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Archived questions from: 29 October, 2017 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My husband ordered diet pills for me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2607 days ago

29 October 2017 (F)

age - My husband ordered diet pills for me online without saying anything to me about it first. He said he just wanted to help me because he knows my weight bothers me. I don't know how exactly to feel about this am I wrong that him doing that bothers me more then my weight?... (55 words)

I need to give my wife an ultimatum... Get a better job or lose me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2607 days ago

29 October 2017 (M)

age 36-40 - my wife and i are in our mid 20's. we really want to get a house soon but i just dont think its in our budget at all. she has a 4yr degree at a top school and im a laborer. im making $25+/hr with no student loans and shes making $14/hr with $95,000 student loans which is a... (292 words)

Our 7 year relationship is in shambles. Is it over? Should I accept defeat?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2606 days ago

29 October 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in a relationship for 7 years, and throughout the relationship we obviously had ups and downs like any other couple. However, one huge problem with us was that I had suffered some sexual trauma in my past which left it difficult for me to engage in sexual activities ... (644 words)

Am I seeing something that isn’t there and maybe she is just making excuses so I won’t hate her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2607 days ago

29 October 2017 (M)

age 51-59 - After about 4 years my girlfriend and I broke up. It wasn’t one that I wanted at all as I was ready to purpose She has distanced herself but not totally as we still have some contact I have informed her that I am moving and we are supposed to meet to say goodbye. This is ... (362 words)

I suffer from social anxiety and it bothers me that he leaves me alone with his mother!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2610 days ago

29 October 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in the best relationship I have been in, but there is one little issue... My boyfriend is 24 (I am 22). He is German and I often travel to Germany to be with him, usually staying 1-3 months at a time. The rest of the time I travel a lot for work, usually for 2-3 months a... (305 words)

Why did he say he was disappointed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2610 days ago

29 October 2017 (M)

age 30-35 - I played a little joke on a sort of friend, who I deep down fancy, but haven’t told him.. On a hook up app their profile popped up so I messaged them sent them a few funny pics of people, told them I know them and that to find out who I am they have to play along. I ended u... (249 words)

Why have I started despising my married lover?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2610 days ago

29 October 2017 (F) age 51-59 - Is it normal for the other woman to start hating or resenting the married man she's been seeing for a while? How does it go from him being able to do no wrong to thinking less of him over time? So, from love to hate? Seems like such a drop in her feelings and thoughts. Does thi... (62 words)

We are falling out of love and I don't know what to do

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2607 days ago

29 October 2017 (F)

age 41-50 - After being attached to his phone the TV and napping all day I asked my husband if he would spend some time with me. He suggested we have friends over I replied I would rather spend the night with just you since we haven't had a night alone in a while. He got all bent out of ... (290 words)

Do I tell my son she's cheating?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 2580 days ago

29 October 2017 (F)

age 51-59 - My son's wife is cheating on him. Both she and my son are 29 and have been together for just over 9 years. I received an e-mail about 4 years ago from someone who has sent me evidence that she has been cheating on him for the past 5 or 6 years with his BFF. I've had th... (149 words)

Still not comfortable with my sexuality

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2607 days ago

29 October 2017 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey all! Forgive me from the beginning if I am over graphical! I've known, and accepted that I am attractive to my own gender in a sexual way for years now. I identify as bisexual, but in private. Anyway I really come with 2 separate questions. I cannot picture myself with a h... (240 words)