shaken my confidence, as well as my desire to date. But the worst is that I still contain feelings for the girl even though she did some nasty things and I don't ... (1538 words)

Am I wrong to draw a line under this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2655 days ago

13 September 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - I was dating a guy for almost two years and in March of this year my father got really sick from cancer. He passed away sadly at the end of April. The guy I was with was a complete ass towards me when my father had passed away. And during April I was also in my finals for ... (427 words)

Am I moving on too fast? And how and when do I tell the new guy about my past and the fact that my ex still lives in the same house as me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2655 days ago

13 September 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - I have recently split with my partner of 8 years , we have fallen out of love and we both thought it was the best decision to cut it off. He still lives in the same house as me though in seperate rooms and he still helps with shopping/lifts etc - until we sort out moving out ... (377 words)

My fiance is in debt, was married previously and isn't making any real efforts to be with me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2655 days ago

13 September 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone. I need advice on my situation. I will try to make it as short and concise as I can. I am in my early 30's. With a bachelor's degree. Currently in between jobs, but have a job offer in the US. I am awaiting my immigration petition from my hospital. No kid... (792 words)

Should I cut ties with my family to appease my wife?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2608 days ago

13 September 2017 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and I are 10 years happily married with a 5 year old child. An issue has arisen recently that is causing great trauma and I would be very grateful of some worldly-wise advice and help to find a way forward. We like in the UK , I am from here and my wife from oversea... (1584 words)