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Am I being emotionally and physically abused here?

Q.   I'm about to be 19 in a couple days and I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. We have frequent amount of arguments every other day. Our most recent one was about me getting a tattoo of my youngest sisters' name for my birthday. He ...

A.   28 April 2009: Straight to the point you don't deserve this kind of treatment. God created you. He said he didn't make no juke, and that means you dear.you would have been a punching bag if that's what he wanted you to be, but your a lovely human being and ... (read in full...)

We've broken up; how do I care for my son as I move on?

Q.   Hi, I have been through a seperation. I have done a lot of soul searching in the time since we seperated (1/half). I still have feelings for my ex and realise that I probably always will as we were together for some time and have a child ...

A.   28 April 2009: First of all i do know how you feel. I myself is in a similar situation. my husband and i have been together for 13yr. 10 of those we were married. we seperated 4mo ago, i have a daughter . she is a bright child and knew momma and daddy weren't ... (read in full...)

I want to love him but I don't know how...

Q.   I am married but I dont love my husband. I dont like his physical appearance thats why I cant accept him physically..But I still married him for 2 years because I was afraid of being single. I thought I will fall in love with him once we get married ...

A.   26 April 2009: How could you do that to him if you never loved him you shouldn't have say" i do". People today get married for all the wrong reasons and it not fair to the other person. You have to talk with him and work this out you can find something in his ... (read in full...)

I'm enjoying the best of both worlds...

Q.   I'm cheating on my husband with his best friend and I don't want to stop. I love him very much and our sex life is great... but I enjoy sex with his friend too. What should I do?...

A.   23 April 2009: You know what i'm not telling you anything. you will get yours it's coming soon. your husbands "best friend" on the other hand if i had friend's like that...... baby i don't need them type in my life i'd rather have enemies,CUZ IT WOULD HURT ALOT ... (read in full...)

He smelled awful!!!

Q.   Hi aunts, I really need some advice, I've been going out with a boy for a while and tonight for the first time we discovered a little more about each other and when he pulled down his boxers a horrible smell came, it was so ghastly that I wanted to ...

A.   23 April 2009: I agree with crimson kiss, if you really care about him be honest with him. you don't just break up with some before you know what's happening. he may have come from work or working out, not planning to go that far. so talk to him about it and if it ... (read in full...)

What can I do to make sure I am 'tight' for our wedding night?

Q.   Eight and a bit years ago, I was 13 and raped by a stranger in a parking area. I'm now turning 22 and have not done sex any time after that. I'm engaged to a man I been with for 5 years. he knows about my being raped those many years ago and has ...

A.   19 April 2009: you said you did't have sex for about eight yrs,than you should be ok!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!... (read in full...)

Men - Can you hold and cuddle a woman all night if you don't really have any feelings for them??

Q.   Men - Can you hold and cuddle a woman all night if you don't really have any feelings for them?? My boyfriend and I snuggle up in bed at night but as yet he hasn't really made a passionate move on me! - He cannot be shy as he already has a child wi...

A.   16 April 2009: How about this man really cares about you and just want to be intimate with you. Maybe he feels if he start a sexual relationship things would change between you and he. I don't think any man would cuddle up with you all night if he didn't to or ... (read in full...)

In love and scared to death...

Q.   I'm totally in love with this guy at work. He is 34 and I am 42. This doesn't seem to bother him....he started flirting with me in a very gentle shy way...calling for no reason....wished me a Happy St. Pat's day (I'm Irish and he's Latino) ---showi...

A.   7 April 2009: Be careful please don't ever think what you see is what he is. you were in a vulnerable state when he started showing you some attention. He may seem to be mr. perfect, but you need to get to know him better cuz your feelings may be a cover up of ... (read in full...)

What is your opinions on his actions?

Q.   Right. So before I start I don't want to be lectured for the subject of the question. I know that having a relationship with a teacher is wrong, I just want your opinions on his actions, so if you could leave it to that it would be great thanks. M...

A.   7 April 2009: You need to report him he shouldn't be flirting with a student trust me when i say, if it comes out he will turn the table on you and say you where flirting with him ruining your high school years.Protect your reputation. ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend wants to keep our relationship a secret whereas I want to tell the world!

Q.   my boyfriend is 17 and i am 15 he said for me not to tell anyone about us going out because he thinks people will call him a perv for going out with me. i'v talked to him about it but he just doesn't want anyone to know and keeps changing his story ...

A.   7 April 2009: I agree run very fast, his up to no good. If your not good enough to be out in public with your so called boyfriend, than baby he isn't worth your time. Find someone who will respect you, not hide you.... (read in full...)

What's your dream girl/guy?

Q.   If you could have a dream girl/guy what would they be like??...

A.   23 March 2009: my dream man is someone who i can connect with on all levels, not just sexually.someone who can't wait to get home after work so we spend time together,and talk about our day. just to feel like we the only people in the world for each other. a men ... (read in full...)

Tormented woman needs coaching

Q.   Can someone help me think of the right words to say now that I have decided to take a painful step? I have known a man through work for a little more than a year now. From the moment we met I felt that unbelievable chemistry you always hear about, ...

A.   13 March 2009: I can understand how you feel,ihave been in this same situation before. However my marriage was ending when it happened and the guy wasn't married,but in a long relationship with one kid at the time. Now he has another baby and that change our ... (read in full...)

He's too nice and its annoying me!!

Q.   Hi, this sounds sooo stupid but its been really bugging me for so long. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 5 yrs and he really is the nicest person...i swear he is a saint! Nothing is never any trouble for him and he never has anything ba...

A.   12 March 2009: Why are you bothered because he is nice.you should be very happy you have a man that what to treat you like a queen.Do u know how many women that's looking for a good man that would love and respect them with his whole heart,girl you have a rare gem ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend nightmares

Q.   Hi I have a problem - I have a long term boyfriend who used to treat me really badly and he used to make me do things I didn't want to do - and this has affected our relationship, as I don't feel like I can ask him for anything or approach him for ...

A.   21 February 2009: Drop the zero and welcome a hero in your life im sure u treated this person with love and respect and i do believe you deserve that some love and respect,... (read in full...)

Will he still like me? Some advice? Please answer.

Q.   so,i like this guy very much and don't want to loose him.he liked me for 1 year and 4 months.yesterday,when we finished school,i and my friend were waiting for another girl to come.as time was passing,i saw him and his best friend heading out of the ...

A.   21 February 2009: try it want hurt you to say hello, if he don't respond u will live.my guess is he was trying to get your attention,so get his. ... (read in full...)

He doesn't show his affection, am I doing something wrong? Just want to feel loved...

Q.   Okay I've been coming to you guys for advice for time and a half and its always been great, so my predicament now is with.. my bf. Okay, him and I have been dating for about half a year now and I'm head over heels for him, and he says hes the same ...

A.   23 December 2008: Love your self. start doing things like hanging out with friends get dressed up go out. Try it betcha he start paying attention then. Worked for me cant get him away now. ... (read in full...)

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