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Archived questions from: 21 September, 2017 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I am unhappy at home, and flirting with my ex boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2656 days ago

21 September 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - I am married for nearly 4 years and lived together for 5 years . Since having my son last year , everything has changed . We both very good with looking after our son but My partner seems to be on the phone so much , which has been locked for two years .which I know is n... (1171 words)

We were such good friends, now she wont even talk to me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2656 days ago

21 September 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - Slightly off topic of love and relationships but wondering if someone can shine some light over a situation with a close friend. I'm broken, torn, lost and really struggling to come to terms with the loss of my best friend, for the simple reason, that I have no idea why I ha... (1206 words)

I want more, he leads me on but in the end wants just sex. It's he just a player?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2656 days ago

21 September 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello! I have been friends with this guy since sophomore year of college and I graduated last year. He's 25 so yeah we are still young, but I feel like we have a good vibe going with one another. We used to hang out and talk about everything and anything nothing is off limits. ... (484 words)

I had an affair with my ex husband's cousin and don't know what to do with the feelings I have

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2656 days ago

21 September 2017 (F)

age 51-59 - I am married, my husband is my best friend and I really don't deserve him. This is my second marriage to the same man, we married,divorced cos he left me for someone else and we were both very young first time anyway. We got back together and were together 10 years before t... (152 words)

She's going into an arranged marriage, unhappy with the man. Please help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2655 days ago

21 September 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - I am an Indian. In our culture arrange marriage system is prevalent. Recently my best friend got engaged to someone. Her parents found that guy for her. Its been an year but not a day passed when she didn't complain about him. She always tells me that this guy never calls her, ... (442 words)

She's asked me for advice-Can I be honest and tell her she's in a bad relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2656 days ago

21 September 2017 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Aunts and Uncles, I need some advice on should I say what I think or... be polite and lie. I have 2 cousins who are like sisters to me. One of them is having problems with her papers. She's been living in a foreign country for the past 7 years and since her contract i... (577 words)

How can I last longer the first time?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2655 days ago

21 September 2017 (M)

age 26-29 - I just got into a relationship, its been quite a few months in. We are about to hit 3rd base and this is my first time someone will give me a handjob or even a blowjob. I don't think I can last for more than 30 seconds. Any tips on how to last longer on the first time?... (58 words)

What are your thoughts on surprising someone that hates surprises & is worried about money?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2657 days ago

21 September 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - we've been Trying to conceive for over a year and a half now and both of us are self employed and super stressed out. So I decided that for my husbands birthday I would surprise him with a trip to the Netherlands to see this band that he loves! but now I'm super scared about ... (213 words)

He's rejected me but is open to having sex. I'm upset but tempted to, since I'll be bored and alone in his city.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2656 days ago

21 September 2017 (F)

age 41-50 - I apologize in advance...this is a long one! I met a guy on Tinder back in March of this year. I was going to be in San Francisco for a few days and wanted to meet people while there so I changed my location to SF and started talking to him. He knew I was on the east coast a... (679 words)

I'm Open-Minded but His Porn Habit & Denials are Alienating Me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2656 days ago

21 September 2017 (F)

age - my husband who is 10 years older than me is watching porn on a daily basis and playing virtual reality porn games,I know because he,s not very clever at deleting his history.He shows no interest in me even though I go out of my way to look nice and am told i look a lot younger ... (153 words)