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writes: i went out with this boy for a short amount of time when he broke up wiht me. last week i went to see him and theres atill attraction because he kissed me. i liked it. he says he still likes me but i dunno if to trust him. is he just using me? yeterday i had to leave him because its a long distnace thing and i only see him every weekend. when we kissing goodbye i let him finger me and i didnt want him to stop because i really liked it. the thing is i know hes a messer but i really want him. should i trust him? was it to early?
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reader, zosey +, writes (22 August 2006):
 hey, well he may still like you but if he did why wud he of dumped u, he may just want to be a free agent but still do the things u used to do together such as kissing and sexual stuff, u may really like him but if hes a messer he may onli want to be sexual with u and he might not actually care, u say u 'let' him finger u was he askin? or pushin himself down there? take care. hope i helped but will u send another message and answer my questions then maby i can give u a little more advice. zoe
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2006): don't go there! trust me on this one. if he really cared for you, he'd go "slow" and take his time and be a gentleman! you may like him and actualy have very strong feelings for him, and the things he does to you--you don't ever want that feeling to end. and you probably feel reallly reallly happy with him. and he might even use all his lines on you and may tell you he even loves you! but ive been with a messer, and dont think you'd be the "one and only--the last" because if he's messed around before, chances are he'll do it again, no matter how much you'd like to beleive he's changed his ways for you. find someone better, don't go through the heartbreak, it will hurt you in the long run....as it has me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2006): Just because there is an attraction and he is "acting" on it does not imply he wants to be dating you in the long term sense.
I say it is too early and that you know he is a messer and why do you want that?
If you are this unsure of him; let it be.
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