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writes:well me and my ex have been seperated since dec 27 2006 hum why we broke up is a mystery to me to be honest with you all. i tried everything to get her back are relationship was great just one day she said she was going back to school and we never talked or seen each other again.it was hard for me getting over her but i started feeling better after a while about everything but it was still a little hard for me because i really cared and loved this person so yesterday i figured out she had a baby it was a real shock to me and now im hurting again i cant sleep or stop thinking about this because yes i do still have feeling for her but after seeing she had a baby all this time trying to get her back has been a waste but this, her having a baby is really bring up old feelings and memories i don't want to have and i cant get her out of my head now i was fine before but now i feel im back in the same place when she left any advice will be appreciated thanks
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reader, rockstar5069 +, writes (23 July 2008):
rockstar5069 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionit not mine its just that i loved this girl allot and i did try everything to get her back nothing worked and i just found out she had a baby just when i was over her things came back like she just left again and its driving me crazy
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reader, dreamflower +, writes (23 July 2008):
 First of all...is this child yours? IF it is...you already know you need to talk with her. IF you don't know...find out. IF it's not...then you need to understand that it's not your responsibility. To have a child is a personal choice that SHE made, obviously without caring what your opinion of the issue was. SO, speaking honestly, you shouldn't worry yourself with the problems of others. I hate to tell you but this occurance is completely out of your control, and there isn't anything you can do to change that. My best advice: let it go. I know it's a hard thing to do, but you kind of have to re-train your brain to put yourself before her. Once you do that, you'll realize your better off moving on, and it will happen.
Remember to never be so weak as to allow someone else make you less than you are. And allowing her to worry you like this isn't good. Best of luck!
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reader, Yargh +, writes (23 July 2008):
 Hold on, how old is the baby? Is it your baby, or from someone new?
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