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writes:hi everyone... just wanted to have a liitle advise in here hope anyone could help..... i haa a 30 yr old bf for almost a year now, just want to have some clarification in this case.. in his friendster account he doesnt have any pic of me but he has loads of pics with his office mates, i just want to feel that im also a part of his life aside from his work to see if he is that serious of having a relationship with me, the thing is i want to take a pic of us but im shy to initiate, i keep on waiting for him to do the act but i think hes not interested on it....i think he's just comfortable with the recent situation of not having me attached to his profile....is this normal to other guys???? what will i do? i wanted to have a great open relationship with him but always shy to do the move first.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2007): Well, I would guess, and I do not want to hurt you, but my guess is he is still looking. I do not know how long you have gone together, or how serious you are so it is kind of hard to ansewer you. What does bf mean? Two dates? Living together? I know when I was dating I flirted all the time. If he lets everyone know he has a gf he will find it hard to flirt or meet others. If you have a friendster account, remove his pictures. See if he says anything.
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reader, Veasse  +, writes (4 July 2007):
 I would ask if he wants to have some fun taking a nice picture for his profile.
Perhaps of you two together...
See how he responds. I dont think its a problem him not having your pic on his profile as long as he states he is part of a couple and isnt trying to pretend he is single.
relax a little and remember that after a year you could be less shy with him. You need to be comfortable in your relationship and if a picture on his profile of you will help then tell him!
I think you need reassurance and maybe you are a little insecure... dont worry most of us are! Its not a crime and he should understand!
good luck
Veasse x
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