Worried that the home we live in isn't in our joint names!
Q. Hi My guy and I have been together just over 4 years we have a daughter whos nearly 3 I have 2 by my ex.My partner doesnt want to Marry he has 5 properties 4 rented out 1 we live in,I help pay some bills do 99% of the house work and childcare he ...
A. 8 October 2007: Hi Thankyou for your replies.
He has brough 3 properties whilst with me all 3 I have help renovate and pay bills towards and I deal with all his tenants problems too.
I asked yesterday if he would put my name on the house deeds just 20% where we... (read in full...)
Embarassed about online dating
Q. Embarassed about online dating Hi everyone, This may sound really silly, but I find myself feeling embarassed about using an online dating site. Only one of my friends knows I am on Agematch.com and that is because we both joined together!...
A. 14 September 2007: HI I meet my partner of over 4 years on a blind date......We tell everyone we meet whilst on a night out,everyones doing online dating but its your secret and no-ones business!The only thing is are you giving snobby vibes off to the guys you meet ... (read in full...)
He's so interesting it makes me feel boring...
Q. I don't know what's wrong with me. I found an old classmate who used to go to college with me on facebook and we sent messages back and forth and found we had a lot in common.He is so interesting, incredibly well-read and intelligent, and is pretty ...
A. 14 September 2007: Hi did this guy not want to talk about 'normal' everyday stuff?if your not clicking in the conversation part then maybe its best to just stay friends........Sounds like he liked the sound of his own voice hun?
You sound great and you'll meet mr grea... (read in full...)
Is it ok to mess with other girls when she's in college?
Q. It's very hard to see my girlfriend in college while I'm still in high school and I'm feeling extremely lonely. If you love someone, is it ok to mess with other girls when she's in college?...
A. 14 September 2007: Hi If you truly love someone you wouldnt even think about 'messing' around with someone else?Maybe you should end the relationship before someone gets hurt,your both young and it saves alot of heartache long term?x... (read in full...)
How can I tell him that I think it is not wrong but risky for me to go to his house without hurting his feelings?
Q. I enjoy going over to my boyfriend's house to watch movies together. We have even had sex, but not intercourse. However, every time we get together we have almost had intercourse at the last minute. I don't want intercourse because I don't want ...
A. 14 September 2007: Hi. If he loves you and has respectful feelings for you he'll wait. If he won't, he's not worth having. I would avoid sexual things with him until he realises your not ready for full sex, as it may make him resent you. Be careful and stay away from ... (read in full...)
My ex said he gets sad and lonely - should I tell him that I still have feelings for him?
Q. I was in a short relationship last year, around 2 months. He broke up with me after 2 months saying that it was him and not me. I was so confused as when we were together he would tell me that he has never been so happy. After a year i haven't s...
A. 13 September 2007: Hes just talking to you telling you hes lonely,I wouldnt go back to him 2nd chances usually dont work.Try not contacting him as in time you will forget him,hes keeping you dangling to have you there hes not stupid he knows how you feel about ... (read in full...)
My bf gets snippy with me, and says that it's a perception problem on my part! But it's not.
Q. I've been with my amazing and live-in boyfriend for almost 4 years now, and just the other day I confronted him about his lack of patience with me. At times, he tends to speak to me in a snippy tone of voice that makes me feel like he can't stand ...
A. 13 September 2007: Hi He cant see it as he doesnt want to and what ever you say and do isnt going to change that?You need to accept this is part of him or move on.You could also do things that annoy him you dont realise,self annalise yourself and look at yourself ... (read in full...)
I lied about my age and our relationship is getting really serious! What do I do??
Q. okay let me start like this amd my boyfriend started dateing 5 months ago and i lied about my age and he is about to be 17 and im 3 years younger then him but we are like really serious about our realtionship and i dont know what to do ...
A. 13 September 2007: Hi how old did you say you were? If hes nearly 17 and you 14 then you need to be honest as he might like to have sex,if youve told him your 16-17 hes going to be mislead into thinking you are old enough when you could get him into trouble?... (read in full...)
Is this his way of letting me know he wants to leave me?
Q. i had a arguement with my bf at the weekend, well if that is was u can call it. i seem to be quite off with him lately, mainly over textes, just coz i dont see him that much, and this is a new relationship. he saids its coz hes tired and i ...
A. 13 September 2007: Hi the only way to find out is too ask him directly?
Say I really need the truth do you still want to see me,if he says yes then you need to say I would like to see more of you,if he makes excuses then you know hes just keeping you dangling inca... (read in full...)
Does it make me a bad person to do something for myself for once?
Q. What are peoples reactions to thinking of number one. I have spent my whole life making others happy over myself, being walked all over, let down, used and a human punchbag (verbally) for peoples problems. Does it make me a bad person to do so...
A. 13 September 2007: Hi If this person lets you down all the time then they have all the you time they deserve,you go for it and forget your unreliable friend x... (read in full...)
Why do some people have to be so rude on DearCupid?
Q. i have a question. why do some people have to be so rude on here. whats the point in asking for help when your just going to get ridiculed half the time and not taken seriously. i believe if they need help, help the person if your just going to ...
A. 13 September 2007: Yes I asked a emotional question for a person who kept themselves secret to reply I have no self worth?This person shouldnt really answer questions as they havent an intelligent thing to say,the trouble is a really emotional person could of taken ... (read in full...)
Because of my abusive ex, my mum says I'm not allowed to date until I finish uni!
Q. I need some help!!! There is this guy I have recently met who I really like and he likes me back too! He asked me out on a date for next week and I said yes. However heres my problem...I dont think my mum will be happy. See my last relationshi...
A. 13 September 2007: Hi You are very grown up and understand how your mum feels thats a great start.I have 3 girls all 12 and under so I have this to come :O) Your mum's worried you will not do well at uni and understandably wants to make sure you get your qualific... (read in full...)
Does it make me a bad person to do something for myself for once?
Q. What are peoples reactions to thinking of number one. I have spent my whole life making others happy over myself, being walked all over, let down, used and a human punchbag (verbally) for peoples problems. Does it make me a bad person to do so...
A. 13 September 2007: Hi I too was like you always keep everyone else happy and me last?WHY?It makes us unhappy and inturn makes loved ones unhappy doesnt it?
You havent said what you want to do to make your self your 1st pirority?It depends whats involved?
x... (read in full...)
I fancy someone else more than my fiancee!
Q. Im a mum of 1, and were planning our wedding for next year, but i have more feelings for another male then i do my fiance. this other male feels the same bout me, and i keep sneaking round there to see him behind my partners back. I am so confused ...
A. 13 September 2007: Hi There
What you need to ask yourself is if your feeling this way is for WHY?
Is it pre wedding nerves?
Is there problems with your fiance?
Does this new gut=y make home problems disappear?
Are you bored at home?
If you answer the above que... (read in full...)
I love this man! But, we have trust issues. Please give me some sensible advice.
Q. hi everyone,i hope someone can give me a sensible answer,without accusing me of anything as i seem to see a lot of aunts making assumptions,when its advice people are asking for.i been with my fella just under four years and the first 2 were kind of ...
A. 13 September 2007: Hi There There is some reason why he is qustioning you.....The trouble is you have to think long and hard as what it may be?Has something happened recently to make him feel insecure?Do you say spend more time online then you used to?Are friends ... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and the 22 year old guy I met online wants to meet me!
Q. I met this boy over a chat room started talking but the problem is hes 22 im only 14 i know hes not an old man or anything becasue he sent me a picture with my name on i told him first that i thought he was a fake but now i know hes not. He wants ...
A. 13 September 2007: This guy should be reported to the police,if this was your best friend wanting to meet a stranger from the net at least 6 years older than her what would you say.Severe contact with him and report him to the police........Please dont meet him if you ... (read in full...)
I want to attract my bf more, to be sure he never leaves (we marry next year.)
Q. i want to attract my boyfriend more, i know he is truly in love with me, and im his only girlfriend,we wanted to marry but because of some truble in our job and study it has been postponed, so we wanna marry the next year, but untill that i want to ...
A. 13 September 2007: Hi Im glad that you have found your true love BUT nothing wioll stop him leaving you if he doesnt want to be with you hey?
What may drive him away is your projection of ''hes mine and I want to keep him forever?'' He loves you hes with you and he w... (read in full...)
We both want sex, but she loves me and I don't love her. Is this right?
Q. hey, im fifteen years old. I want to have sex with this girl. I think she pretty, sexy, and mad hott. we went out for a little bit and from that I got a blow job. Some issues arrose and I broke up with her. She's in love with me and I want to have ...
A. 13 September 2007: Hi dont do it,shes in love with you as it is and after sex she will be really inlove with you..........also the Baby thing many girls like to have babys these days so dont have sex until your older have found the right girl and the time is right as ... (read in full...)
Would getting in shape and getting a job make me more attractive?
Q. Looking for a womans advice here... I'm not in the best of shape (I'm not fat, but I ama bit above average), and I'm unemployed atm, I was wondering if I would appear more attractive to women if I got into bettr shape and landed myself a job. ...
A. 13 September 2007: Hi being overweight isnt what makes you unattractive its all in how you portray yourself to people,I have been overweight and slim and the times I attract people to me is when Im full of confidence.When we radiate Confidence it makes people want to ... (read in full...)
I feel like he isnt commited to me and the children keeping his options open for encase someone new comes along. What should I do?
Q. Hi I really need some advice LONG story sorry. Im with my partner over over 4 years,he is 40 im 37 we have a 2 1/2 year old daughter,I have 2 children from my ex marriage which ended 51/2 years ago I was married to an alcholic I was with him 16 y...
A. 13 September 2007: Thankyou for replying,you see I think you did the right thing and I hope you are ok and happy,my guy still says we will marry one day and hes never asked me to leave his house he says its my home too,but I feel marriage is very important especially ... (read in full...)
I feel like he isnt commited to me and the children keeping his options open for encase someone new comes along. What should I do?
Q. Hi I really need some advice LONG story sorry. Im with my partner over over 4 years,he is 40 im 37 we have a 2 1/2 year old daughter,I have 2 children from my ex marriage which ended 51/2 years ago I was married to an alcholic I was with him 16 y...
A. 7 September 2007: QUOTEA female reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2007):
He won't commit to you. And he wanted a child with you? Why? To me, he sounds like he has a screw loose. Why would you want another kid with him when you knew he was a sexaholic or... (read in full...)
I feel like he isnt commited to me and the children keeping his options open for encase someone new comes along. What should I do?
Q. Hi I really need some advice LONG story sorry. Im with my partner over over 4 years,he is 40 im 37 we have a 2 1/2 year old daughter,I have 2 children from my ex marriage which ended 51/2 years ago I was married to an alcholic I was with him 16 y...
A. 7 September 2007: Hi Its easy to say change the situation but I have no where to go if I leave with 3 children and no network of support it is going to be very hard isnt it? How can I can the situation to one of getting him to commit I cant? What would you do?... (read in full...)
We own our home together but the problem is I want to get married and he doesn't.
Q. Dear Cupid, My partner and I have lived together for 3 years and have a 16 month old baby together. We own our home together but the problem is I want to get married and he doesn't. He has 3 other children all in their twenties now. What would ...
A. 7 September 2007: Hi I can completely relate to you Im with my partner 4+ years we have a daughter who's 3 soon I live in his house he has 5 properties rented out and I pay into our home do 99% of the house work and he wont put my name on it..... You are in a good p... (read in full...)
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