A
female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:i know im only 11 but i was in love with my best girl friend's (E) 15 year old brother (O) and the day started out normal, it was the 6 day we were dating me E and O went to his work near the end or the day we were playing around and i tried to grab his shirt and i accedently grabed his neclace instead, he thought i did it on purpous and walked off and i ran down the road crying cause i knew he would say monday it was over, instead me and the 2 of them got a ride back to Es house by his boss and when i got back my mom was their so i couldent say sorry or bye and weve been broke up for 2 months and im still not over it every time i call E he ansers and i cant breath i love him what do i do?
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reader, YummyMummy  +, writes (27 June 2007):
 All you can do is apologise to him agagin and if he doesn't forgive you then it's time to move on. It may take some time but this lad won't be the only lad you will be attracted to xxxxx
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reader, Veasse +, writes (27 June 2007):
 Aw sweetheart,
I dont have the perfect advice and i know its not what you want to hear but this isnt real love! Its a big huge crush and they can be just as painful when this happens
I hate saying things like this but always end up doing so... I have been there, I had the biggest crush on my brothers best friend, I was 11 too, he didnt even know i existed and i was broken hearted, especially when he and my brother teased me.
If something so small as this can make him be rude and mean to you then he isnt worth all this effort and tears, you are young and sweet and have lots more to worry about with school and your friendship.
Don't let him see he has upset you, hold your head high and remember that boys at his age go through a lot of changes with thier mind and body. Perhaps this is a blessing because i wouldnt want you to feel pressured into anything you dont want or shouldnt do.
Admire from afar, remember all the fun times you had and dont neglect your best friend, boys come and go but friends are for always.
Take care and just think when you are a senior how many gorgeous hunky guys will be wanting to take you to prom!
big hugs
Veasse x
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