How can I get over him while living in the same house as him?!
Q. I'll get right to the point cause this is a long one. The relationship I have is a relationship that started in a very bad way. We BOTH were engaged to other people and we became good friends while he was doing work on my house. We were both unh...
A. 2 August 2009: thank you for your answer. unfortunately, all we've done is talk, and talk, and talk for over a month now. He always says the same thing; he IN-LOVE with me and wants to be with me, but loves her and cant let her go. I believe it's not that he ... (read in full...)
How can I make my boyfriend orgasm during dry sex?
Q. hey there, ok so when your boyfriend doesn't orgasm during dry sex, does that mean that he's not getting any pleasure ??? how can i make him orgasm ?? thanks so much =]...
A. 2 August 2009: I dont know his personal habbits, and this answer does not mean this is the real reason. That being said, there have been scientific studies that men who masturbate frequently tend to only orgasm while manually doing so. Also, if there is ... (read in full...)
He has told me he can't see himself with me in his future. Should I stay with him?
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for over 5 years. I thought we were in the same place when it came to marriage, but it seems we may not be. He says he doesn't know if he sees me in his future because I don't have a job and have a lot of medical ...
A. 1 September 2008: Oh my God! Of course you need to leave, and like ASAP! He doesn't see you in his future anymore after 5 years???? When is the future going to arrive? Tomorrow? A month from now? A year? And then what happens to you when he's ready to move on to ... (read in full...)
My lover doesn't enjoy sex!
Q. Yesterday I asked a question about whether it was healthy/normal to want sex all the time and the answers were basically yes and enjoy it... problem is I'm in a relationship with a great man who doesn't want to enjoy it. I just go longing. What ...
A. 30 August 2008: Try asking him why? It's probably going to be a very sensitive and embarrassing subject for him because there could potentially be a "problem" there.I obviously don't know about his performance when you DO have sex, but if it's good and he's into ... (read in full...)
I'm a young, gay male who is heart broken over a married man!
Q. i am a 28 year old gay male i have been in a relationship with the same guy for 10 years we live together things are ok our sex life kinda faded out and is rare if ever i think we are both in it for convienience... i met the man of my dreams my ...
A. 30 August 2008: I had an eerily similar situation, but I'm a straight female. I also was with someone for 10 years, the "I don't want to live" bi-polar/depression/self loathing type. Also very verbally and mentally abusive. I believe they go hand and hand due to t... (read in full...)
Found his ex gf's phone number...I think he still loves her
Q. Found a phone number among my b/f's things that belongs to his ex from 4 years ago. It's a recent number because I purged all of her numbers from his belongings when we moved in together. He took forever to get over her. Why does he have her ...
A. 30 August 2008: These situations are so crappy. It is so hard to confront someone about these things (especially if you were snooping to find it, like I was). First-if you WERE snooping, you gotta be honest and tell him, but tell him why. If you had reasons to be ... (read in full...)
How do I know if my husband has had sex with another woman?
Q. how do i know if my husband has had sex with another woman...
A. 29 June 2008: with such limited information, look at the signs, feel what's in your gut and then ask him. If you know him, you'll know if he's being honest.... (read in full...)
I feel sel-conscious about being too hairy down there! What do you guys really think of hair down there? What would be an appropriate way of getting rid of the hair??
Q. Hi I have a really embarassing problem. It never really used to bother me that much, but ever since i've been getting deeper and deeper in this relationship with this guy i'm crazy about, i find myself only growing more and more self-conscious.. ...
A. 29 June 2008: Of coourse it's normal, the only way NOT to have hair in those places is to shave or wax. But here's the real deal. My ex of 10 years LOVED the porn star landing strip look, no hair ANYWHERE else, just the front strip. When I started dating my ... (read in full...)
How do you tell your ex you've fallen in love with him? He has a girlfriend.
Q. How do you tell your ex boyfriend you've fallen in love with him when he's just got back with his gf he's still in love with? i cant let go and just feel empty without him. Life just seems boaring and there's nothing to do. I used to see him basi...
A. 29 June 2008: This is an easy one. You don't. Don't put him in an awkward situation by having to tell you he doesn't feel the same way. It will make him uncomfortable and hurt you. Try to stop thinking about him.
And remember, he is an EX for a reason.... (read in full...)
I love him but he is being really cruel to me...should I file for a divorce??
Q. For the past few months my husband has been threatening divorce, and it's been really lowering my self-esteem. We got married and moved to the states this year. He is able to work, and I wasnt able to work since I had no authorization. Recently, I ...
A. 29 June 2008: You already know the answer to this, there is no debating and you know it. You need the courage to move forward but most likely with your loered self esteem and being in a strange country (most likely with no family) and only working part time, ... (read in full...)
Please help me out, I cant get him to find where to please me.
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for a while now, when we have sex i cant get him to find where to please me. It's really difficult because i dont want him to feel that he is doing something wrong and upset him. What shall i do? please help...
A. 29 June 2008: Be aggressive in a confident, sexy way, and TELL him what to do. MOST men are turned on by that. say something like "you know what you're going to do? You're going to......." say it with a sexy smile and then tell him next he can tell you what to ... (read in full...)
I'm expecting a first kiss from my first boyfriend, I'm scared. What should I do?
Q. Im 15.. I've never been in a relationship, I've never kissed a guy either. The guy I like is 16, he's 16 and very experienced, in other words, he's done IT more than once. He likes me back. I'm not asking about sex, because there is no way ...
A. 29 June 2008: awww, I remember that feeling, butterflies and all ad that was 19 years ago! On my boyfriends couch in his basement, right by the stairs! You're gonna be scared and awkward and it's not gonna be great, but with practice, you'll get better.... (read in full...)
How do I ask my girlfriend to shave her pubic area?
Q. Hi there, as i've become more sexually active with my partner, i've wanted to try more and more different things with her. However, she is very hairy 'down south' and I really can't think of anyway I could ask her politely, to shave her pubic ...
A. 29 June 2008: Yeah, you gotta say it in a way that it's a benefit for HER, not you. "God, I wish I could have better access to your ***** better, I could do so much more to make you happy!" Act excited about it, she'll probably do it without a secod thought, I ... (read in full...)
Ladies, how do you want us to kiss you?
Q. I have seen many many articles bashing guys on how to kiss. Well ladies exactly how do you like to be kissed? exactly what is it that makes your toes curl and your hair stand on end? i would like to know so that i can be the best i can....
A. 29 June 2008: Push us against the wall (don't hurt us)hands above our head and lay your lips lightly on ours (make sure you wet your lips first, nothing worse than a dry kiss). Kiss once or twice like that, then open your mouth a little and let your tongue touch ... (read in full...)
Dating this guy for 15 years and he's said..he'll never marry me! How do I move on?
Q. i have been dating the same guy off and on for fifteen years. He often tells me that he's never going to marry me I want to move on but I don't know where to start. Can you give me some tips?...
A. 28 June 2008: Is getting married to this man more important than being with him? If it's a matter of just wanting to married because of what you think you should do, that's not a good enough reason. If it's a religious thing, that's a little different, you need ... (read in full...)
Are there any faithful women out there ,...or not?
Q. All the women i have ever dated cheated on me one way or another i looked at my self more closely i didnt see anything seriously wrong with me and how i treat these women is it ok to think that there are no faithful women out there no more ?...
A. 28 June 2008: I am going to admit something that I am far from proud of: I have been unfaithful to every man I have been with, but before you jump all over that, I NEVER cheated before I was cheated on first. I was stupid and should have ended the relatioships ... (read in full...)
I don't know what to do? I am not ready to be a father, I need your guidance.
Q. Need advice, I recieved an email from a girl I slept with about 6 weeks ago, saying she is now pregant, wants to keep the baby and wants nothing from me and is willing to cut off all commuication. I don't know what to do? I am not ready to be a fa...
A. 28 June 2008: Not many people are "ready" to be parents unless they are trying, and sometimes even those who are trying aren't ready either. I'm 30 and just had my first...accidentally...3 months ago, and as a woman, I'm the one who has the most responsibility to ... (read in full...)
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