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my name is Lauryn. I'm a 14 year old emo girl living in a small town in Ohio. I like to think i give good advice but who knows? I've been told im extremly mature for my age. i ask a lot of questions.
i smoke. i drink. i do drugs. don't tell me not to because i'm not going to listen and its SO annoying when people try to get me to stop.
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Nipples off center?
Q. Are you supposed to have an orgasm the first time you have sex? Is it normal for your nipples to be off center?...
A. 15 April 2009: yes, you can have an orgasm the first time. and having your nipples off center does not seem like a big deal.
Your fine.
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7 years of marriage, 2 children, and found out he fathered a son with another woman!
Q. I have been married for 7 year and have 2 children. I recently found out that my husband had been seeing someone and has fathered a son with that other person. We set down and talked about thing as calm as we could. He knew he had hurt me and said...
A. 15 April 2009: I would suggest going to a therapist. And please please please don't take that as an insult because i truly want to help you.
Therapy can really help. Just to get your problems out in the open with someone and be able to talk about it with some... (read in full...)
What is she thinking? It's really confusing me!
Q. Hi there. I recently split with my ex of 3 years 2 weeks ago. I am 27 she is 22. It was her decision but we had a long talk and decided it was for the best as we just seem to have "grown apart". However i was in fact devastated by this and spen...
A. 13 April 2009: Shedule a 'date' where you can both talk and explain your feelins for her. Tell the truth is the most important thing i can say. If you lie about your feeling towards her its just going to confuse both of you more.
Tell her that it's her desc... (read in full...)
My gf wants me to choose between her or my family (with my handicapped brother)
Q. I wonder if you guys can help me on this matter. I've been with my girlfriend for over a year now and we've started to talk about marriage and moving in together. I currently live with my mum and my twenty year old brother who is in a whee...
A. 13 April 2009: Choose your girlfriend. You mother will always forgive you but you might not be able to get your girlfriend back. And if you don't want to choose explain why and then offer a solution to fix the problem. Maybe move in with her and help your mot... (read in full...)
Help...sex problem: it hurts when he goes in
Q. i've been with my partner for 2 years now but i have a problem during sex , it hurts so much when he tries to go inside and only part of his penis would go inside . when he tries to finger me with one finger .. it hurts, and i know for sure i'm not ...
A. 13 April 2009: I'm not sure what the problem is.
But it does not sound like something that should be occuring. Go to your doctor and have it checked out.
Hope I helped=]... (read in full...)
Now I'm scared I could be pregnant.
Q. I'm 14 years old and my boyfriend is 18, I met him through my friend from school whos dating his best friend (she's 13, he's 17). We've been together 6 months now, and he's never asked for anything sexual at all. My parents have met him and appr...
A. 13 April 2009: If he didn't cum you probably have nothing to worry about...But also you were just about to start your period which is a good thing. About 5 days before you get your period it is highly unlikly you will get pregnant and the opposite is also true so ... (read in full...)
Can people notice any smell on other people?
Q. I always take my bath or shower immediately before bed but then during the night I do some self-stimulation and become quite damp. I am a bit afraid that I will have odor during the day. During the course of the day my underclothing may become damp ...
A. 13 April 2009: Probably not.
Unless your sitting with your legs wide open with no underwear on, then you'll be fine.... (read in full...)
No foreplay and no condoms!
Q. No foreplay and no condoms! I have just started to sleep with my guy - but he seems reluctant to give me any foreplay! Also he says that when we do have sex he doesn't like using condoms!! - I am confused with what to do - as I love him but am unsur...
A. 13 April 2009: Tell him that you NEED to be sexually stimulated beforehand or it will hurt you. Also if he refuses to use a condom you need to make sure your on birth control that you feel comfortable with. Or if you don't want to tell him you're not ready to be ... (read in full...)
I get super self conscious whenever we do anything and I end up ruining it for myself
Q. My boyfriend is really experienced and I'm not. I get super self conscious whenever we do anything and I end up ruining it for myself which is what I'm trying not to do. But whenever he fingers me or eats me out it feel sooooo good and I don't know ...
A. 11 April 2009: yayy! i finally did it and i wasn't scared about my sounds=] i asked him if he wanted to make noises and he just told me that whatever i did was adorable and cute and yayy im really happy now33
thanks so much=]... (read in full...)
Loving sex ..but keeps reverting to my old technique and not satisfying my man. Any tips?
Q. I thought I was sexually experienced (2 long term partners) but my new man of 6 months doesn't seem to be able to 'come' when I use my various techniques to play with his penis and balls. I asked him to show me how he enjoys me to play and he plac...
A. 10 April 2009: Buy some books to get some ideas. Try flavored, ribbed or colored condoms. Use lube, flavored or scented. Try new positions or a fun new place. Also try to draw it out longer and make it sexier. Turn the lights out, put rose petals on the bed and ... (read in full...)
My gf is changing and she is afraid to show me......
Q. To give background to the situation..Im 27 and my gf is 22. She tends to keep to herself for the most part very kind and loving, somewhat painfully quiet at times. She has been trying to come out of her shell more and thats fine, I want her to. Whil...
A. 10 April 2009: Why don't you drink with her for one night to show her that you truly don't care. Most women are very self conscious. I know i refuse to eat anything unless the person i'm with is also eating because i don't want to feel fat. And even if you s... (read in full...)
Will a girl stop taking care of her body when they get into a relationship?
Q. I know this sounds really shallow, but I'm scared that if I ever get in a serious relationship with a girl she'll stop taking care of her body. And then in a few years she won't look pretty any more she'll just look fat. Is there a way to make sure ...
A. 10 April 2009: As a women im kind of offended by this. I will NEVER ever stop taking care of my body. Especially if im in a relationship. I will always want to look pretty and make my lover happy.
Most women are very self-concious and always feel like they are ... (read in full...)
Am I a needy girlfriend?
Q. I know most people define needy girlfriends as being too possessive; which I am not. However, I do try and get him to spend some time with me a lot. Thing is though, it never works. We're both in High School, so we dont have time consuming jobs yet...
A. 10 April 2009: No way luv. He's the one who needs to straighten his life out. I know i can never get enough time with my boyfriend as we are in middle school and can almost never see eachother except on the weekends. I feel like i never see him and from the way ... (read in full...)
Do tampons pop your cherry?
Q. Hey I started my period when I was 11 years old and I am now 15 and I have also started wearing tampons. My friend told me that it pops your cherry becuase it hurts. It did hurt me when I first started wearing them but they dont anymore. Is this ...
A. 10 April 2009: Nope, it wont.
I wore tampons before and it hurt but it's just becuase your tight-not becuase you popped your cherry.
If you get fingered by a guy it might pop your cherry if he has long fingers. But you'll know cause there will be blood th... (read in full...)
2 questions: 1 on my LD boyfriend and 1 on my boy friend.
Q. so this is complicated and there's two parts to this question. I've had this boyfriend for 2 years and I'm in college 2 states away and he's my first love but we broke up because of the distance and he agreed for me to come home and see him this...
A. 10 April 2009: You need to figure out which one you like more and pick. I think the 2ed guy deifnitly likes you. But so does your old boyfriend. Don't be a slut.
You need to choose before you do something you regret and end up losing both of them.... (read in full...)
My teacher seems to act flirty different around me
Q. Hello I am new on this website Ive been doing research on signs if a teacher likes you or not and I have the same problem right now . It is wrong to like a teacher even if your an adult or a young teenager your still his or her student and the ...
A. 10 April 2009: Well first things first. Are you a lesbian? Bi-sexual? Straight but feeling attracted to her? It would help tremendously to know what you are. If your attracted then I think you should talk to her face-to-face and explain the situation to her and ... (read in full...)
I was an escourt and my b/f of 4 years can't seem to get over it
Q. 10 years ago I worked as an escort. I met my boyfriend 4 years ago and, as soon as the relationship started to get serious, I told him of my past. I wanted to be honest from the outset, and give him an opportunity to walk away. He stayed with...
A. 10 April 2009: Sit down and have a serious talk about it. You have to be firm and tell him that that part of your life is over and you can't go back and change the past so he's going to have to deal with it. I know i've had a few sexual regrets and my boyfrien... (read in full...)
What kind of friendship is this I'm having with this guy?
Q. I have a friend (guy) who after meeting him in person in a meeting, we've been in touch since for 2 years. We email each other, well mostly me. He's military so his time is a bit compromise. Even deployed we emailed. He's stationed in Va. and I'm in ...
A. 10 April 2009: I think from the looks of it he likes you. Most men don't go out of their way to do stuff like that.... (read in full...)
I'm14 and have never been on a date, kissed a guy, or done anything
Q. im 14 never been on a date,kissed a guy, or done anything i really want a boyfriend or at least go on one date im going into high school for crying out loud! most of my friends have had at least 2 and when i tell them they find it surprisi...
A. 10 April 2009: I'm 14 also.
im a bit more...uh...expierienced. not to make you feel bad or anything. but truly i wish i had waited for my 1st kiss. In a very complicated situation i made out with a guy in a bed with his girlfriend also in the same bed. talk... (read in full...)
I need female and male opinions about this, I really need advice, and badly.
Q. I don't wanna write my life story, but here's the deal. I grew up with a single mom who never dated and kept to herself all throughout my childhood. She never wanted to talk to me about guys, and when puberty hit I would try and mention crus...
A. 10 April 2009: To be honest i would try E-Harmony or a dating site that makes you feel comfortable. My Uncle and new Aunt met through that and they truly love each other and I'm so glad they have each other. Usually people on internet dating site, like ... (read in full...)
I cannot read his mind!
Q. Here's my dating dilemma: Im 26 and have a bf who is 28. We have been seeing each other for 3.5mths now. At the beginning he used to be very txty to me from his cell, and wanting to see other frequently during the week or over the weekend. ...
A. 10 April 2009: Sit down and find a good time when both of you have plenty of time and are in the right setting for such a conversation. In other words make sure your and him aren't busy and no in like a bar or something. Just sit down and tell him how you feel. Ex... (read in full...)
I get super self conscious whenever we do anything and I end up ruining it for myself
Q. My boyfriend is really experienced and I'm not. I get super self conscious whenever we do anything and I end up ruining it for myself which is what I'm trying not to do. But whenever he fingers me or eats me out it feel sooooo good and I don't know ...
A. 10 April 2009: thanks everyone!
i think that really made me have a boost of self-confidence.
i really appriciate it=]... (read in full...)
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