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anonymous
writes:Hi I have a really embarassing problem. It never really used to bother me that much, but ever since i've been getting deeper and deeper in this relationship with this guy i'm crazy about, i find myself only growing more and more self-conscious..personally i have no problem with my pubic hair in the upper area, cuz i'm not really a hairy person and it looks fine to me. but is it normal for hair to also grow between my bum cheeks and at the lips of my vagina? i'm realllly uncomfortable with it, and am afraid my guy or any other guy would find it a major turn off. I want it gone, but am scared to shave due to sensitivity down there, as well as waxing and laser(damn that would hurt!)so i guess my questions are: could Veet maybe work? and is this disgusting to guys??
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reader, simeon +, writes (29 August 2010):
 Hey how are you doing anonymous there is nothing to be self-conscious about if any man you decide to be with cant except the way GOD made you then he doesn't deserve you at all personally i think natural women are sexy anyway good luck to you and hold your head up you wouldn't believe how many men out there like my self think hairy women are sexy take care.
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reader, rhythmbug  +, writes (24 July 2009):
The current girl I'm seeing sounds similar.
Her hair is very thick all along her lips and runs up her arse. I absolutely love it, it's so sexy, and sex feels sensational.
I say ask his opinion later down the track. Why bother going to all that effort prematurely when you don't even know what he thinks. In any case, if you shave it he'll still notice all the regrowth, which in my opinion is far worse.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2009): dude I totally know what you're going through...I've wanted to do waxing but for now I just shave in certain areas and I trim it so its not too long..and everyone has or had pubes so everyone goes through the same thing =]...don't be self-conscious it sounds like he really likes you and I think leaving some hair will still make you feel like a woman and your guy will like it cuz it wont be too slippery lol...well I wish the best to you and your man =]--christina
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2008): keep it most man love it
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2008): personally a hairy girl is a turn on for me but it all depends on the person try asking him how he likes it
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2008): Try Laser Hair removal. If you have light skin and dark hair down there, it'll work great. You can have as little or as much as you want removed. It's easier than shaving and dealing with ingrown hairs, unsightly bumps and the awful itching when the hair grows back in. Also, compared to waxing, it's 10x's less painful and requires less $$ in the long run. I paid $135 for my Brazilian and it only required 3 trips. Totaling $405 + tax.
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reader, twisted +, writes (29 June 2008):
 Of coourse it's normal, the only way NOT to have hair in those places is to shave or wax. But here's the real deal. My ex of 10 years LOVED the porn star landing strip look, no hair ANYWHERE else, just the front strip. When I started dating my current boyfriend, he on accasion mentioned he like a little hair doen there. He has a daughter (now 4 1/2) and said he likes his women to look like a woman, not a little girl. He also says it feels better with hair so it doesn't get too wet and slippery, he creates a little frictiona and that feels good to him, so for the past 2 years, I have just done a little "yard work" to keep it somewhat contained. SO, the question is, what does your guy like? Bring it up in a conversation, casually. Don't make it the entire discussion. If he doesn't care either way, do what maked YOU feel comfortable, you don't want to feel self consious during sex, you won't be able to enjoy it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2008): Most guys do indeed find it a turn offWhat you could do is trim it since you're a beginner. To do this get small scissors and go to the restroom and start cutting the hair until it's very short. Be careful when you're cutting it to not get too close to the skin of your vagina as for it will hurt a lot. After a time, if you want, you can start shaving it but only if your boyfriend finds it attractive since some guys like it with a little bit of hair in there. Don't be afraid of shaving and if someone tells you it's horrible, don't listen to them until you've tried it. What I do warn you, though, is that you have to be prepared and know what to do. There are videos in youtube that can explain you a proper way to shave your vagina. I personally prefer this method since it's cleaner and more comfortable, but this method is up to youFor now just trim down there and good luck!
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