Lost cause for this awkward love interest?
Q. Hi. I am having some issues with a male friend whom I really care for. He lives in my building and we met about four months ago. We've been out a number of times for drinks, meals, etc. He always insists upon paying to a point that make...
A. 6 March 2009: It doesn't seem clear, at least to me, if this is a lost cause or not.
I am the sort of person who ends up with awkward kisses rather than awkward "almost kisses", because I typically just go for it.
I can say, however, that guys are usually... (read in full...)
Should I tell him how I am feeling and how?
Q. I have known this guy for about three years now. When we met there was mutual interest, but nothing ever came of it romantically, basically cause we worked together. And there were several times when I knew he wanted us to be more than friends and ...
A. 6 March 2009: If he is such a good friend then surely you can talk to him about this.
Just, tell him, and see what he says.
Be careful not to "throw it on him", however, if he doesnt share your feelings then it could destroy your friendship forever.
Ask ... (read in full...)
Two faced ex I still love
Q. i was with my ex for 14yrs and we are separated now she said she did not trust me and i lied to her about small stuff and she did not have the energy to work at the relationship anymore,then i found out that she had been cheating and lying to me for ...
A. 6 March 2009: MOVE ON.
I can remember this exact situation as teenager. This girl (#1) hurt me over and over and I couldnt let her go.
I finally fixed the issue by finding someone else (#2).
Of course, as soon as that happened the girl (#1) wants me b... (read in full...)
Sincere or just stringing me along?
Q. If a man says that he is 'madly in love with you' and wants you by his side, is this maybe a line or what does one look for to know if he is sincere. Here's the situation...about 2 months ago, I had been seeing this man on a regular basis and out of ...
A. 6 March 2009: Sounds like a liar to me. People call the people they like, its an impulse. Those who cant "get up the nerve" end up as anti-social stalkers.
Men rarely say what is on their mind, so pay attention to actions, not words. That applies in all stag... (read in full...)
Should I make the first move or wait?
Q. Me and this guy have been best friends for about one year. We talk on youtube, hotmail and all that we were just about going out. He emailed me one day and said he was in love with me, I told him that I loved him too. Now I wish that he would kiss ...
A. 6 March 2009: Wait, what's the rush?
Things are better enjoyed when they happen naturally. When you can stand back and say "exactly".. then you know it's right.
Of course, the answer to your question highly depends on your age. If you're under 19, wait, ... (read in full...)
My husband slept with other women while we were dating, I don?t know if I can forgive him, any advice?
Q. Last year it came to my attention, that my husband of four year, was sleeping with other women while we were dating. When we were dating, it was a really big issue that he was hanging out with other girls, but for some reason i trusted him and ...
A. 6 March 2009: The sex before your marriage thing is something you'll simply have to let go, but it is an indicator of the type of person he is.
The inappropriate internet relationship could be a big deal, however. I cant really know the details of that so ... (read in full...)
I feel like I hate him and love him because of his porn-watching. How to deal with this?
Q. When my boyfriend and I first started dating, I told him how I feel about porn. I think it is nasty and hurtful. Well, I just got out of the hospital delivering my son. I'm only 18 years old. I found out on our e-mail address he was not only looking ...
A. 6 March 2009: Porn sites are fine. Adultfriendfinder is not fine.
Guys who have a healthy addiction to porn are at least feeding that addiction at home, rather than strip clubs and one night stands.
Go ahead and accept the porn, all guys love it, and it ... (read in full...)
Who do I choose: the man who couldn't commit or my friend who comes home from jail soon?
Q. I was seeing someone for about 10 months that i really felt like he could be the one and was scared to tell him i loved him because he didnt consider me his girlfriend and i was being faithful to him tho. That was my fuss between us why couldnt he ...
A. 6 March 2009: The guy in jail is a loser, that's why they put him in jail.
If you like the other guy, give him a shot, but don't give more than you receive, and if he likes to keep things "loose" then go out and flirt with other guys.
Too often we make th... (read in full...)
Should I call him? I want him to take me seriously!
Q. I wrote my ex boyfriend an email telling him exactly what I feel for him and he hasn't responded. The email was basically telling him that I can't be friends with him because im still in love him ( he's married). I just want to know that he's rea...
A. 6 March 2009: This one is easy, in fact you answered your own question.
You went from "I can't be friends" to "should I call him?".
Of course not... don't call him, and don't hug him. It's sounds to me like you're not even taking yourself seriously, how c... (read in full...)
How do I keep both women in my life?
Q. I've been in a committed relationship for the past 6+ years with my girlfriend, "Rachel". I love her with all of my heart and I had planned on proposing but something recently has caused me not to. One of my close friends, "Tammy", and I h...
A. 6 March 2009: Finally, a question from a guy.
You can handle it one of two ways my man.
1. Have more sex with Rachel, and make it more interesting. Try to make yourself happy in your steady love life. Meanwhile, limit your interactions with Tammy so th... (read in full...)
Crush on my daughter's teacher
Q. Hi there, I am married and fancy my daughters teacher I am a women and she is a women, I can't get her out of my head, how do I know if she is flirting with me - she often makes small talk, smiles when shes in the mood, dresses alot better and ...
A. 6 March 2009: First of all consider the impact your actions will have on your marriage, and how that will impact your child or children.
After you get that sorted out, take things slow. Be sure that what you think is real before you act upon it.
Approac... (read in full...)
I think my best friend is in love with my boyfriend?!!!?
Q. I think my Best Friend is in love with my Boyfriend?!!!? Me, my best friend met my boyfriend-to-be in a halloween party. the following year, in february, this guy proposed to me, and i accepted. something happened a month later- something stupid...
A. 6 March 2009: Horoscopes are a myth, first of all.
I am bit perplexed about the proposal thing.. wow.. you sound so young and already we're talking proposals?
I am 24, and I can tell you that marrying too young puts a horrible strain on your relationship, an... (read in full...)
I'm scared the stress will harm the baby!
Q. Me and my boyfriend been dating for 5 years and I am 4 months preg and when he found out that I was preg he seems happy and now that I am 4 months it seems like he not happy about the baby. Because we always fight and like I told him that I don't ...
A. 6 March 2009: Worry is the definition of stress, and you seem to be worried.
Stress can cause you to lose the baby, but I would think that is a rare thing, typically there is a much more physical reason for losing a baby.
I know from my sister-in-law th... (read in full...)
How do I know if its time to end it?
Q. My bf and I have been hitting a few rough patches in our long distance relationship. I have been flirting with the idea of breaking up, but am finding it extremely difficult. Every time I tell him I want to end it, I wish I hadn't. Yet every time I ...
A. 6 March 2009: Make a list, pros and cons.
Unfortunately we're all the victim of emotions, which cloud our judgement. Make a list, spend hours on it, and make up your mind.
If you spend enough time on the list then you can be sure the choice you made is corr... (read in full...)
Help, I might be pregnant!
Q. Ok so ive had sex about 4 times three with condom 1 without. I know it was wrong not to use one but we did anyways im not going to explain why i didnt use one. :What is the chances of me getting pregnant if I didnt go off but he did... :We dont ...
A. 6 March 2009: 1. You had to be ovulating (approx 14 days after your period, for 1-3 days), but a man is capable of impregnating you even during penetration. Sperm is held in the clear fluid, not the white protein solution. Some people call it "precum", meaning ... (read in full...)
He slept with a few girls after our break up in order to forget me - is it a good idea to get back with him?
Q. I have just moved states, and for that reason me and my boyfriend split up. I am heartbroken, and I know he is too.. But its only been a few weeks, and he has already slept with a few other girls... I'm pretty devo about that, and Told him to st...
A. 6 March 2009: Its often hard for me to explain to girls I know that guys are all exactly the same, but it's the truth. From when we wake up to when we go to sleep we spend a good bit of our time thinking about sex.
Your boyfriend had sex because he's a male, ... (read in full...)
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