I'm only 34 but I feel like my life is over
Q. hey everyone i really need a sympathetic ear here. im 34 years old and feel life is over. im in a dead end job, in a debt programme for the next 4 years and am alone. everyone around me is happy engaged or married and i seem to only be with peo...
A. 27 October 2009: you know i still feel low but hearing all your positive words to me helps thanku for caring xx... (read in full...)
I feel sad he has done this to rub my face in it
Q. My recently married ex from 6 years ago contacted me to be a facebook friend. I thought it was just to clear the air from our messy breakup - instead i went on his profile and it was covered in wedding pictures and the picture had been updated just ...
A. 28 July 2009: hey sweetie thanks for answering.
im actually quite distraught by this-its almost like hes got in contact with me and did that and now has said to the bitchy girl to contact me maybe to see if i talk about him
its almost not like the same gu... (read in full...)
Why am I upset that my ex got married?
Q. i cant understand why this is bothering me my ex fiance got married 6 months ago and hearing it has upset me quite badly. when we were together we were together about 4 years we got engaged and the ring he got me cost 15.99- we were both on goo...
A. 23 July 2009: Trish thanku so much x and everyone else youre very kind x... (read in full...)
He criticized my breast size now I can't get over it!
Q. hello my ex has made many mitigating statements of how small my breasts are. He had his new girlfriend mock me. She told me how he laughed with her about me for having small breast. She compared herself to me and made me feel so insecured. Eversinc...
A. 19 July 2009: well for a start i would ignore this guy -hes a pig !
this new girl of his sounds a right one too.
you are fine OK ?
do not let these cretins get you down for a moment longer.
im sure he has plenty of faults be the bigger person-i wo... (read in full...)
Why stay married if I don't feel loved? Then again, is divorce always the wrong choice?
Q. What is the main reasons of staying a marriage if it does not work? When is the limit of bad things? What if it's not bad enough to leave, but not good enough to stay? I have security, and stabilty. But I don't have affection, joy and fun. Am...
A. 13 July 2009: hi
at the end of the day you have to say to yourself is your marriage worth saving or not.
25 years is a lot of invested time and emotion
are you sure youre not just bored and things have gone stale ?
is there anyway you could talk to y... (read in full...)
I've just broken up with the love of my life :(.
Q. I broke up with my girlfriend of 21 months last night and I'm not quite sure what to do now. She said she doesn't love me anymore and when she first told me she loved me she didn't mean it, and I don't know if I believe that she doesn't because ...
A. 12 July 2009: hey there
i can so sympathise with how youre feeling right now as im going through a similar thing.
has your girl cut you right off or are you still talking.
you could try writing a letter going into detail explaining how you feel ... (read in full...)
I cannot forgive myself for my past mistakes
Q. theres something wrong with me. i cant ever seem to feel good about myself. recently i heard my ex got married and i was very upset by this news-so much so ive been in tears o and off the last 3 months-i know im sad at the same time ive just...
A. 12 July 2009: i just wanted to say thank you to those who have commented. when youre feeling as low as i am to hear nice comments means a lot thank you... (read in full...)
I don't want to lose my family but I'm not happy in the relationship
Q. hi, i need your help/advice im in a relationship have been for seven years we have two children, this is my problem, i love my partner to bits but theres another man that i really like i think i maybe falling in love with him!! i dont want t...
A. 11 July 2009: hi
at the same time though you dont want to stay in a relationship youre not happy in.
you have two options:
break all contact with the guy you like and do your damnest to fix your relationship-if its no good then walk away OR
leave your... (read in full...)
We are attracted to each other, but both of us have families
Q. please help, i am deeply confused. i have been with my partner for 14 years and have 3 children. i do love my partner but i am not in love with him any more, we argue a lot and he can be very hurtful with the things he says to me, which i wont g...
A. 11 July 2009: hey hope youre ok
the reason i think these feelings are so intense is because of all the stress you are currently having with your husband.
ill be honest i cannot see things getting better if you were to enter into a relationship wit... (read in full...)
Broke up to meet others but now I'm not happy!
Q. I broke up with my boyfriend of 3 1/2 years b/c i thought i wanted to be with somebody else but I don't know what to do. The new guys is exciting and different but wit my ex we have so many great memories and he treated me so well, it just got kinda ...
A. 10 July 2009: i think you should go and get him before someone else grabs him good luck hun x... (read in full...)
I feel like a dirty, cheating tramp! Please help....
Q. i really need some help as i just feel awful. i feel as thought i can never forgive myself for something i did, 6 years ago i was friends with a guy at work. i liked him a lot to talk to and he made me laugh. i ws engaged to another guy at th...
A. 6 July 2009: i just wanted to say thankyou to those that took the time to respond... (read in full...)
My sister owe's me money! How do I go about getting it?
Q. My sister owe's me money since 2006, i keep asking her every month but she promises to give it to me but never does yet she can fix her husbands car every month i am no longer working but that doesn't seen to matter to her and i also have bills to p...
A. 6 July 2009: im so sorry this is happening to you its even worse that its your sister-which means that you will be more hurt than if this was a friend you lent to. i wouldnt take any money from her purse-i can understand the frustration but she could... (read in full...)
Why is she doing this to me when I'm sure she wants me as much as I want her?
Q. The most beautiful woman - physically and as a person - has been on my mind for a couple of years now. Then 18 months ago, we started seeing each other for drinks etc. We told each other we were in love and would be together just as soon as we could ...
A. 5 July 2009: i think shes playing you
shes getting an enormous confidence boost from you desiring her.
i promise you that if you found someone tomorrow she would be all over you like a rash.
shes getting a thrill from you chasing her. its not going t... (read in full...)
Any ideas on how to afford the wedding of my dreams?
Q. I'm a young women (22) who has in fact found the love of my life. I'm sitting here watching some wedding show. I have a single mother who lives off a fixed income. My love's parents aren't well off but have every thing they need. I have no idea how ...
A. 4 July 2009: it really depends on what your budget is and stuff.
if you want it to be cost effective you could things like glass hire from an off licence or hire a room for free just pay for food and drink-look on ebay for stuff ie bridesmaid dresses wedding ... (read in full...)
How can we make up and be friends again?
Q. I sent a text to my friend one afternoon to find out if she fancied meeting up that evening if we were both free. She was at work and so I didn't expect a reply, if any til she finished. At the same time, I was at my Mum's boyfriend's place, round ...
A. 4 July 2009: hey sweetie.
im sure that you can be friends again. i think your friend is overacting.
why not send her a note-better than a text explaining that there was a misunderstanding.
tell her you value her friendship very much and miss her and w... (read in full...)
All chip in! How do you know when your in love?
Q. Ok, everyone has to chip in here, since it's a very varied thing; how do you know when you're in love? :)...
A. 3 July 2009: i think when you cant stop thinking about the person
when youre giddy with excitement when you know youre going to see them
when you have vested intrests
when you can visualize yourself with that person long term
you have a friendship w... (read in full...)
I feel like such a sinking wreck...
Q. I'm beginning to feel like my life has come to a halt. Just come out of a bad and messy split with my fiancee of 5 years-he has been emotionally abusive and has completely and utterly financially drained me-i managed to get debt help but my cred...
A. 30 June 2009: thankyou for taking the time to answer-it means a lot thankyou... (read in full...)
I'm married but I can't stop thinking about my ex! How can I get him out of my mind?
Q. Okay well here's my dilemma. I can't get an old lover out of my head. It's been years since we've seen eachother and the majority of our relationship was sexual, but I always find myself thinking back and feeling what I felt years ago. I co...
A. 30 June 2009: hey there
from what i can see your husband is not giving you the satisafaction you need which is why youre reverting to thinking about your old lover.
have you spoke to your husband to see how hes feeling-maybe hes lost his spark due to str... (read in full...)
Is it good to be friends with a married colleague?
Q. I met a colleague at work, he was cute and cool to me he told me he lived alone and had a son who lived in another city. He flirted a bit with me and I thought he maybe was divorced or something so I did try to know him better, he looked really ...
A. 27 June 2009: hey hun
i would tread with caution with your friend.
i dont want to put a downer on things but if you know hes already slept with another colleague he may be viewing you the same way-hes playing it cool because hes trying to suss you out.
... (read in full...)
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