What do you buy for a 4 year old who has everything?
Q. My 4 year old son is soon to graduate from his private nursery school,and as you can imagine its going to be a very emotional event especially for mums and dads but not for his dad as he is very reluctant to take any real interest in his son`s life ...
A. 23 July 2009: I didn't know there was such a thing as a graduation from a nursery school. You say he has everything - I take it you mean everything 'material' that he needs. I think the pride and love of his parent(s) is probably all he needs. I love the smile ... (read in full...)
I made a big fat stupid mistake and I'm scared my boyfriend will end things with me!
Q. Hi there Could really use some advice here. I was seeing a guy for a few weeks after Christmas but it was only casual. He left to work abroad for a few months and i met another guy who happened to be in the same crowd as the first guy (i.e they al...
A. 9 July 2009: Everyone, no matter who they are, has made a mistake in life that they feel totally ashamed of. It's whether you learn by it that matters. Guilt is an awful feeling. Yes, of course what you did was wrong and I'm not entirely sure why it happened ... (read in full...)
My bf is being manipulated by his ex-wife...
Q. my boyfriends ex wife had an affair on him twice with the same person.he cant stand her but he has 3 wonderful children with her so he has to have contact with her over the children which i completely understand. unfortunately we are all in the same ...
A. 6 November 2008: It makes me sooooo cross that women can use their kids like this, knowing that the father will do anything he can for his kids, and so manipulates the kids and the situation to her advantage. It's the kids who lose out and your partner is made to ... (read in full...)
Has anyone else experienced this problem of bleeding after giving birth?
Q. I had a baby 5 weeks ago and after haveing my baby i bled for 1 week and a half but i had sex during this time and i stopped bleeding for a week and when i stopped bleeding i begun takeing the contreceptive pill and i have been bleeding ever since i ...
A. 6 November 2008: From memory, your body does some very strange things after giving birth. I take it you didn't give birth naturally? We tried sex 3 weeks after I gave birth and it hurt like hell and had to wait another 3 weeks after that! I know I bled for quite ... (read in full...)
How can I get over this crippling lack of confidence and start dating?
Q. I am a 36 year old virgin and I am starting to get truly depressed about my situation. I still live with my parents and the only sexual contact I have had was a brief hand-job whilst I was a student at college. My only relief now is masturbation. ...
A. 6 November 2008: I can't really empathise being a married woman, but it just struck me that maybe your situation is made worse by the fact that you are living with your parents. Is there a reason for this? Do you care for them? I think it'd increase your ... (read in full...)
Pregnancy test was negative, then what are these symptoms?
Q. Hi everyone. I'm in a bit of predicament. I have been dating my boyfriend for quite sometime now and we rent a house togther. In the past week I had a pregnancy scare. I took a pregnancy test today because I missed my period that was due on the ...
A. 6 November 2008: I'd go and take another pregnancy test. I think they say on them that if it shows up negative, but you still have concerns, you should re-try a few days later. The nausea and metallic taste do sound like pregnancy symptoms, although the cramping ... (read in full...)
If I kiss someone with herpes, is it possible for me to catch it?
Q. i know you are not doctors. im just asking for your opinions. if i kiss someone with oral herpes and their lips are dry and they have no outbreaks or sores or bumps and we don't do any tongue kissing. we basically do dry kissing. that lasts for a ...
A. 6 November 2008: I just googled it to make sure:-
"Although you can not catch genital herpes through kissing, what can happen is the person with genital herpes can then develop Herpes Simplex (commonly called cold sores) which can then be spread by kissing.... (read in full...)
If I kiss someone with herpes, is it possible for me to catch it?
Q. i know you are not doctors. im just asking for your opinions. if i kiss someone with oral herpes and their lips are dry and they have no outbreaks or sores or bumps and we don't do any tongue kissing. we basically do dry kissing. that lasts for a ...
A. 6 November 2008: As far as I know (and I may be corrected), the only way you could catch the herpes through kissing is if the other person has a cold sore or one erupting. I don't think you can get it through saliva.... (read in full...)
My wife talked to me differently during sex..why??
Q. Last night while having sex with my wife she addressed me differently from what she normally calls me.What could be the reason?...
A. 5 November 2008: Well, if she called you Dave instead of John, I think there'd be a problem! Seriously, though, did you ask her why? Maybe she was just trying something new, or something she'd heard on a film, book, etc. If you have no other reason to think that ... (read in full...)
My wife and my best friend, just as I suspected!
Q. I have sensed for some time my wife and my best friend have been attracted to each other I think I got confirmation of that last saturday afternoon. Well last sat. morning one of my friends called said he needed help moving a hot tub Isaid sure ...
A. 4 November 2008: I'm amazed you didn't confront them there and then - I suppose it was the shock of it - but I'd have got ballistic! Poor you! She didn't do a very good job of telling a plausible story - you're not stupid, you know what you saw, and she knows that ... (read in full...)
She yelled at me and accused me of cheating. It's only a picture!!
Q. Is this cheating? I have a picture of a female musician on my binder. It's a normal picture, not one where she's half naked or in a slutty pose. Girlfriend: Who's that woman? Me: That's a musician I like. Girlfriend: Do you think she's pretty? Me...
A. 4 November 2008: My husband's previous girlfriend to me was a bit like your girlfriend, but to an extreme level in the end and it made him depressed with a lot of issues still. She wouldn't even let him watch MTV in the end and constantly accused him of fancying ... (read in full...)
My wife kissed her friend in front of me. Am I crazy to have allowed it? Is it normal seeing that they've been friends for 8 years?
Q. My wife and I have a close friend...his name is John. John spends a lot of time with us. He's single and hangs out with us a lot. He and my wife are taking a class together and they often work out together. Last night, we took John to the ...
A. 17 September 2008: If you don't have a problem with it, don't let other people's opinions change that. She obviously felt comfortable doing that in front of you. Have you spoken to her about it? If it is purely platonic and you are not being deceived in any way, ... (read in full...)
She has only climaxed 3 times through actual intercourse...she is able to have multiple orgasms through manual and oral stimulation.
Q. right, this sounds ridiculous...I measured my penis- yes I'm an insecure arse...and I measured 6 inches (15.2 centimeters) and 1.6 inches wide, around-(4.1 centimeters in width )is this a pleasurable sized penis for a woman. I've been with my ...
A. 11 September 2008: Please don't worry - penetration is fab, but some women can't orgasm through penetration alone. It has nothing to do with the size of a man's penis or technique. However, you could try a position which rubs against her clitoris. It sounds like ... (read in full...)
Question about reaching orgasm and the G-spot... I seem to have located it but I'm not sure.
Q. Hi all! I am 20 and I have a question about the G-Spot. I am a virgin and recently tried inserting my index finger into my vaginal hole for the first time for masturbating.. I am not too sure but I seem to have found my G-spot (the wall was ro...
A. 11 September 2008: I was 25 before I managed to have an orgasm and realise what it was! You need to stimulate your clitoris, which is the small bean shaped bit outside your vagina. It is quite sensitive so use some kind of lubricant. Just persevere, as it may take ... (read in full...)
I cannot be comfortable with my lover's past, yet we may have a future. What can I do?
Q. my gf and i have been together for a year now, and all the while i have been trying to deal with the demons of her past, namely the 11 other men she has slept with. she was at an all female boarding school till the age of 18, and between then and ...
A. 10 September 2008: I have to say, there doesn't seem to be anything wrong in what your girlfriend has done. Everyone has a past, and the older you get, the more of a past you have. When you reach your thirties, if you find yourself single, you're lucky if you find ... (read in full...)
I cheated on him and we broke up. How do I get him back?
Q. hi i recently broke up from a 2 year relationship with my bf. he was 12 years older then me, and i was seeing another bloke, but we never slept together and he found out about it. i really want to get back with him but he keeps saying that he thinks ...
A. 10 September 2008: It could be that this is a very hard lesson learnt and that you will have to move on. If he is so hurt that he cannot trust you again, you really can't do much about it, as a relationship can't work without trust. You could also tell him (if you ... (read in full...)
Pregnant or paranoid?
Q. Over the past few days I have been worried that I may be pregnant, but I am hoping it's just my paranoia. On Monday early morning I woke up puking with a lot of diahrrea and felt like I was coming down with that stomach flu that has been going ...
A. 10 September 2008: It sounds unlikely that you are pregnant. From experience, I had a constant sick feeling (but was not actually sick and had no diarrhoea). You would also get other symptoms, ie, a metallic taste in your mouth, sore/bigger breasts being the main ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend never wants to have sex with me, and nothing has changed since we discussed it!
Q. I am a 20 year old female currently in a relationship with a guy, where the sex is very disappointing. Well when we actually have sex it is great but these days that's not very often. He seems to be a very sexual person on his own, I mean he used ...
A. 10 September 2008: I think there may be many reasons for this - you just need to get to the bottom of which it is. Does he have a stressful job/life? Is he anxious or shy? Is he worried about his performance? It sounds like you are confident and perhaps this ... (read in full...)
I'm worried about our future sex life, my penis and her vagina are not a great fit!
Q. My girlfriend states she is very satisfied with our sex life, and I am too, but I am worried about the future as we are considering a long-term relationship. I have a modest penis, nothing I'm ashamed of but definitely on the smaller end of normal, ...
A. 9 September 2008: If your relationship is otherwise good, you really don't have a thing to worry about. Penetration is not the most important thing in sex and perhaps you should explore other ways of pleasuring each other too. I am sure she is not bothered about ... (read in full...)
Hubby complains that I am not active during sex! What can I do?
Q. My husband of 5 years and I have a good sex life. BUT, he complains that i don't ever do anything during sex. He just gives me my oral and he gets on top then we're done. Honestly, I feel like I put some motion in it, but, he says "i love it, I just ...
A. 9 September 2008: You don't say whether you have any inhibitions about trying new things. Try one new thing each time and then you shouldn't feel uncomfortable about it. It's easy to get 'stuck in a rut' when you've been together for a while but it's great that ... (read in full...)
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