Do I leave her to it and see what happens?
Q. 3 months ago i broke up with my GF of 2 and half years because although i know its wrong to do so, i read her messages due to someone we both knows telling me that she has been txting some other guy and not just as friends, so i read these messages ...
A. 18 June 2008: ok, i'm in exactly this position too :( it sucks doesn't it. i have decided that the relationship was actually really bad for me, and messed my head up really badly. at the end of the day, i decided that my partner, who i thought i loved, was not ... (read in full...)
I feel like I have never been single and had a chance to date around. I no longer feel attracted to my BF, so what can you suggest?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years now. We were high school sweethearts and I love him very much. When we graduated we moved to college together, and are currently living in an apartment together. I always thought he was the guy I ...
A. 9 June 2008: whats the point ? you already cheated, and you don't want to work through it. you have answered your own question.
you don't love him anymore, and you need to tell him this. he will want to know why, if he's never done anything but be perfect, you ... (read in full...)
How important is being true to yourself when it means loving someone who says they don't want you?
Q. How important is being true to yourself when it brings you pain, for example when it means being in love with someone who says they don't want you? Is it fair to be with someone, knowing that you love another? I split up with a girlfriend of fi...
A. 6 June 2008: no, it is not fair to be with someone, when you are in love with someone else, it will never work !
you need time to sort your head out, and get over this other girl.
its also not fair on the new girl, if she falls in love with you, then in a few... (read in full...)
Is there any treatment for a person who is gay?
Q. hi is there any treatment for a person who is gay??????...
A. 6 June 2008: ummm, let me think ....... no, of course not !
you can't change being gay. having said that, you are very young. and it is not uncommon for boys around your age, to feel attracted to other boys, usually an older boy.
is it a slightly older boy ? if... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend looking at other women disrespectful to my feelings?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years. We live together. What bothers me the most is that when we are out together, he always is looking at other women, and not just looking, but he undresses them with his eyes, he imagines things. I have told ...
A. 6 June 2008: yeh, obviously its not nice for you, and if its more than a quick glance, then it is disrespectful. if he is happy with you, he shouldn't need to stare at other women.
tell him that you don't like him staring, obviously he is still gonna look, but ... (read in full...)
I might be having a baby, but the "dad" is mean to me, should I tell the other guy who is nice to me that the baby is his?
Q. i had sex about 2 weeks ago and i think i missed my period... the dad treats me bad and only calls for sex. he knows i mite be having a baby but i know another guy who is better to me and i know he would make a good dad. should i just say its his ...
A. 6 June 2008: NO you should not lie about this, this is something that doesn't just affect you, but also the baby, and the real father. then if you tell the other guy that its his, it will affect him too. just tell the truth, maybe this guy will be nicer wh... (read in full...)
I'm 10. How can I impress my girlfriend?
Q. im 10 and i have a gf, she likes me as well, but the thing is that i think i need to impress her more, how can i impress her? please help! ...
A. 6 June 2008: it doesn't sound like you need to :)
she likes you already, so your doing all the right things:)
so carry on as you are, and remember, like mushgirl said, girls like the 3 c's
1.confidence
2.cuddling
3.caring
good luck :)... (read in full...)
Our marriage is having problems. Can I alone put it right?
Q. Our marriage with two kids is having alot of problems which I am unable to sort out.I understand spending some quality times together would make our marriage go well but he doesnt know the importance of it.Can I alone make our marriage work good? ...
A. 6 June 2008: i agree with country woman, you can't do it alone, sit down and talk to him :)... (read in full...)
Erectile Dysfunction is ruining my relationship
Q. Hi, I suffer with Erectile Dysfunction and I have all sorts of problems when trying to put on a condom. Its tearing my relationship apart, as my girlfriend and I find it frustrating and it seems to spoil her feelings for me. When we first g...
A. 6 June 2008: ok, well first off you could see a doctor, obviously !
or, buy a c#ck ring, cos they kind of keep a normal erection harder for longer because they restrict the amount of blood leaving the penis. so you could try that. or try just holding the base... (read in full...)
Are chavs victimised?
Q. are chavs victimised do you think?...
A. 6 June 2008: yes they are, and they bloody well deserve it.
they are good for nothing scroungers.... (read in full...)
They make fun of me because I don't share their vice... is this not childish?
Q. everyone makes fun of me because i dont smoke weed,do you think thats childish?...
A. 6 June 2008: of course they're childish, so what if you don't smoke weed, its up to you. if your friends make fun of you cos you don't smoke it, then they aren't very good friends. i smoke it, but have many friends who don't, and i respect that its their ... (read in full...)
I need to be with him as he is always in my mind but he is not single...
Q. There is a guy that i am totally in love with, first thing i thik about in the morning, last thing at night and all throughout the day. I know what i feel is real and it is not going to go away. He has a girlfriend but i think he likes me... What d...
A. 5 June 2008: if he has a girlfriend, leave him alone !
don't ruin other peoples relationships, for your own selfish reasons.
if he's not happy with her, then he will leave her soon enough, and then there's your chance.
but until then back off ... (read in full...)
It's his ex. And it's his ex. And it's his ex again. I don't know what to do.
Q. Argh, I am so confused and there probably is not answer, but maybe someone can share something? I began dating my boyfriend casually, we live in separate cities and so communicated alot through email and sending things in the mail and stuff. He wa...
A. 5 June 2008: ok :) well, i can understand why he wanted to help her, and maybe thats all it was, a kind of paternal instinct to help, that should be at the heart of every human.
this probably makes him a really nice guy
from what i can understand, he has neve... (read in full...)
Not sure if I amd with my B/F for the wrong reason's!! Please help.
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years, we live together. I constantly have doubts whether he is the one for me. I do not feel as though we have a deep connection and am envious of other people's relationships. We often argue over silly things ...
A. 5 June 2008: for goodness sake !
talk to him ! its as simple as that, the problem these days is that when people are feeling like this, they don't discuss it with their partner. if he is a nice guy, he will be hurt, but also he'll want to fix it, and make you ... (read in full...)
The magic has gone in my relationship, it seems. Recently I keep thinking about another guy, what should I do?
Q. omg please will someone help me, i really need some advise, so please please please ! read this for me, thank you. ok so ive been going out with this guy for nearly two years (he is 21, i'm 19) and although we had a rough start in the relationship...
A. 27 May 2008: yeh, i think u shud of told him thats how u felt. after 2 yrs i think u owed it to him,
"this guy is really nice and the type you could see yourself happy with at old age, he's not the type of guy to cheat or stray"
do u realise that thi... (read in full...)
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