My girlfriend teases me about having sex but then doesn't follow through
Q. I am a 19 year old virgin guy and I have a great girlfriend though she isn't a virgin oh well. One thing i am haveing a problem with is that she teases me and then when we are about to have sex we stop and she says sorry to me. We were about to have ...
A. 27 August 2011: Well then that explains it,and that can be the truth..she´s scared of it hurting and thats normal.. you just have to help her beat that fear... (read in full...)
I basically feel undeserving of a girl and love.
Q. I feel really bad because they're really beautiful and i will never ever get a girl like that. I know that looks aren't everything and they fade with time but i still can't help feeling that way. I literally have no self confidence, self esteem or ...
A. 24 August 2011: Glad to know you tried something, really hope it works out for you :) Good luck :)... (read in full...)
Male, 20 and still a virgin
Q. Just as the title says. I absolutely hate myself for it too. What a loser i must be. Worse, everyone's always telling me how good looking i am and what a good sense of humour i have. So why the HELL cant i make it work for me?? Im a useless failure. ...
A. 23 August 2011: The thing is losing your virginity is meant to be special so thats why people say wait for the special one, the special one is just a woman you truly love and want to share that important moment with.. i think you should wait and i dont think you ... (read in full...)
How should I ask him to dance?
Q. Hey everybody, So here's the deal. I think I've fallen in love with my cousin, and no matter what anyone says I'm not gonna change my mind, because this is love. I can't control my emotions. I met so many guys but I can't get over him, Every time ...
A. 22 August 2011: Go for it!! and Good luck :)... (read in full...)
I had an abortion and can't get over the guilt
Q. I'm afraid I am the worlds most horrible person and do not deserve to be here. 6 years ago I gave birth to a beautiful child, just. Under a year later I fell pregnant again, I was bipolar at the time and didn't think I could handle another child so...
A. 22 August 2011: What is done is done, that was your decision at the time, dont be hard on yourself..you just gotta move on,you might regret it but you cant go back now. Have you tried having another child to kinda replace that emptyness? Maybe it wasnt the right ... (read in full...)
She doesn't know I am in love with her. Should I tell her?
Q. I need help please: I am deeply in love with this one girl and i have been in love with her for about two years now,I really care about her, and i mean really care about her,i care more about her than I care about myself,but she doesn't know that i ...
A. 21 August 2011: You should just go for it seriously, you´ll never know what she thinks until you tell her, she might have feelings for you aswell. You have nothing to lose if anything she´ll be happy that someone feels that way for her. Tell her exactly how you ... (read in full...)
I basically feel undeserving of a girl and love.
Q. I feel really bad because they're really beautiful and i will never ever get a girl like that. I know that looks aren't everything and they fade with time but i still can't help feeling that way. I literally have no self confidence, self esteem or ...
A. 21 August 2011: Hey,
Well from what you typed i can kinda tell your a sensitive sweet guy and thats such a great thing you cant imagine, girls like someone who can treat them right, who they can have a laugh with, someone honest,kind,respectful and sweet.
Be pr... (read in full...)
Is this what dating is supposed to be about? I'm unhappy!
Q. Dear Cupid, This is my first relationship. My girlfriend and I have been dating for 3 months now, except she technically isn't allowed to date due to her fathers strict rule. Because of her father, we haven't been able to see each other often...
A. 21 August 2011: Hey,
well your obviously not meant to be unhappy during dating, its meant to be the opposite, if your unhappy its obvious something isnt right there,and it seems that its her lack of affection and attention. You should talk to her and tell her she ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is too quiet in bed! Is this normal?
Q. My new boyfriend is so damn quiet in bed that I dont even know when he orgasms. This is becoming quite embaressing because I keep going and I dont realise that he has already come. There is no noise, no movement, no facial expression, no nothing. ...
A. 20 August 2011: Maybe thats just him, try ask him if you can make it any better, and that him not making noise is bothering you, i´m sure he´ll understand and give you an explanation.
But i´m pretty sure thats normal.
Good luck :)... (read in full...)
His comments really hurt me...and now I really don't know what to do!
Q. Me and my bf have been going through a lil tough patch recently, hes doesnt have time for me and hardly responds via text or rings me. This is possibly due to his long hours and football training. However I dont think it takes much time to send a q...
A. 19 August 2011: Wow i´m really sorry, that must´ve hurt you a lot, ýou two need to have a talk and he needs to decide what his priority is, i mean a quick text doesnt take longer than a minute to send,just to say hello or something, tell him how upset you are about ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend always turned me down of sex
Q. I had a girlfriend we've bin together for d past 6 month i love her and she really loves me,she prefer romance to sex bt anytime i ask of sex she turn me down,what shall i do and i want to have sex witg her ...
A. 19 August 2011: Maybe she´s just nnot ready then, it can take time try not pressure her she might surprise you sooner than you think. Losing your virginity is really important to a girl so it can take time and she might be nervous and scared try and understand and ... (read in full...)
He told me at the beginning that this was just a game
Q. It's been 8 1/2 months and I've been messing around with this guy. He is the kind of person that likes to experiment with other girls so of course I'm not the only one he messes with. I'm a virgin so we're not having intercourse. We normally make ...
A. 19 August 2011: I think you should talk to him and make him pick,simple as that, you´ll then see whats more important to him.... (read in full...)
Why did my FWB guy not tell me he was going on vacation for 2 weeks?
Q. hi everyone my fwb who i have known for 7 months has just gone on holiday and not even told me i know hes not my boyfriend but i thought he would of told me i only found out cos i have text him twice in two weeks and heard nothing from him so i text ...
A. 19 August 2011: Hey,
I think the best thing is ask him that, i mean know one will know the answer better than him, if he didnt he probably didnt think it was important or just didnt want to.
Talk to him and tell him how much it bothered you
... (read in full...)
Will life destroy my love?
Q. Hello. So I just got off the phone with my girlfriend. I am 16 and I'm trying to make plans for unvercity since its not really something you should leave till the very last second. Well I told her that I wanted to go to university somewhere close to ...
A. 19 August 2011: Hey,
Its good that your thinking about your future career cos thats important if you want to give her a good life too, i think she´s feeling a bit down and the fact you said she influenced your decision probably made her feel responsible,i can tell... (read in full...)
My girlfriend always turned me down of sex
Q. I had a girlfriend we've bin together for d past 6 month i love her and she really loves me,she prefer romance to sex bt anytime i ask of sex she turn me down,what shall i do and i want to have sex witg her ...
A. 19 August 2011: Talk to her, ask her why she reacts like that maybe she´s worried or nervous about something.Try not to pressure her or she´ll think your only interested in the sex,have an honest talk with her and also tell her how you feel when she does that.
G... (read in full...)
I'm concerned about my son's relationship
Q. i have a son. hes only gone eighteen. he has a girlfriend. she has an apartment and a child who lives with her aunty. she has limited time with her four year old. shes six years older than my son. he stays over without telling me and turned o...
A. 19 August 2011: You should let him commit his own mistakes, you can give him your opinion but thats it, he´s 18 and he´ll do what he wants, he might even do it more just to prove his point,if anything goes wrong he´ll know you were right and he´ll apologize. Good ... (read in full...)
I'm told my ex I'm pregnant and now he doesn't want to talk to me anymore
Q. My ex boyfriend and i we're very good friends but now i'm pregnant and it seems he doesn't want to talk to me anymore. It's been like 3 years that i ended my relationship with him and we decide to be friends but he'd say stay in love me (or that's ...
A. 19 August 2011: Maybe he still has feelings for you, or accepting the fact your having a baby from another man is bothering him,i think you should tell him how your feeling and that his friendship is really important to you, maybe he´ll tell you why he´s being so ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend teases me about having sex but then doesn't follow through
Q. I am a 19 year old virgin guy and I have a great girlfriend though she isn't a virgin oh well. One thing i am haveing a problem with is that she teases me and then when we are about to have sex we stop and she says sorry to me. We were about to have ...
A. 19 August 2011: I think she´s giving you mixed signs,you should talk to her about it especially if she isnt a virgin, if she was it´d be understandable,tell her how you feel there must be something stopping her from going forward with it. Good luck :)... (read in full...)
How can I avoid being put in the friend zone with her and do I still have a chance or is she gone?
Q. Alright this is kind of a 2 part question, so there is this girl i had met at university who i really liked and coincidentally she lived in the room next to mine in residence so we got to know one another by the end of the year and for most of the ...
A. 18 August 2011: Well thats a hard one since she has a new bf, but the thing is maybe she was just tired of waiting for you or maybe she didnt think you liked her, why dont you try talking to her, i mean you dont have much to lose in this situation, you wont lose ... (read in full...)
I love my step-sister?
Q. About 3 years ago, my Dad met someone online and started to date her. He took me to meet her family, and she had a daughter. Over the last year and a half, I've gotten really close to the daughter, and I think I'm in love with her. I really can't ...
A. 18 August 2011: I think you should go for it,
just because your dad is dating her mum doesnt mean anything,it doesnt mean you have to give up on your happiness, talk to her she´s probably feeling the same, just go for it and good luck :)... (read in full...)
How long does it take for breast size to increase while on the pill?
Q. Hello all, I've been on Microgynon 30 contraceptive pill for just under a week now. I am 22 and this is the first time I've been on the pill. I went on it mainly to try and calm down my bad periods. But I am hoping I may increase my breast size a ...
A. 18 August 2011: Hey,
I´ve been on the pill for 3 months now, Diane 35, and i havent developed breasts yet and being on the pill hasnt changed a thing, i´m not really sure there is one that will change that.... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant and my boyfriend is becoming very distant
Q. im 37 weeks pregnant with a baby boy. the father is my boyfriend, we've been dating a year and 2 months now and we are still together. we only live together for almost 3 weeks now, but he is becoming very distant. he doesn't talk to me like he used ...
A. 18 August 2011: Hey,
Maybe he´s a little scared about the fact he´s going to be a dad, or maybe somethings changed for him, he might just be tired,stressed out, or worried after the baby is born that things wont be the same between you two, try talk to him and tell... (read in full...)
I've just caught my boyfriend using cybersex chat rooms
Q. Dear Cupid, My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 years, the relationship has never lacked anything. We love each other, we don't fight, and we have fun together where ever we are. Here's the problem, during the first year i caught him for ...
A. 18 August 2011: I think he needs to sort his problem out, if he does have an addiction he needs help,and its not fair on you having to deal with this,if after he gets help it doesnt really help with anything i think you should find someone else that really ... (read in full...)
I've found old messages my BFs ex had sent to him
Q. I found some old messages from my bfs ex to him (from before him and I even went out), and they were from my bf saying things like "you look so good naked", "can you wear that tiny thong again" and "i love waking up to you naked". I know it's in the ...
A. 18 August 2011: Hey,
i understand that must´ve been a really bad thing to read and that when he says those things to you, you dont really feel as special cos he´s said them to her, but what you got to think is that you have him now, not his ex. And he picked you ... (read in full...)
How can I tell my parents I have had enough of them not even listening?
Q. Hello everyone I'm feeling very stressed up over my studies. I'll be taking my national exams thus year and this is going to determine which university I can get into. I'm not aiming for any prestigious school, just a local university. But the ...
A. 18 August 2011: Hey there,
well thats really not easy, i think you really need to sit your parents down and have a proper conversation, i know you possibly tried but you really need to get it to them, they need to understand your doing your best and them stre... (read in full...)
I never developed breasts and I don't feel like I could ever really satisfy a man's needs.
Q. I'm a twenty four year old female with sex issues. I find it hard to enjoy sex because of my physical shortcomings - I have never developed breasts. I don't mean that I have small breasts, I have literally NO breasts at all, just nipples. My sto...
A. 18 August 2011: Hey,
I know this question was posted some years ago but i´m in the same situation i´m almost 17 and havent developed at all just like you described, i was wondering if anything changed in your situation.. i´m so worried i´ll never feel like i real... (read in full...)
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