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writes:I didn't have a good day today. Couple of my classes there are these people that make fun of me, talk about me, and tease me. For example these jerks make fun of me like the way I look and my appearance, and say I am ugly and look gross. I never did anything to them and I don't know them. These jerks don't look that great either. Why do they have the nerve to do this to me? I just go to school to learn and earn good grades. I mind my own business and don't care what other people do. Why do I have to put up this? Reply to this Question
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reader, unknownlady  +, writes (2 October 2008):
 I dont actually think there are reasons like they do it because tehy have problems or they are ugly tehmselves. Annalisa has a point abour your apperance so read that and take it into consideration. and if you do have friends at school stick with them.
i think that some people can be badly influenced by others. Its all about who thier friends are. They tease u because thier mates my find it funny and it makes them look good.
I think the best bet is to stick with your mates. completely ignore them and i mean completely dnt look at them if they shout u, if you do catch thier eyes dnt give them a dirty look or a smile just give a completly blank face and carry on talkin and laughing with your mates.
Dont let it show that its getting to you.
i wasnt bullied at school, but ive seen it and had a few bitchy fall outs, name calls, looks.
Its how school is really.
Just think and im not just saying this... your the one with the good grades your the one thats got the education behind you. your the nice person out of this whole equation. and your the one that will get a good job, go through hgher education, be on good money when ur older, and have a sucessful life, knowing u didnt hurt anybody or upset anybody and they as u have said are just jerks.
Forget them and try and carry on. it may be hard but just think whos better off. :)
good luck x
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reader, shana +, writes (2 October 2008):
The reason people do this, is because they feel badly about themselves. I've went thru that in middle school. When you want to get good grades and not worry about anything else, people look at you like you're a "dork" or a "loser". But when you graduate and get a good job and you're happy, they will be the drop outs with no job and they're miserable. So just ignore what they say. Don't lower yourself to their level. No matter what, be yourself. Don't follow someone else just to be cool or try to fit in. Because in the end, it's what make you happy and not how anyone else feels.
I had the same problem and my Mom would tell me the same thing. It worked out for me in the end! :)
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