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17 December 2010: What's difficult about retrograde jealousy, is that it really has little to do with person towards whom you're directing those feelings. If you're a jealous person, then you'll find a reason to be jealous. It's true, isn't it? Imagine Jesus' ...
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Are my feelings normal?
Q. Okay, so I've been with my boyfriend for over a year and I'm feeling a lot of pressure to do things, you know the kind of thing, like touching etc. We've done some things that I wouldn't normally consider appropriate for my age, but I feel our ...
A. 18 December 2010: It doesn't matter if feelings are normal. What matter's is if they're healthy. And the only way to know if they're healthy or not is to ask yourself whether they contribute to your happiness and well-being. If you believe they do, then you're ... (read in full...)
He didn't kiss me, is he interested???
Q. Hi, I started a new job in an office in July and I used to sit in front of this guy and we used to talk like small talk and then I moved desks and didn't see him for a long time. Until he asked one of my male friends if I was seeing someone and if I ...
A. 18 December 2010: Ya, sorry to say, but I wouldn't be interested in a girl who was trying to hook up with me while she was engaged. Even if she broke it off with her fiance soon after.
A woman who is trying to set up their next relationship before ending t... (read in full...)
An unrequited love actually loved you.
Q. My story is like many others on here... A girl I was friends with in college fell in love with me. But for me, I wasn't interested. She was too fat. As time progressed we became good friends. At one point I fell for her best friend. Hard. But ...
A. 18 December 2010: Dump the girl you're with. She deserves someone who loves her. But let her down easy.... (read in full...)
There's a school dance coming up but, I don't know how to ask him!
Q. there is this guy that i really like and we are pretty good friends. we weren't always friends. the first time i actually had a good conversation with him was when he was going out with my friend last year. this is the first year that i think he is ...
A. 18 December 2010: "Hey, you have a date for the dance yet?"
"Oh, the dance? No, why?"
"I thought it would be fun to go together. What do you think?"
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"Hey, you wanna go to the dance together?"
... (read in full...)
I hate seeing my best friend with my ex!
Q. ok, so i'm totally inlove with this guy but because of all the crap we've been through i like hate him now. so now my bff is dateing him and i want to cry my sees out everytime i think about it, am i over reacting?...
A. 18 December 2010: You're never overreacting. However you react, it's okay. That said, it's terrible to feel like that all the time. Maybe you should distance yourself from your bff a bit, start spending more time with other friends so you don't have to see/hear ... (read in full...)
I feel weird because I'm 19 and have never had a boyfriend. What can I do to change this?
Q. I'm 19 and I've never had a boyfriend. I personally find it weird. I know you guys are probably thinking "you're only 19, you have your whole life ahead of you to fall in love/be in a relationship/have a boyfriend/etc..." and you're probably righ...
A. 18 December 2010: If guys thought you were approachable, they would approach. Ask a friend you trust what he/she thinks... They would be able to tell you if you're doing something that conveys an air of unapproachability.
Of course, the obvious answer to your pro... (read in full...)
Is taking a girl's anal or oral virginity important???
Q. Is taking a girl's anal or oral virginity important? I know there is no such thing but this is best way to describe it? or is vaginal the only one guys care about?...
A. 18 December 2010: You're a guy. What do you care about? Is it important to you?
When I was younger, I knew a girl who would do oral and anal, and yet saved her "cherry" for some nameless guy in her future who she would really love. Seemed silly to me.
To me, ... (read in full...)
I'm super attracted to this guy, but will he feel less of me for my 'enthusiasm' on our second date?
Q. I had sex with a guy on basically the second date ... Something I never do but I was just super attracted to him. I'm a little worried he'll judge me for it but I hope not, What's done is done anyways. How do I read his body language? After ...
A. 18 December 2010: Sounds like you both had a good time. If he judges you poorly, it's his loss.... (read in full...)
My girl friend is sending naked pictures of herself to her ex. Is that cheating?
Q. So the girl I've been dating for 6 months now has been sending naked pictures to her ex, and having conversations with him while telling him that she loves him too, and that he should come over to have sex with her, all while telling me that she's ...
A. 18 December 2010: You listened to your gut when you checked the phone, and it was right. What's your guy telling you now? (If your gut is not telling you to get the heck out of that relationship as fast as possible, then it is defective.)
Break it off with her... (read in full...)
If I get near his phone, he flips. Am I wrong to think he could be cheating?
Q. Ok here is my problem. Me and my husband have two kids and have been together for six years. I recently discovered he's been watching porn behind my back after promising he wouldn't but I let that go without even getting mad at him. Well, I was ...
A. 17 December 2010: The question to ask yourself is whether or not this is out of character for your husband. Is your husband uptight and private with you in other ways? If you have two children together, then you must have been with him long enough to know whether ... (read in full...)
I feel so strongly about him...
Q. I met this boy and the moment I saw him I was totally head over heals!! I'm NOT kidding. I knew he was a great catch, I just instantly feel something. I slipped my phone number is his jacket when it was hanging up, and eventually we got to ...
A. 17 December 2010: Hi,
I'm sorry, but you were wrong this time. Are you really telling us that the guy you've been looking for for so long is someone who already has a girlfriend? If a guy is hanging out with a girl who likes him behind his girlfriend's back....... (read in full...)
Relationships vs. one night stands
Q. Why will a woman hook up with some random guy she meets at a club or a bar, but when that woman gets into a relationship, wait and take it slow with the boyfriend?...
A. 10 October 2010: Tisha, in my experience, guys are more straightforward: they either try to sleep with women they like in any situation or they take it slow in any situation. At least that's the impression I get from my male friends and acquaintances.
I guess th... (read in full...)
Relationships vs. one night stands
Q. Why will a woman hook up with some random guy she meets at a club or a bar, but when that woman gets into a relationship, wait and take it slow with the boyfriend?...
A. 6 October 2010: Well, I don't know. I think you make some good points. I can see what you're saying about there being less concern about character and compatibility with the one nighter. That's a good point. However, I think it's a bit simplistic to say that ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with an "easy lay!!!"
Q. I'm in a relationship with a woman that I think I love. Recently I spoke with someone that happened to go to college with her, and it came out that she was... not what was known as a chaste girl, let's say. Now I don't have a problem with a w...
A. 20 July 2010: I don't so much care about what others think. I just question how much I can trust a person who views sex so casually. Also, I wonder how meaningful it can be to her if she's done it with strangers... But thanks for your feedback. It was ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with an "easy lay!!!"
Q. I'm in a relationship with a woman that I think I love. Recently I spoke with someone that happened to go to college with her, and it came out that she was... not what was known as a chaste girl, let's say. Now I don't have a problem with a w...
A. 20 July 2010: I don't so much care about what others think. I just question how much I can trust a person who views sex so casually. Also, I wonder how meaningful it can be to her if she's done it with strangers... But thanks for your feedback. It was ... (read in full...)
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