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writes:I've been with my boyfriend for a while now, when we have sex i cant get him to find where to please me. It's really difficult because i dont want him to feel that he is doing something wrong and upset him.What shall i do?please help Reply to this Question
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reader, twisted  +, writes (29 June 2008):
 Be aggressive in a confident, sexy way, and TELL him what to do. MOST men are turned on by that. say something like "you know what you're going to do? You're going to......." say it with a sexy smile and then tell him next he can tell you what to do. I think you'll both have some fun!
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reader, LilzDon'tKnow +, writes (29 June 2008):
 get him to explore a little bit try different things or just tell it where it is
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reader, jeena knows101 +, writes (28 June 2008):
First of all, don't fake it. u let him know where ur most pleasurable spot is. if u don't then tell him u want to try different things to find what u like most and im sure he will go along with it.
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reader, lotty83 +, writes (28 June 2008):
Few things you could try, make foreplay last longer, sort of find each other in that (music, lighting etc) can all help find the mood. Try role play, though it may seem a little embarrassing it can really work for some people. Change of scenery, some people find sex in hotel room completly different. Have a couple of drinks ( if you both drink) as you may find it easier to spill how you feel, and he'll take it better if your worried about his reaction. Last but not least you could either try watching movies ;-) or put it in a little note to him.
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