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writes:It's been 8 1/2 months and I've been messing around with this guy. He is the kind of person that likes to experiment with other girls so of course I'm not the only one he messes with. I'm a virgin so we're not having intercourse. We normally make out and do other things, but no intercourse because I refuse to let him take my virginity since I really don't know what's exactly going on between us and I feel that it isn't worth it right now. But he told me that at the beginning it was a game but then he start to grow feelings for me here and there (Whatever that means)and when he told me that it bothered me and he knew it did so he told me it was a game at first but it's no longer a game now. But when I express myself to him he's nonchalant about it unless I'm really mad or sad. But he does make plans with me and takes me out willingly. And I really don't know what the outcome of all this is gonna be. I don't know if he's still playing games or what. He hasn't dropped the girls that he's been messing with as far as I know. But he has told me I might be the only one he mess with but he's not sure but we're gonna mess around NO MATTER what. I really don't understand... Reply to this Question
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reader, Vanessa_Twinkle  +, writes (19 August 2011):
I think you should talk to him and make him pick,simple as that, you´ll then see whats more important to him.
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reader, bunnyblueeyes +, writes (19 August 2011):
 I'm really sorry hunni, but it sounds like this guy is just after one thing. If you finally give him your virginity he will be outta there straight after.
Hour seems to be keeping the other girls in the off chance that you don't give it up.
If he had really began to develope feelings for you then you would be the only one.
Dump him and move on.
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