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I really don't like kissing, is this normal?
Q. i really don't like kissing, i waiting so long for it andi just think its so boring and eugh wet felt the same way when its been with different people i just dont know why i don't like it i feel so odd, can someone else tell be if they dont like it ...
A. 29 July 2010: thanks guys this has helped alot, was bothered it was just me... (read in full...)
I just don't like kissing guys
Q. hi i was wondering if its normal to not enjoy kissing at all. i havent had many different guys, but i just get really bored with it very quickly. i dont mind him kissing me other places, but actually making out is so boring to me. is this weird, ...
A. 27 July 2010: no i'm the same it doesn't do anythign for me, i like being touched but just kissing is really boring don't worry about it i was so nervous about my first kiss but it was horrible it went wrong i didn't like it and i thought oh thats probably just ... (read in full...)
I haven't snogged a boy, should I do it when I'm drunk so there's less pressure?
Q. Hi my names Leigh im 15 and i havent yet snogged a boy. im too worried ill do it wrong. so many boys have wanted to go out with me but i always say no because im too scared about snogging them. i always get drunk on the weekend, should i just snog ...
A. 23 July 2010: okay well ive gotoff with load of lads when i've been drunk and when i've been really sober found ti harder because i've been less confident so no because you dont remember how you did it or anything so find someone who you care about and they care ... (read in full...)
I'm emotionally stressed thinking about her and I can't handle it anymore!
Q. a couple of months ago i realised that the girl i was absolutly stone cold crazy about, was never going to feel the same way about me as i did about her. even though i had found out that it was never meant to happen between us, i still couldnt stop ...
A. 23 July 2010: this happened to me i deleted the boy from my life literally and still deep down i have feelings for him so if im honest with you all i can say is try to move on find someone new or be flirty with other people it might help you good luckx ... (read in full...)
Why did they call me "bi "in front of everyone?
Q. sorry to all bisexuals... i am a teenager at highschool and have been having some problems and it has been upsetting me. it all started in a normal pe lesson and this girl *Chloe* came up to me and asked me if i was bisexual, i was just about t...
A. 7 March 2010: if its happened again tell your friend straight its seriously not on for her to be like that, sorry for the late reply
previously i said i was bi i guess i just thought i was some girl spun a web about me saying id dont stuff with her with i told... (read in full...)
I am taunted about my chest size. Is it really that important?
Q. i am 15 and have small bust, one of my friend (girl in the group who i get along with less) keeps taking the piss out of the size of my bust and was laughing about me when a lad said 'she'll never be able to feed a baby...', it got me down and my ...
A. 19 November 2009: thanks for everyone's reply's so quickly, i didn't expect so many. i guess they've all helped. so thank you :)... (read in full...)
Should we work at this for the sake of our daughter?
Q. I have been with my fiancé for eight years. And we just recently had a baby girl five and a half months ago. Things are rocky and are not the same it used to be. Were no longer happy. We rarely speak,have sex, or even show love with a kiss or a hug. ...
A. 18 November 2009: as a child my parents split up, my mum and dad was probs like you when i was a baby, as i got older it got alot worse my dad is a alcoholic my mum tryed to kill him and kill herself and one night when he was really drunk he tryed to strangle her ... (read in full...)
I found out my daughter's bisexual when I looked at her email!
Q. I am concerned about my daughter. She is 18 at Xmas and has been very friendly with a girl a year younger. They are good friends and I have let my daughter stay overnight at her place on many many occasions. Her friend has also stayed here as ...
A. 25 June 2009: if shes bi sexual you have no worries about if she has a family in later life.
let her be her
and it shouldnt worry you if she is bi sexual
its just her personal preferance
and if i told my parents and they like freaks and
neglected me id b... (read in full...)
How do I know if I'm bi???
Q. I'm 13 years old and never ever had a relationship before. I love chasing after guys but think I'm starting to like a friend of mine (she) is cute funny and bi How do I know if I'm bi too2?...
A. 25 June 2009: i was going through the same problem
iv still not done outwith girls
cos i havnt found the right one
try getting to know girls the way
you do with boys (flirting)
talk to your friend if shes bi
she'll understand how you feel.
one of my... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and he's in his 40's but I have really strong feelings for him...
Q. Heyyah Everyone,, I need help i have started ti feel really strong for some 1 in there 40s since i have been talking to him i cant get him of my mind and i find him so amazing id love to just be with him. although he lives quite far away id love...
A. 25 June 2009: okay he's not right
i know you say you have really strong feels because he makesyou feel special and everything im 14 too i under stand but you just like feeling loved but hes using you and you'll get hurt please dont meet with him im hone... (read in full...)
She's really pissed off at me! Was my joke a bit harsh?
Q. Kay my friend is going to sound like a skank but please dont trash her cause I will report you!! Well my friend decided to cheat on her boyfriend for some reason with some random guy she met at a party. They had sex without using anything. She th...
A. 25 June 2009: i guess it was harsh and shes proberly feeling so scared right now but if you never ment to hurt her tell her it was a joke andi didnt know that it would hurt you i never thought about it before i said it im really sorry and that, cause she'll be ... (read in full...)
Why did they call me "bi "in front of everyone?
Q. sorry to all bisexuals... i am a teenager at highschool and have been having some problems and it has been upsetting me. it all started in a normal pe lesson and this girl *Chloe* came up to me and asked me if i was bisexual, i was just about t...
A. 22 June 2009: i spose they didnt mean to hurt you
this has happened to me and i got picked on by people for it
a year later i know im bi now
but i wasnt then and if i said something people would just say oh shut up you lesbo and stuff its not nice but it ... (read in full...)
Had a dream about a girl. Does this make me bi that I can't stop thinking about her?
Q. iv thought i was bi for a while now last night i had a dream and me and the girl i know from athletics were kissing and like getting off with each other and iv been thinking about her i have done before i meanshes really pritty shes kinda boy ish ...
A. 22 June 2009: im writting on this because io dont see the point in writing another question ....
i saw the girl today and we kinda talked
and shewas kinda closed about things
like i said how'd you know you were bi
and she said i just did
its priva... (read in full...)
What is going on in my head?
Q. so i've had another dear about kissing a girl but it was wierd cause it was a girl i dont even like as friends and in my dream i was on top of her on my hands and knees and we was really pasionatly kissing and the things led to another, but thes...
A. 22 June 2009: im writting on this because io dont see the point in writing another question ....
i saw the girl today and we kinda talked
and shewas kinda closed about things
like i said how'd you know you were bi
and she said i just did
its private ;/... (read in full...)
Had a dream about a girl. Does this make me bi that I can't stop thinking about her?
Q. iv thought i was bi for a while now last night i had a dream and me and the girl i know from athletics were kissing and like getting off with each other and iv been thinking about her i have done before i meanshes really pritty shes kinda boy ish ...
A. 20 June 2009: yeah i guess but i dontknow how to go about that ;/... (read in full...)
What is going on in my head?
Q. so i've had another dear about kissing a girl but it was wierd cause it was a girl i dont even like as friends and in my dream i was on top of her on my hands and knees and we was really pasionatly kissing and the things led to another, but thes...
A. 20 June 2009: fireangel im not in'denial im just not sure if i am bi i truley think i am but i just dont understand why that girl was in my dream because i dont even like her as a friends at all and i dont really know how to speak to a girl i like whos also bi ... (read in full...)
Had a dream about a girl. Does this make me bi that I can't stop thinking about her?
Q. iv thought i was bi for a while now last night i had a dream and me and the girl i know from athletics were kissing and like getting off with each other and iv been thinking about her i have done before i meanshes really pritty shes kinda boy ish ...
A. 15 June 2009: just so you both know before this dream i have thought i was bi for quite a while i have liked this other girl in my year too
but i've never been sire if i actually was or iv just been trying to make myself think im not i quess
oh and she is bi an... (read in full...)
Had a dream about a girl. Does this make me bi that I can't stop thinking about her?
Q. iv thought i was bi for a while now last night i had a dream and me and the girl i know from athletics were kissing and like getting off with each other and iv been thinking about her i have done before i meanshes really pritty shes kinda boy ish ...
A. 15 June 2009: just so you both know before this dream i have thought i was bi for quite a while i have liked this other girl in my year too
but i've never been sire if i actually was or iv just been trying to make myself think im not i quess... (read in full...)
14 and female and I think I like one of my girl mates, just now sure how she is about me.
Q. I really liked this boy whos really recently let me down i wont go into the life story of it as i dont think its to necessary, but theres also this girl who came to our school i think around after or just before christmas and weve got good friends, ...
A. 4 June 2009: thanksss (:... (read in full...)
Should I talk to this girl who is wearing 2 bras to school? Or laugh with everyone else?
Q. K so there's this girl in my class who for some weird reason wears 2 bras everyday to school, should i talk to her about it maybe she needs someone to talk to ? Do i laugh along with everyone else!? Do i just leave it alone?? I dont what to do cuz ...
A. 3 June 2009: talk to her
she may just think shes flat chested and that no one notices she has 2 bras on
she'll appreciate you helping her
i would do if it was me
xoxo ... (read in full...)
Do you think he likes me?
Q. I want to know if this guy likes me??? I sit next to him in social studies and we share a table. but he never stays on his side he is always on mine and having his arm touching me or putting his head on my shoulder or something. He puts his arm ...
A. 2 June 2009: ahh yayyyyy goodluck thats grat babes... (read in full...)
Should I tell my parents that I think I might be bisexual?
Q. hiya, I'm 15 and a lil confused. I'm not really sure, but I think I maybe bi-curious. It may just be a phase I'm going through? Should I tell my parents or keep it to myself until I'm totally sure? Thank you x...
A. 2 June 2009: im the same as you
but i need to try things out before im sure
and if you feel they need to know when your sure or not tell them because ifyou tell them and you end up not being well it could leave to a whole lot of problem that were in the end ... (read in full...)
Obsessed with lesbian porn!
Q. hey im 19 yr old girl, im engaged and pregnant but i have an obsession with lesbian porn, i watch it daily. i dont fancy women but id love to hav a woman go down on me, it gets me so horny when i watch it on videos. i love oral sex of my bf and ...
A. 1 June 2009: im not pregnant or engaged
but lesbian porn is really hot
even talking about it gets be going
and im not really into girls lol
welll iv never met a girl im into yett loool
though i have one good girl friend who i thinks really hot
lol don... (read in full...)
I am female but very attracted to my best girlfriend, am I bi-sexual?
Q. so this is kinda hard to talk about but i kind of think im bi? im turnin 14 and i guess yu can say im kinda having feelings for my best friend,like i tend to stare at her constinly,and she kinda gets me horny. what should i do?...
A. 1 June 2009: im 14 and i genuenly think its the age because you have so many hormones flying around
because im quet attracted to one of my best girl mates so dont worry about it just be yourself and if you do start to develop stronger feelings anought to say ... (read in full...)
I think I'm bi, but I feel I have no way to know
Q. This sounds so silly, but to put it bluntly, I am a sexually confused teenage girl. I have never been in a relationship, never actually done anything, shit, i haven't even had my first kiss yet.(can you say doofus?) But still I think I'm a sexual ...
A. 1 June 2009: i feel the exsact same way
iv never done anything
with either sex
but i know how your feeling
does whatching girl on girl turn you on
not to be blunt but it does me
and i thought about it and i decided i couldnt be in a relation ship wi... (read in full...)
Ladies, I have a lot of pubic hair which I want removed, how do I ask my mom to get me something that will take care of it, did you ever have this problem?
Q. This question is only for girls. I am thirteen and going thu puberty... obviously. any way I have a lot of pubic hair that show on the bekini line and I really want my mom to buy me nair wax strips for bikini lone or something like that but...
A. 30 May 2009: if you need your mum to drive you into town
why dont you ask her iof youcanhave a lift into town when shes going go and get itand meet her when shes going back?
and take a big bad to putit in and say you bought nothing :)
or if you in town with he... (read in full...)
Why did my period end so soon and was so late?
Q. Hi, was having unprotected sex with boyfriend for about seven weeks. Period was three weeks late and finished after two days (my periods last 5 days) tests came up negative, and i took four including a hospital one. Whats going on with my body? Wh...
A. 30 May 2009: dont worry i didnt have my perod for 3 monthes then it came back but only lasted about 2-3 days have you been cutting down what you eat or not eating alot atall because i think that was my problem it will be fine everyones eragular at so... (read in full...)
Ladies, I have a lot of pubic hair which I want removed, how do I ask my mom to get me something that will take care of it, did you ever have this problem?
Q. This question is only for girls. I am thirteen and going thu puberty... obviously. any way I have a lot of pubic hair that show on the bekini line and I really want my mom to buy me nair wax strips for bikini lone or something like that but...
A. 29 May 2009: if you feel really awkward about speaking to her just buy it yourself thats what i do or ask if you can borrow some money and buy it. When i first came on my period i didnt say anything to my mum until i needed more towels which i hated using but ... (read in full...)
Ever since I told him I like him, he has stopped talking me!
Q. There's this guy and we're close acquaintances. We know each other from school and we used to be friendly(thought he liked me for a while but something came up). He has a gf. A girlfriend that has no feelings for him whatsoever. I think he just ...
A. 29 May 2009: this is basically the same aswhats happened to me onlt the guy i liked made up a packof bullshit about having a gf when he didnt he just said he did so i wouldnt ask him out and whenhe knew i found out the truth a few weeks later we started getting ... (read in full...)
Help with snogging and relationships...
Q. 14 nearly 15 and i remain loveless, iv been in one relationship and all we got to was just kissing on the lips no snogging ect no ones really wants me andi dont know why i spose im not bad looking im not fat im fairly thin and athletic tall i dont ...
A. 29 May 2009: thanks for all your replys so far they've helped :)... (read in full...)
I don't know how to 'snog' - any advice?
Q. Oke so i am 15 neally 16 and i dont know how to snog. Girls keep asking me out and i say no then ma m8s say why did you say no she is hot so i gotta keep makin excuses. Can sum ppl give me some advice on how to snog?Would love to have a gf to send ...
A. 27 May 2009: im 15 and tbh i guess im just like you but im a girl and there not many lads like you id love one
dont worry if there bad with it (the girl that is) there not worth it :)... (read in full...)
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