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writes:hi i recently broke up from a 2 year relationship with my bf. he was 12 years older then me, and i was seeing another bloke, but we never slept together and he found out about it. i really want to get back with him but he keeps saying that he thinks we should just remain friends for now because he is still really hurt and he dosent know whether he will be able to trust me again. he says he still loves me but dont want to get into another relationship with me right now because he is scared of being hurt again. what should i do i dont want to stay friends if there is no way that we can get back togethr. i dont mind waiting for him as much as it hurts. i love him so much and dont want to be with anyone else. he just tells me to move on and get on with my own life but still be friends. he says if he wants me back he will come and get me. what shall i do please help??
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks u evil!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2008): If you really loved him why were you seeing another bloke? Sounds to me like you don't love him, you only think you need him in your life and you are confusing 'need' with 'love'. Cheaters like you don't deserve happiness.
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reader, NeverGoodEnough +, writes (10 September 2008):
 You say you love him but if you really did would you have been seeing somebody else behind his back?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhe did say that maybe in time so all i can do is wait eh
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reader, vix100 +, writes (10 September 2008):
 It could be that this is a very hard lesson learnt and that you will have to move on. If he is so hurt that he cannot trust you again, you really can't do much about it, as a relationship can't work without trust. You could also tell him (if you haven't already) that it was a lesson you have learnt and ask him if he would be willing to take it one small step at a time to let you prove to him that he can trust you. Good luck.
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