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writes: hey guys i really need help im 14 and still single never had a boyfriend before i really want a boyfriend i want someone to hang out with and i want to experience the life with a boyfriend i've never kissed any guy before. When i was in primary My friends used to say that guys are interested in me and wanna ask me out but they r too shy.Even if i get a boyfriend i have one more problem. My parents wont let me have a boyfriend i am 14 for gods sake i cant even talk to them about boys. Sometimes i think that i am ugly that is y i don't get a boyfriendplease guys i really needs some help im desperate here
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2006): hey, dont worry bout it hun, im 18 and didnt hav my first proper boyfriend till i was 17. Boyfriwnds r trouble and too much hassle you are always worrying about them, just have fun wiv yor friends and carry on wiv yor studies as they are more important than boys. Dont worry im sure u will find 1 eventually just wait, i find that things come wen u dont expect it, i met my first boyfriend wen i was in the hairdressers now thats funny. take care :-)
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reader, confussed jane +, writes (1 October 2006):
hun it doesnt mean your ugly just all boys like diffrent girl diffrent types your better to wait for the right guy hun.most young guys are only after one thing and when they got it thats it and even sometimes they tell others brag and add bits on at times if i was you i would wait i ant saying when you find a guy dont go with him just dont get to serious dont want u to in a couple years wish you hadnt or even after or when you alot older and have kidz and look back wish you hadnt.
good luck xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2006): Hey hun! dont wuri about it i didnt have ma first serious boyfriend till i was 14 so its not uncommon! the fact u hvnt had one yet will make it all the more special wen u do find sum1 so no worries on that one. It's a cliche but do remember to be ur self ok, fakin it aint pretty! guys love natural girls so keep it simple. That sux about ur parents but i guess most parents r like tht. Its part of growing up nd ur either gona have to stick it out or do sumthin bout it ie talk to them! they cnt b complete monsters can they?! or mayb they r... lol comprimise is always key tho i learnt tht frm an early age! u say 11 they say 9- 10 seems a healthy comprimise doesnt it! u get me! good luck hun wish u the best hope this helps nd hell dnt wuri bout the look thing either if a boi cant take u 4 who u r then quite frankly they aint worth it r they! njoy!
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reader, zosey +, writes (1 October 2006):
 hey, theres probably loads of guys that like u there probably just as shy as u and dont want rejection. if theres some1 u wanna go out wiff talk to them about n e fing and see wat sort of responce u get try and be friend and then u may find out he likes u to. love is difficult but it dm what age u r. some people have boyfriends at a really young age and some wait untill there old enough for sex. theres nothing rong or n e fing u just need to find a boy that u can becum friends with and take things rfrom there.
take care good luck. xxx
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reader, Toria +, writes (1 October 2006):
 You are only 14 therefore alot of parents feel that there are more things in your life to concentrate on without including boys, you have years to have boyfriends, have your heartbroken and break a few back, I wouldn't concentrate too much on the fact you haven't had a boyfriend yet some people are in your situation at 19.
Good luck :o)
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