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writes:iv thought i was bi for a while now last night i had a dream and me and the girl i know from athletics were kissing and like getting off with each other and iv been thinking about her i have done before i meanshes really pritty shes kinda boy ish but shes naturally pritty she has a reall great personality she doesnt know i think im bi i dont really know how to get to know her out of athletics im going to ask for her number when i next see her she doesnt have msn or out but shes like in year 8 and im in year 10 but i thought about it and id be bothered if it was a boy that age but not a girl. anyway im not sure if this really does mean im bi cause i've thought i was for awile now but im not so suree tbh so anyway if anyone can help me figure this out and stuff xoox
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2009): Is it possible she thought YOU weren't supportive of the whole bi thing? Like maybe she thought you were mocking her in your head?Well, like you said, I think she would be more likely to talk to you about if she knew why you were asking. She may feel less cornered and more happy to be of help. Talking to her was a pretty brave step in my opionion, so i think that if you could do that, you can move the convo up to specifics. ~SY.
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reader, well-help +, writes (22 June 2009):
well-help is verified as being by the original poster of the question im writting on this because io dont see the point in writing another question ....
i saw the girl today and we kinda talked
and shewas kinda closed about things
like i said how'd you know you were bi
and she said i just did
its private ;/
which means she doesntwant to talk about why which i can understand but i dont think she knows i think i am so maybe if i told her she'd be more open?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2009): I think that since she has been through the whole "coming out" proccess, she will be understanding of you. I would jsut sit down with her alone and have a heart to heart. Tell her about how you're conflicting with yourself and you really think you want to be with her, and have thought so for a while, but you're afraid. And I think she will work with you and try to help you understand what's going on in your head.
I think the only way here is to be straightforward with her.
~SY.
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reader, well-help +, writes (20 June 2009):
well-help is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyeah i guess but i dontknow how to go about that ;/
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2009): Well then i think the only way to figure out who you really are, is to get out there and test it. You'll never know how you really feel about being with a girl, if you are never actually with a girl.
~SY
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reader, well-help +, writes (15 June 2009):
well-help is verified as being by the original poster of the questionjust so you both know before this dream i have thought i was bi for quite a while i have liked this other girl in my year too
but i've never been sire if i actually was or iv just been trying to make myself think im not i quess
oh and she is bi and shes alot morre mature then her age
shes been bi way before i thought i was anyway thanks anyway
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reader, well-help +, writes (15 June 2009):
well-help is verified as being by the original poster of the questionjust so you both know before this dream i have thought i was bi for quite a while i have liked this other girl in my year too
but i've never been sire if i actually was or iv just been trying to make myself think im not i quess
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reader, Smellyellie +, writes (15 June 2009):
 Your still young so this could just be your mind trying new tricks on you and your body wanting to explore a little bit more..
Ask her for her number and see what happens between you but the chances are that if she is in year eight then there is a highly likely chance that she doesn't think in that way at all and remember that as soon as you hit sixteen if anything did happen then it is illegal and at the moment it is also illegal as you are under sixteen.. Good luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2009): Dreams don't always have such a blunt, obvious meaning, but in several instances of bisexuality dreams, it does mean that you have an inner desire to broaden your sexuality and experiment; that prehaps you're not completely satisfied with what you have now. It also applies to braodening your MIND as opposed to sexuality, so don't think that you need to experiment with her physically. You may be happy just for now to seek companionship and further your relationshup with her.
Either way is perfectly fine.
~SY.
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