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I give him oral, but he doesn't orgasm. Why not?

Q.   right i have just started giving my boyfriend (of 6 months) blow jobs, i have gave him two so far but he hasnt ever cum. he seems like he enjoys it because recently when i did it he was gripping hold of the metal bars on his bed and holding my h...

A.   5 October 2008: Oh i do it long enough alright,, not a problem tho doesnt hurt my neck... and use loads of techniques.... even sometmes i do use my hand x... (read in full...)

What is this stuff material around my clit, after sex?

Q.   sometimes after i have sex and dnt shower after.. ( which is not often i do btw) i get this white stuff around my clit what is this? it goes away after i shower and its fien. it doesnt hurt or anythin. Please help x...

A.   5 October 2008: Thanks for all your help! the other night i noticed it because i had sex thn straighht away got ready for a party dint have time to shower and went out... noticed it then so.. for word of warning lol :) xx... (read in full...)

Should I do myself up even more to be good enough for him? And change my personality?

Q.   so my boyfriend broke up with me a couple days ago.. and i'm still not over it. we went out for about a week but i really liked him. usually it wouldn't bother me like this but i guess i really do like him. i guess i wasn't good enough for him. he's ...

A.   2 October 2008: i take care of my appearance i have to say, i dont like goin out feeling unpretty (nt sayin i think im pretty or anythin) and i do take pride in the way i look. But my boyfriend has seen me at my worst, he seen me on my worst days ever, hes seen... (read in full...)

Do I give in to his threesome request or let him go?

Q.   My boyfrend and I have been together for 6 months now. He is recently divorced. He left his wife because of several reasons but one of which was the lack of sex. He says our relationship is not based on sex, and yet he said if ever I start not ...

A.   2 October 2008: if a three-some is something u are not happy with doing then dont do it, he carnt force u into anythin, or make you fell bad about nt doin it, just because he says he NEEDS it when clearly he doesnt. It sounds to be he is really sex obse... (read in full...)

Will he forgive me?

Q.   I've been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years, i love him more than anything in the world! Lately, our arguments got worse, and it was mainly because of me,i get mad about literally everything to the point that i disrespected him, he told me we ...

A.   2 October 2008: oxygen starvation... the odd paragraph! take a look at your question ... (read in full...)

What are the effects of cannabis use?

Q.   can someone explain the effects of the drug weed to me please? is it seriously harmful if smoked daily? my boyfriends smokes it and has been doin for three years now, just abit concerened for his health. x please help thanks x...

A.   2 October 2008: To be honest he doesnt reali get mood swings, and if he does there usually because of his work. But he has a reason too :/ hes always said he doesnt like drugs himself and would never touch anything else the only reason why he smokes weed is to ju... (read in full...)

I asked him to be gentle but he focused on himself during sex and wouldn't mind my objections. Should I believe him that it won't happen again?

Q.   Hi, So I need some serious advice again. Ive been with my boyfriend a little over 4 months and for our anniversary, i booked a hotel to make our 'first time' special. I had told him I wanted to take it slow with lots of foreplay and candle...

A.   2 October 2008: good decision you do deserve better :) bet ur mum likes this idea too :) lol xx... (read in full...)

What should I do about my abusive boyfriend?

Q.   The other week I kissed one of my boyfriends best friends and now I dont know what to do. My boyfriend and I have been arguing a lot and the majority of the time when we argue he gets abusive and hits me. His friend walked in on this happen...

A.   2 October 2008: ive read the first two sentences... and just to say one... u shoudlnt have kissed his friend and two get rid no matter what u have done he should be abusive to you at all! x... (read in full...)

We are dating and she doesn't text me as often as I'd like to!

Q.   Right... Ive been seeing (not a relationship yet) this girl since sunday, and we got along really well and all. that, but ever since i got home on sunday, her texts are really few and far between, I used to get constant texts from her, and she was ...

A.   2 October 2008: play her at her own game. dont give her as much attention! dont text her all day and wait until she texts u. stop askin if shes alright with u, play hard to get girls love that. treat em mean to keep them kean. shes doin it to u and it seems to... (read in full...)

Boyfriend problems, am I overreacting? He neglected me on my birthday!

Q.   of course I didn't expect to have a party or anything like that. I live with my boyfriend, so I expected him to at least do something nice. I don't care about a gift, I just wanted him to be nice/thoughtful because he never is. So I got home from ...

A.   2 October 2008: u should always tell your bf whats wrong otherwise nothing will ever get sorted. lads are stupid they need things explaining to them! Just explain it to him and say it didnt have to envolve money just your attention or u cook my tea or some... (read in full...)

I have a burning guilt for having used drugs at my friend's instigation! Should I tell my boyfriend?

Q.   I've never done cocaine before, but my best friend does it a lot. Somehow when I was over at her house, I ended up doing it too, even though in the back of my head I knew my boyfriend wouldn't approve. Should I tell him I did it? Or is it okay if I ...

A.   2 October 2008: My boyfriends smokes weed and hes always said he wouldnt wont me to smoke it or try it, unless i was with him and he could be there for me if i need him. It seems ur bf is doin the eaxct same thing sayin it because he cares. Id tell him if i was... (read in full...)

I asked him to be gentle but he focused on himself during sex and wouldn't mind my objections. Should I believe him that it won't happen again?

Q.   Hi, So I need some serious advice again. Ive been with my boyfriend a little over 4 months and for our anniversary, i booked a hotel to make our 'first time' special. I had told him I wanted to take it slow with lots of foreplay and candle...

A.   2 October 2008: Thats rape! i think u know what u need to do hun, u can get someone so much better that will appricate your efforts in gettin teh room booked and candles and who also respects your needs and plans! GET OUT AS FAST AS U CAN U SOOO DESERVE BETT... (read in full...)

I feel second best to a stupid computer game, what should I do?

Q.   My boyfriend and I live together. I am currently 6 months pregnant with his first child (this problem was happening way before i got pregnant though). He does have a job, and if this wasnt a problem i think our relationship would be almost perfect. ...

A.   2 October 2008: this sounds abit familiar, apart for teh fact im not pregnant. i hated it i was in the exact same situation as u. id feel liek he plays on tht game and gives more attention to the game then me. but we spoke about it and ive told him how i felt. ... (read in full...)

He says he's not ready for a baby - how can I change his mind?

Q.   Me and my husband have been together for almost 4 and a half years and we have been married 1 year. I want to have a baby like yesterday, and my husband says hes not ready but i know he is. He is great with children. Im a nanny for a little boy and ...

A.   2 October 2008: to be honest i think your in the wrong here. you cant persuade someone to have a baby with you! Thats just insane. Even if u have been together 4 years, married or not. Just because he gets on with kids and plays with them and looks happy with the... (read in full...)

I'm teased at school, why do they do it and why do I have to put up with it?

Q.   I didn't have a good day today. Couple of my classes there are these people that make fun of me, talk about me, and tease me. For example these jerks make fun of me like the way I look and my appearance, and say I am ugly and look gross. I never did ...

A.   2 October 2008: I dont actually think there are reasons like they do it because tehy have problems or they are ugly tehmselves. Annalisa has a point abour your apperance so read that and take it into consideration. and if you do have friends at school stick with ... (read in full...)

Do women actually enjoy performing fellatio?

Q.   Do you women actually like the idea of having a penis in your mouth while giving oral? Or is it an inconvenience you're willing to go through to satisfy your man?...

A.   1 October 2008: To be honest ill only do it with my boyfriend co si love him andwill do anythin to satisfy him.. it wouldt be something id do if i didnt care about the person... i only like it because i know im giving satisfaction... yet again i love doin it to h... (read in full...)

Is it wrong for me to date an 18 year old guy? I'm 14.

Q.   Ok so is it so wrong for a 14 year old girl who loves a 18 year old man be such a bad thing? I feel in love with a man named Daniel and he feel in love with me to, but my mom found out we were together and called him to "talk" to him. Now I am band ...

A.   1 October 2008: I think at 14 its kinda of unacceptable.. your mum is only doin this to protect you, just think shes live don this earth a hell of a lot longer than you have and has probably had experiences like this or have witnesses them. 4 years differen... (read in full...)

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