I suffer from fear of having sex, help?
Q. I am fortunate enough to be a young female starting my third year of college, and I'm currently in a relationship with someone who I truly care about. Not only do I love and trust my boyfriend more than anything, but he has also been my best friend ...
A. 14 May 2012: Really, you are suffering from what you've allowed to go crazy in your head, rather than anything that is REAL. Everyone is different and I, as a guy, love seeing what is different about girls' bodies. Your boyfriend will only admire everything ... (read in full...)
My partner left his wife to be with me so I got what I wanted in the end, but I cant stop feeling horrible about what we did....
Q. I worked as a nanny for a family with a infant son for the past 2 1/2 years. "Lisa" the mom was a workaholic who loved her social life when she wasnt working, "Rick" the father was very good looking and he knew it and would playfully flirt with ...
A. 11 May 2012: Ceberus was a bit harsh on you. i think you will have to live with your guilt for the time being. Try and keep it secret for a few months, cos you never know, having him to yourself might not be as pleasurable as you once thought. it's true that if ... (read in full...)
After we had sex is when he told me he wasn't looking for anything serious.
Q. I started to date this guy, he's 26 and I'm 18. I was really excited because my friends is going out with his brother and it also happened that we had a lot in common. So tonight we were on a date and things got kind of heated and we ended up ...
A. 8 May 2012: I think most people are saying it right here. A guy won't be interested after he's had sex. It's not that he doesn't like you but you didn't give him anything to respect and he got the sex too easily; guys switch off at that point. The truth is, ... (read in full...)
I don't know how to handle this stage of our relationship
Q. I have posted problems re. my girl and me before. Just to provide summary. She is 25 years younger than me and we are related through a mutual sister in that her mum and my dad are our little sister's parents. This makes us step-brother and sister, ...
A. 8 May 2012: Hi,
I'm writing this to update on my relationship. Hopefully, you can see the other threads. My 25 years younger girlfriend is now 20 and we have finally finished after a few abortive attempts to do so. I guess I took others' advice, although I fe... (read in full...)
I don't know how to handle this stage of our relationship
Q. I have posted problems re. my girl and me before. Just to provide summary. She is 25 years younger than me and we are related through a mutual sister in that her mum and my dad are our little sister's parents. This makes us step-brother and sister, ...
A. 8 March 2011: Thanks for coming back with this response. I agree with you. It got to the point last week when I was trying to correct her writing because it's sometimes illegible and we had a row where we contemplated splitting up but didn't. I need to stop being ... (read in full...)
Involved with much younger sister in law and now we broke up, should I try to get her back?
Q. I posted my problem on here last year and got really lambasted. I was having a clandestine relationship with my step-sister and she was 25 years younger than I. She is 18, I am 43. Our parents are not actually married but obviously, our links to the ...
A. 6 March 2011: Hi Artistry (and anyone else interested) You might not be too happy to know that that impasse was a false beginning. She only didn't call because her phone wasn't working and when she called she still expected me to visit her. Obviously, I find it ... (read in full...)
She was very promiscous in the past but with me she is boring in the bedroom! What is going on here?
Q. An interesting quote I found: "You do not need to know too much about her past. Behind the colorful fabrics, that closet has skeletons" I think i need to get this off my chest, I unfortunately don't really have anyone to discuss this with right ...
A. 5 March 2011: Hi, what happened when you spoke to her?... (read in full...)
Involved with much younger sister in law and now we broke up, should I try to get her back?
Q. I posted my problem on here last year and got really lambasted. I was having a clandestine relationship with my step-sister and she was 25 years younger than I. She is 18, I am 43. Our parents are not actually married but obviously, our links to the ...
A. 28 February 2011: Thanks Artistry. I think you are right. Although we had a long chat yesterday (about nothing significant), today I haven't heard from her and this is the first time in two years that I have not had a call or text from her, or given a call or text, ... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and pregnant - what will happen to my child, and the father?
Q. I'm 14 and pregnant and i'm not getting rid of it, but if I don't what will happen to the father of my child?, and would social services take it off me? ...
A. 25 February 2011: If the father is over 16, he will be in a lot of trouble. Especially if he is over 18, he'll end up going to prison. Social services won't take your baby away cos you're 14 but they will if they think you will be an unsafe mother. I don't know that ... (read in full...)
She was very promiscous in the past but with me she is boring in the bedroom! What is going on here?
Q. An interesting quote I found: "You do not need to know too much about her past. Behind the colorful fabrics, that closet has skeletons" I think i need to get this off my chest, I unfortunately don't really have anyone to discuss this with right ...
A. 23 February 2011: I'm not a woman so I can't give a woman's perspective. I think that she might be trying to change her ways. What she doesn't realise is that she should change her public profile but in private, she can be as adventurous as you would like her to be. ... (read in full...)
Involved with much younger sister in law and now we broke up, should I try to get her back?
Q. I posted my problem on here last year and got really lambasted. I was having a clandestine relationship with my step-sister and she was 25 years younger than I. She is 18, I am 43. Our parents are not actually married but obviously, our links to the ...
A. 23 February 2011: Thanks for that.It does seem that with every day since i posted this problem, developments occur. She was really trying to get me to go and see her and she wasn't happy that I couldn't (due to other commitments more than any feelings) I will go and ... (read in full...)
Did I do the right thing in not being in the same bed as my friends who were messing around? And how do I face them tomorrow?
Q. Okay I am not a pretty girl, I am not into going out all the time or drinking, drugs, etc. but what happened tonight has made my life slope bad so here it goes: this is my story! I have liked this guy for 3 months now. He's sweet, nice, and kind t...
A. 22 February 2011: I think you should try to stay out of it too. Your friend and this guy were not being too respectful towards you but I guess they were overcome by lust. Let them face the consequences; you don't need to bring it on them by saying anything. I think ... (read in full...)
I'd like to approach my wife about using a big dong on her. Need advice. Also, does anyone have experience with this?
Q. I would like to approach my wife about using a dong in our sexual relationship, but would like some help on how to approach her. Since having 3 children, things aren't as tight as they used to be...and that's just fine. However, because of this ...
A. 22 February 2011: I think the truth is, your wife is a little embarrassed to talk about how much wider her 'baby shute' is, that's why she says nothing when you put her whole hand up there. I don't know what it feels like obviously, but I'm pretty sure she knows w... (read in full...)
I don't know how to handle this stage of our relationship
Q. I have posted problems re. my girl and me before. Just to provide summary. She is 25 years younger than me and we are related through a mutual sister in that her mum and my dad are our little sister's parents. This makes us step-brother and sister, ...
A. 21 February 2011: By the way, I'm not anonymous!... (read in full...)
I don't know how to handle this stage of our relationship
Q. I have posted problems re. my girl and me before. Just to provide summary. She is 25 years younger than me and we are related through a mutual sister in that her mum and my dad are our little sister's parents. This makes us step-brother and sister, ...
A. 21 February 2011: You are called OhGetReal as a kind of note to self, aren't you?
Healthy relationships do have an element of ego about them. When you feel good to be with someone that is ego gratification but it is not necessarily a bad thing, especially when you ... (read in full...)
She wants a two week break, what do I do?
Q. I am 45 year old male, I've being dating a woman the same age, last week she told me she wants two weeks space. Does this mean she wants a clean break, I like her a lot and she says she likes me to but I'm confused. She won't answer my texts so what ...
A. 21 February 2011: It's really hard when you like someone and you have to not text or call or see them. Every day is a punishment; just getting through it takes a week, as the songs always say.
If she wants a break, then it probably isn't that positive. I don't kn... (read in full...)
I don't know how to handle this stage of our relationship
Q. I have posted problems re. my girl and me before. Just to provide summary. She is 25 years younger than me and we are related through a mutual sister in that her mum and my dad are our little sister's parents. This makes us step-brother and sister, ...
A. 21 February 2011: By the way, you might think that at 44 I am some pot-bellied, balding, wrinkly fella but I'm not. Her friends think I am in my twenties. I must admit I'm having traumas about my hair which is less thick than it was but if people look surprised when ... (read in full...)
I don't know how to handle this stage of our relationship
Q. I have posted problems re. my girl and me before. Just to provide summary. She is 25 years younger than me and we are related through a mutual sister in that her mum and my dad are our little sister's parents. This makes us step-brother and sister, ...
A. 21 February 2011: This is directed at OhGetReal: Everyone has a reason to be in a relationship and if the person you are with doesn't feed your ego ie makes you feel good about yourself, you probably don't like them enough. Her making me feel good about myself ... (read in full...)
I don't know how to handle this stage of our relationship
Q. I have posted problems re. my girl and me before. Just to provide summary. She is 25 years younger than me and we are related through a mutual sister in that her mum and my dad are our little sister's parents. This makes us step-brother and sister, ...
A. 19 February 2011: Thanks for your advice. I'm glad you focus on us as a couple, as most tend to concentrate on the age thing or the fact of our family ties. Whenever we talk, it seems we need each other for varying reasons. I'm not the kind of guy to easily upset ... (read in full...)
What do I do with my intense love/hate relationship with my gf??
Q. I don't know what to do anymore, because my ex and I have a love-hate relationship. I've lost count of how many times she's dumped me and vice versa. Both of she and I work so hard to stay out of each others way so we can move on but then l...
A. 19 February 2011: Gosh, I cannot understand how you two are still together. There is obviously chemistry there and you must both get a kind of painful kick out of fighting one another. You'll just have to stick it out until the resultant feelings from one of your ... (read in full...)
Now that I'm older, I have no idea what he saw in me at that age. How can I process this?
Q. When I was 18, I began dating a man who was 25. At first my friends and family were wary of the age gap, but we clicked and he turned out to be the love of my life. I'm 23 now, he's 30, and we're still together. Throughout our relationship, I ...
A. 19 February 2011: It's a real shame that you are thinking this way because, from your description, you have a great deal in common with your man and five years on, you and he are still going strong.
I know we are socialised to consider our potential partners... (read in full...)
Involved with much younger sister in law and now we broke up, should I try to get her back?
Q. I posted my problem on here last year and got really lambasted. I was having a clandestine relationship with my step-sister and she was 25 years younger than I. She is 18, I am 43. Our parents are not actually married but obviously, our links to the ...
A. 18 February 2011: Thanks for the replies I got. Sorry I didn't update but here is the latest update on my girl and me. Just to provide summary. She is 25 years younger than me and we are related through a mutual sister and than her mum and my dad are our sister's ... (read in full...)
My brother-in-law sexually molested me.
Q. Dear kind soul out there, I want to overcome the sadness that is haunting me for almost 7 years now. I just felt I need someone to tell to ease the pain. It started when I was 18 years old in August, 2002. I live on the 5th floor apartment with my ...
A. 6 April 2010: Your brother-in-law has been terribly behaved. It is not your fault. You just tried to be a sister with him and he took advantage of your youth and physical weakness, compared to him. Try not to dwell on things you could have done differently when ... (read in full...)
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