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19 July 2008: This site seems to have a good cross section of folks from different walks of life, so I wanted to see what people out there think about this. The Bush administration is proposing a redefining of the term "abortion" to include birth control. The ...
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Sex--will it continue to hurt?
Q. i'm 28 and had sex for the first time recently with my long time bf. both of us were virgins and for me it hurt so much. it took us a long time and a lot of pain for me to get his penis in. but after a while it became incredibly good. a feeling ...
A. 13 January 2009: Have you tried some lube? I could seriously write a book on the awesomeness of lube! It could make everything go smoother, and ease some of your fear, thus relax your muscles. If you are already making use of the lube I would try a lot of ... (read in full...)
Parents won't let me get condoms or The Pill, but I want to have sex!
Q. My boy friend and I want to have sex but my parents wont let me get condums or birth control pills. what do i say to her and what do i say to my bfriend?...
A. 9 January 2009: I doubt anyone will be able to convince you to wait. Just do everyone a favor and wait until you get the birth control/condoms thing figured out. Can you get an appointment with your doctor, go to planned parenthood, or talk to a school counselor? ... (read in full...)
So ladies, hairy chest or not?
Q. So ladies, hairy chest or not? Im like Steve Carrell hairy, is that too much? I would prefer answers from high school and college girls, as that is my age. Thanks....
A. 24 November 2008: I would say not, but I think a waxed chest is even ickier. The only time the hair on my BF's chest bothers me is when I am trying to cuddle into him and it tickles my nose. I makes him throw on a t-shirt and problem solved! Though, if the back is ... (read in full...)
When did you first have a boyfriend/girlfriend - that actually lasted a few months?
Q. Poll: When was the first time you had a relationship, and what age did you have your first kiss? I'm not talking about a peck on the cheek or peck on the lips type of kiss, I mean a toungue kiss? And when did you first have a boyfrien...
A. 4 September 2008: First kiss and relationship at 21 (which lasted for maybe 2 1/2 months). First love and first sex partner at 24, who I am still with at 27. Do what you feel is right when you want to, you don't really need to base your actions on the "norm" or ... (read in full...)
Is Sarah Palin a suitable candidate for VP?
Q. [Part of a DearCupid series on the forthcoming Nov 08 presidential election] Sarah Palin, John McCain's choice for vice-president, is a strict anti-abortionist, pro-guns and against sex-education. Her 17 year old daughter is now pregnant. ...
A. 2 September 2008: No, but for more reasons than her "abstinence only" stance. She thinks that creationism should be taught in PUBLIC schools, that global warming is not caused by man, that the pledge of allegiance was written by the founding fathers, and the list ... (read in full...)
I found out my ex-girlfriend had a baby and I can't stop thinking about it.
Q. well me and my ex have been seperated since dec 27 2006 hum why we broke up is a mystery to me to be honest with you all. i tried everything to get her back are relationship was great just one day she said she was going back to school and we never ...
A. 23 July 2008: Hold on, how old is the baby? Is it your baby, or from someone new?... (read in full...)
Bush wants to redefine birth control as "abortion", what do you think?
Q. This site seems to have a good cross section of folks from different walks of life, so I wanted to see what people out there think about this. The Bush administration is proposing a redefining of the term "abortion" to include birth control. The ...
A. 22 July 2008: Thanks to everyone for your thoughtful responses. I started this discussion because I felt like there are already too many unwanted children, and I hate to see something that would lead to more. If birth control becomes harder to get I imagine ... (read in full...)
Bush wants to redefine birth control as "abortion", what do you think?
Q. This site seems to have a good cross section of folks from different walks of life, so I wanted to see what people out there think about this. The Bush administration is proposing a redefining of the term "abortion" to include birth control. The ...
A. 22 July 2008: Well kid, I could take this time to school you good, but I don't think it would be worth it at this point. Come back when you are 18 and tell us again how you feel. If you honestly feel at that point that sex is only for babies, well then that's ... (read in full...)
Bush wants to redefine birth control as "abortion", what do you think?
Q. This site seems to have a good cross section of folks from different walks of life, so I wanted to see what people out there think about this. The Bush administration is proposing a redefining of the term "abortion" to include birth control. The ...
A. 20 July 2008: Politically Lawful-
Are you twelve? That makes me feel better, as you still have a lot of learning to do. Things are not always black and white in this world. Replacing a dictator with a war does not mean people stop dying. In fact, this ques... (read in full...)
Bush wants to redefine birth control as "abortion", what do you think?
Q. This site seems to have a good cross section of folks from different walks of life, so I wanted to see what people out there think about this. The Bush administration is proposing a redefining of the term "abortion" to include birth control. The ...
A. 20 July 2008: I posted this question, and I am an American. As such, I feel I have a right to complain about the poor job Bush has been doing. The birth control thing is just one example, but if it went through I would be one of the people who would be hurt by ... (read in full...)
Bush wants to redefine birth control as "abortion", what do you think?
Q. This site seems to have a good cross section of folks from different walks of life, so I wanted to see what people out there think about this. The Bush administration is proposing a redefining of the term "abortion" to include birth control. The ...
A. 19 July 2008: Thanks for your responses. At this point you can just google "Bush contraception" and a bunch of results come up, in responses from Pelosi, Clinton, etc.... (read in full...)
What pet names can you call a guy?
Q. A guy calls you 'baby, huni, sexy.' But what can you call a guy? ...
A. 19 July 2008: I like personal names the best. I call mine D-Man, My beastie, Yargh, and other names that mean something to us. It's sort of like an inside joke I guess. I find this much more meaningful than your generic honey, sugar, baby, blah-ness.... (read in full...)
Geek gets love, popular girl gets lovesick!!!
Q. Ok this is how it is, i met this awesome guy named R.E. at school, and him and my bestfriend were going out when i met him, but then he broke up with her and me and him started going out, but i had a boyfriend that was on the football team and he ...
A. 13 July 2008: You might want to follow in R.E's footsteps and go find a "geeky" boy. They are often quite nice, and may introduce you to some thoughts and ideas that you had not previously considered. You may learn that labeling people is pretty idiotic anyway. ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to have a vibrator at 16?
Q. I'm sixteen and I'm a virgin. I plan to stay a virgin for a long time. I'm writing this because I have simple question to ask. My mother doesn't want me to talk to boys and I've told her that I wouldn't Now the dating/sex age for my family is ...
A. 19 May 2008: I think its great that you are taking care of your needs in a responsible way. Kudos! Also, you are not slow at all. I waited until I was 24 to lose my virginity to someone I loved. However I had been masturbating for a least a decade before ... (read in full...)
What's the sticky white stuff in my vagina??
Q. I'm 15 and me and my boyfriend have been having sex for quite a while now. But recently this sticky white stuff has appeared in my vagina during sex and I have no idea what it is. It's never happened before but recently it's happened everytime. ...
A. 19 May 2008: Um, the lady parts tend to lubricate themselves as you get excited. This makes sex more comfortable and pleasurable. Its kind of a shame that you have been having sex for such a "long" time and you are not aware of some of the simple mechanics of ... (read in full...)
Is it a sin to be gay?
Q. I'm not too sure how many people will answer this question but I'm going to give it a try .... does it say anywhere in the bible that it's a sin to be gay? if it does what exactly does it say ?? I think I'm bi and that's why I'm asking .... ...
A. 10 April 2008: I just want to say that it warms my heart that most people have answered no. I am not gay myself, but I am all for accepting others and being open minded. Good job on everyone for answering this question with kindness and understanding, and not ... (read in full...)
What is rainbow kissing? Should I try it?
Q. I might sound really stupid asking this but what does rainbow kissing mean? My current boyfriend is pretty kinky and like trying everything out. I was a virgin when we got together so he's taught me everything i know. He asked me at the weekend ...
A. 10 April 2008: Man, I would do a lot of stuff out of love for my boyfriend, but I have to prude out here. I don't like to be on the rag, and I sure don't want to experience the taste of it. Sex is nice, but some peoples fetishes are just beyond me. ... (read in full...)
12 years old - too young to have sex?
Q. i wanna have sex but i think 12 is tooo young!...
A. 10 April 2008: I think it is way too young to become involved in that way with another person. Also, some of the consequences of sex are hard for adults to deal with, much less children. I am going to give you the following advice, knowing full well that many ... (read in full...)
I'm 12 but I have not started my period yet?
Q. hi im 12 and tall for my age but i have not started my period. im worried about this because all my family say i should of started by now. is this normal?...
A. 8 April 2008: I didn't start until I was sixteen, so no worries. You have a few less years of blood and cramps to worry about, so be thankful and enjoy your childhood!... (read in full...)
My parents doesn't like my boyfriend sleeping in the same room with me when he comes over!
Q. My parents doesn't like my boyfriend sleeping in the same room with me when he comes over. I can see that as normal when you're 16, however, I'm 25 and my boyfriend is 27. My parents are the traditional ones that believes you should sleep on the ...
A. 8 April 2008: I have the same problem, and I am 26 with a 33 year old boyfriend. When he and I visit my parents we are put in two separate rooms. I find this especially silly as we currently live together. Although, my mother was extremely upset when I decided ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong that a girl talks to her brothers about everything in her life including her sex life?
Q. hi everyone I'm really confused! Is it wrong that a girl talks to her brothers about everything in her life including her sex life? I'm a 21 year old girl and I have 2 brothers (24 and 18) we used to talk about everything with each other like ...
A. 13 February 2008: I used to know a family of 7 that rarely wore clothes while at home. They had a picnic style dinner table, and I used to be shocked whey I came over and saw all their naked bottoms lined up in a row at the table. However, as an adult I see nothing ... (read in full...)
He dated my mum first. Is this so wrong?
Q. The guy that I have really strong feelings for has dated my mom in the past over a decade ago. They were intimate and had a sexual relationship. This is not an ideal situation and normally I'm not interested in this type of dating, I don't like to ...
A. 13 February 2008: I don't think its that wrong. It may seem like a faux pas, but its not like he is your former stepdad or something. Even if he was, look at Woody Allen and his ex-stepdaughter, they seem happy! I think if you go into it with an open mind, and are ... (read in full...)
For the guys. Would you be bothered with body acne
Q. Hi, this question is primarily for guys. I have a pretty good body, slim, and I'm not self conscious about my body when I'm clothed. The thing is that I have a weird form of acne that takes literally years to heal and because of it I have little ...
A. 16 October 2007: I have a similar thing going on, and I used to obsess over it. However, it seems like most guys are not that detail oriented. I once asked my boyfriend if the bumps bother him, and he didn't even know what I was talking about. If you are really ... (read in full...)
We are in an open relationship and she is having a blast...but I have realised she is the only one I want.
Q. Hey I'm 19 years old, been with my girl for a few years. Recently I got really curious about sex with someone else so I asked her about experimenting with threesomes/swinging/open relationships. She agreed reluctantly so we are now in an open ...
A. 15 October 2007: If you two have been together since age 16 or so I can understand why you might have started to feel curious. You are young, and probably full of hormones. Unfortunately it seems that you have opened up Pandora's box here. Your girlfriend seems ... (read in full...)
Are my feelings OK with him impression of me.
Q. Hi all- Ok, I must admit first off to being a bit of a snoop. My boyfriend checked his myspace account on my computer earlier, and when I went to sign in later his home page was still up. I listened to the little devil on my shoulder and looked i...
A. 15 October 2007: Thanks to everyone for your perspectives. I guess I just felt like the old, jealous, ball and chain when I read that. I know I can be insecure, but I would hate to think that I am preventing my boyfriend from doing things he wants to do. I am not ... (read in full...)
My close guy friend distanced himself after I found a bf..why?
Q. Hello- I a fairly sure that one of my best friends has abandoned our friendship because I am no longer single. I will describe the situation and perhaps you all can tell me what you think. I met this man several years ago while in college. We bot...
A. 23 July 2007: Thank you Daniel, Irish, and DIE-romantic for your thoughtful replies. You all seem to agree that my friend wanted more from the relationship that I did, which seems the only conclusion given the facts. I suppose I was reluctant to accept that as ... (read in full...)
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