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writes:i like a guy but he does not know and he has a girlfriend but she cheating on him how do i tell him i like him and that his girlfriend is not who he think she is ?
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reader, flower girl  +, writes (27 June 2007):
 Leave it the way it is at the moment, if the girlfriend is cheating then he will find out sooner or later because someone always slips up.
When he realises what she is like and gets rid of her you could make sure you are around to give him support and be his friend and then you can always tell him after a little while how you feel about him.
Take care.xx.
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (27 June 2007):
 I wouldn't tell him both at the same time. If you decide to tell him his girlfriend is cheating then be prepared for backlash as he might not believe you. If you tell him you like him he may not believe you at all. Onve things have settled down then make a play for him.
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reader, Veasse +, writes (27 June 2007):
 This is an extremely difficult position but my advice to you is DONT get involved. Take a step back, people who cheat invariably get caught and when she does be there for him.
Ask yourself:
How much do you know him? How much do you know his girlfriend? Do you have solid proof she is cheating? HOw do you know he isnt doing the same? Could the girlfriend be violent towards you if you tell him? Would this guy like you in return?
There are lots of questions to be answered.
Be his friend and then wait, when they break up you can perhaps say you are sorry that you knew but you didnt have solid proof and you were worried he wouldnt believe you, and take it from there.
Good luck and be careful!
Veasse x
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