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I wouldnt say i am qualified however i feel i have a good understanding of life and I like the common sense approach.
I came to this website when i was looking for an agony aunt page, I enjoy helping people and enjoy seeing others helped by people also.
I live in the UK SW and my life is up and down at the moment, I have had possibly the worst few weeks of my life and it has encouraged me to make a difference because people often need impartial advice.
I'm in a long term relationship and like all relationships we have our ups and downs but in the end he remains my one constant and i love him more then any words can say.
I hope that being on this site will enable me to help people even if its just giving another perspective on thier situation.
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He's 34, I'm 21 and still live at home. My parents found out and went proper mental... !
Q. I am a 22 year old who still lives at home with her parents. I met this great guy through a woman that I know (he works for her). He is 34 and that is no issue to me, but when my parents found out, they had a heart attack. They freaked out on me ...
A. 6 July 2007: Hi there,
I am so sorry to hear your parents arent supportive of you, I would worry if you were 15 but you are 22 and in my opinion an adult!
If i were in your shoes i would ask my parents to sit down and have a reasonable adult conversati... (read in full...)
Husband has no sex drive and we make love 3 times a year (max)... now I find he's been calling adult contact lines!
Q. Hello, I really dont know what I should do.....so please help and be as honest as possible. I have been married for almost 8 years we are in our very late 30's and have a lovely 3yr old. My husband and I love each other but he has completely lo...
A. 4 July 2007: Aw sweetheart, I'm so sorry. Take a deep breath and wipe those eyes!
I cant give you advice on this but i can give you my view point an options.
First of all please do NOT think its you or your fault. He is doing something that is out of your c... (read in full...)
I would like him to have a pic of me on his profile, but I am too shy to ask
Q. hi everyone... just wanted to have a liitle advise in here hope anyone could help..... i haa a 30 yr old bf for almost a year now, just want to have some clarification in this case.. in his friendster account he doesnt have any pic of me but he has ...
A. 4 July 2007: I would ask if he wants to have some fun taking a nice picture for his profile.
Perhaps of you two together...
See how he responds. I dont think its a problem him not having your pic on his profile as long as he states he is part of a couple... (read in full...)
How do I know if he has big plans for our future like I do?
Q. hi everyone! im in a relationship with a 30yr old guy,im 25. At my age right now i want a serious relationship, making a commitment hoping that it will lead to a great future. the thing is my bf of a yr havent mention anything about marriage yet. ...
A. 4 July 2007: As you rightly say its has only been a year, firstly you need to understand him and his past relationships.
If he has been in serious relationships before he may have been hurt and be afraid to commit o something for the future.
If your relat... (read in full...)
How am I supposed to smell?
Q. Recently, I touched myself down there while I was feeling myself. When I smelled my fingers it smelled like fish--is it supposed to smell like that?...
A. 4 July 2007: We all have different smells, I find that if i use scented soap too much it irritates and i get a funny smell.
What i would suggest is take care when cleaning, buy a PH neutral soap, feminine wash that is designed for delicate areas.
Dont wo... (read in full...)
I want to ask out my friend...how do I impress her?
Q. I like one of my closest friends. Now how do I ask her out? Movies, we do that too much it will just seem like we are having our regular Wednesday night. I don't have much troubles asking girls out. But it feels different this time. movies s...
A. 4 July 2007: BE YOURSELF!!!
theres nothing more a woman/girl likes than a guy being relaxed and confortable around them.
Dont try too hard, perhaps take her to her favourite restaurant, take her for a picnic at the park or beach.
Think of things that ... (read in full...)
We have a baby, he's in jail, his ex is driving me crazy--help!
Q. I am 21 years old and have a 10 month old baby. My baby's father is 10 years older than me and he has 2 kids with his previous relationship. We always seem to fight because the other girl won't leave him alone. She looks for him and disrespects me ...
A. 4 July 2007: I know you dont want to hear this but the priority now is your baby.
Its not a good environment for a baby to have this other woman starting fights and this man acting disrespectful to you. He should protect you and he isnt.
Look after yo... (read in full...)
He let me "do" him... and I think it made him feel guilty - how can I convince him it's a guilty pleasure?
Q. My boyfriend and I were fooling around, when we tried anal stimulation for the first time. He did it to me, and it didn't really do much other than make me come quicker. But when I did it to him, it was like turning on a sex-switch. I'll...
A. 2 July 2007: Hi, Dont worry this is natural... I am a female who enjoys anal stimulation in the throes of passion and hornyness, however afterwards when the situation is different and i think about it a go a bit weird, and feel dirty and guilty. I dont... (read in full...)
I like him and I know his girlfriend is cheating, should I approach him?
Q. i like a guy but he does not know and he has a girlfriend but she cheating on him how do i tell him i like him and that his girlfriend is not who he think she is ?...
A. 27 June 2007: This is an extremely difficult position but my advice to you is DONT get involved. Take a step back, people who cheat invariably get caught and when she does be there for him.
Ask yourself:
How much do you know him? How much do you know his gir... (read in full...)
Can you get your period when you're pregnant?
Q. Quick question my mate is going to get a pregancy test. She hasnt missed a period but is on the pill and says its best to check now and again. She wanted me to do but one too, i said no i use protection and havent missed a period. She told me her ...
A. 27 June 2007: Unfortunately you can have a period when you are pregnant, however if you are on the pill and use protection and have had no accidents then you should be fine.
My advice would be to think back and try to remember if the condom split at any time... (read in full...)
We broke up over a misunderstanding and I still love him
Q. i know im only 11 but i was in love with my best girl friend's (E) 15 year old brother (O) and the day started out normal, it was the 6 day we were dating me E and O went to his work near the end or the day we were playing around and i tried to grab ...
A. 27 June 2007: Aw sweetheart,
I dont have the perfect advice and i know its not what you want to hear but this isnt real love! Its a big huge crush and they can be just as painful when this happens
I hate saying things like this but always end up doing so.... (read in full...)
She says she's confused, while I'm just hurting
Q. me and my girlfriend were dating for almost three months, and then we took a break. i still love her very much and really wish to go back out with her. she still loves me too and she even told me that she still loves me, the only problem is she's ...
A. 26 June 2007: Its not uncommon for someone as young as you both to want to be single and yet want to be part of a relationship, Its called puberty i'm afraid!!
You cant make her come back to you, but you can take steps to help her realise how much you mean to ... (read in full...)
How can I help my old friend out of the rut she's in?
Q. hello everyone i have a problem with my best friend. you see weve been friends since 7th grade now weve been outta high school for a year and all but she is i guess going through this rough patch and i dont know how to deal or help her. you see as ...
A. 26 June 2007: Oh dear,
what a predicament you are in, I understand your concern about your life being marred by your friends life. Thats why i think you should keep them completely seperate.
It will be hard but you cant let this person, friend or not ru... (read in full...)
I get angry just looking at him
Q. why am i so angry at him everyday? we've been together for a year and some change now. and we have our arguments and sometimes when i look at him i get mad. he has this thing even if i ask he will take off without me and leave me at his house for ...
A. 26 June 2007: If this person makes you angry just looking at him, and he doesnt make you happy then why are you moving in?
Move with your parents, spend a little time apart, it will either kill or cure the relationship then you will know for sure.
If you ... (read in full...)
My husband won't communicate with me--I'm desperate for help!
Q. Please can someone who either 1) has 1st hand experience in these things or 2) is able to give positive advice instead of saying the words 'leave him' or 'you should never have married him' kind of advice answer this. I am totally beside myself an...
A. 25 June 2007: Hi there, So sorry to hear what you are going through! First off nobody has the right to tell you leave etc! I certainly wont. It seems to me that your husband is severly depressed (I am too so i can see the signs) I think that is also hav... (read in full...)
I'm on a trip around the world and worried I'm drinking (far) too much!
Q. I just cant stop drinking... Im on a years trip around the world..trip of a lifetime yes? Im ruining it ...I just cant stop... I dont really want to go home just now but I cant find a programme in English to help me... any ideas? For the first ...
A. 25 June 2007: stay calm, this is a difficult situation but you can over come this.
take a deep breath and ask yourself do you need alcohol to enjoy yourself, try to work out why you are doing this? is it the taste? the feeling? is there some underlying feeling ... (read in full...)
I think all my friends are now judging me because Im still a virgin!!
Q. I have a strange problem, awhile ago my girlfriend told one of her friends that i was a virgin when we first started to date. Her friend told all of my friends and to start with they laughed at me. Im now feeling that all my friends are judg...
A. 25 June 2007: Dont give in to pressure...
Who cares what they think? if they judge you they arent good friends!
I was a virgin till i was 25 and i'm not ashamed of it, My friends thought it was wonderful and i was an inspiration because i was waiting unti... (read in full...)
I have a mole on my face that makes me shy
Q. I need help bulding courage and faith in telling this girl how i feel? This may seems pretty stupid but I have a (black)mole on my face and it isn't really noticeable (2mm radius) that is the only thing I hate about myself. it seems that because of ...
A. 25 June 2007: Hi sweetheart,
Dont feel down, I have a mole on my face to... it usually grows one big long hair that i have to pluck... in truth when people stare or comment i tell them its a beauty spot. Be proud of who you are!
I suffer low self esteem ... (read in full...)
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