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writes:Alright this is kind of a 2 part question, so there is this girl i had met at university who i really liked and coincidentally she lived in the room next to mine in residence so we got to know one another by the end of the year and for most of the school year she had a boyfriend which was ok because i didn't realize i liked her until the latter half of the year, so about the end of March she mentioned that she and her boyfriend had broken up but from what i gathered she didn't seem too upset about it (i could be wrong though). Anyway once she told me that she had broken up with her boyfriend i really wanted to ask her out but i didn't for a number of reasons 1) we were close to final exams 2) i was worried that she only saw us as friends because we had walked to class together sometimes (just the two of us) and i would usually ask her if she wanted to join my roommate and i for dinner if i saw her sitting alone.Anyway here is my problem, i was preparing all summer to ask her out when school starts in september and i just found out that she now has a new boyfriend but i still have feelings for her So my question is this, how can i avoid being put in the friend zone with her and ultimately do i still have a chance or is she gone?Any help os appreciated
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reader, Vanessa_Twinkle  +, writes (18 August 2011):
Well thats a hard one since she has a new bf, but the thing is maybe she was just tired of waiting for you or maybe she didnt think you liked her, why dont you try talking to her, i mean you dont have much to lose in this situation, you wont lose her as a friend it could be awkward for a while but that´d pass,if she truly likes you she´ll end it with her bf and stay with you.
I think you should talk to her about your feelings and tell her why you havent told her before.She´ll understand
and good luck :)
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