My lady friend's daughter caught us cyber sexting!
Q. My lady friend's daughter snooped her phone and caught us cyber-sex-ting She is 72 and I am 69 and now they will not let me see her mother. Any advice? It was only texting and nothing being acted out. D...
A. 14 January 2011: how can they let you not see the mother when your both adults? maybe try to talk to the daughter and apologize for doing it and explain that it wasn't being acted out and that your all adults and that you would like to continue seeing the mother. ... (read in full...)
Is this guy trying to ruin our relationship?
Q. Hey all, I've been with my girlfriend for almost 2 years and then broke up for less than a month, and now we're back together. While we were not seeing each other, she met another guy and started talking with him. Even after we got back toge...
A. 16 December 2010: well first off sorry to hear that your in this situation. It will nearly impossible to find out whos telling the truth, it really comes down to if you trust your girlfriend or not. when you met the guy did he seem honest? do you know anyone that ... (read in full...)
I'm not clear about sex!
Q. Hello Dear Cupid, I am 24 years old, normally i came from an orthodox family from India. So i dont have clear about sex. Last week i had a chance to sex with my would-be. When i touch his penis, his penis erect but at the same time his penis w...
A. 16 December 2010: there is no water in his penis. it was sperm or urine. and if he was excited then more than likely it was sperm. ... (read in full...)
Should I be worried or is this just how guys talk?
Q. I have seen chats that my boyfriend of 1.5 years has had with his friends. He is a doctor and has to leave for 3 months as part of his schooling. He and his friends are going together. When they were talking they said 'we need to go to the undergrad ...
A. 14 December 2010: this is how players talk not all men. saying we need to be wingmen and go to the undergrad camps is unacceptable behavior for a man in a relationship. if this was just stuff his friends were saying and he was just there listening then i wouldnt be ... (read in full...)
8 year relationship over. Cant stop thinking about her!!!!
Q. My girlfriend of 8 years told me on Thanksgiving that she is unhappy and wants to take a break. She has been my girlfriend for 8 years and fiancé for almost 3. We own a home together. This is so hard on me seeing her everyday and not knowing what ...
A. 14 December 2010: im sorry that you are going through this. i can relate to your girlfriend alot. i have been with my man since i was a freshman in highschool. sometime after i turned eighteen i felt like she does, i wanted to live life, and not deal with anyone or ... (read in full...)
How can I overcome my anxiety?
Q. I have really bad anxiety, especially with my boyfriend and mum. For example if my boyfriend doesnt text me back all day I am worried he has been involved in some sort of car crash or has been taken ill. I get very worried and call his phone ...
A. 14 December 2010: sometimes i to suffer from anxiety like this but not as severe. mine is due to losing my mom at a young age. maybe yours also is due to losing a loved one? but as for what to do maybe try counseling for it. goodluck!... (read in full...)
Can somebody explain to me why a man would conceal being in a relationship?
Q. Can somebody explain to me why a man would conceal being in a relationship ? When I say "conceal", I man that he never mentioned being in a relationship and we have been knowing each other for 2 years. I fell in love with him and he kissed me. He ...
A. 2 December 2010: no. he is a player most likely. if you have known him for two years and he has never mentioned this girl to you, then he didnt want you to know for a reason. and if you fell in love with him, than more likely there has been some flirting going on ... (read in full...)
Is he on some power trip or something?
Q. So i've been messing around with this guy for a while now. Last time we fooled around he pinned me down face first on the bed. I'm all for rough sex, but that was strange. Is he on some power trip or something?...
A. 2 December 2010: maybe he was on a power trip or maybe he was just caught up in a moment. ... (read in full...)
I'm 16 and pregnant from a 19 year old. Can he be arrested?
Q. I am 16 and possibly pregnant, my boyfriend is 19 can he get arrested for having sex with me? We live in new york state and he has a previous record....
A. 15 July 2010: im not sure how accurate this website is but you can google it and find other stuff. goodluck http://www.cga.ct.gov/2003/olrdata/jud/rpt/2003-r-0376.htm... (read in full...)
He refuses to stop smoking pot. How can I get him to stop?
Q. my boyfriend of 3 years refuses to stop smoking pot. we have argued and argued about it. when we got together he had only smoked it a few times and so had i so it was fine. then about a year ago he started smoking non stop. all day it seemed like, ...
A. 9 July 2010: thank you all for your advice. i will suggest rehab, if he still cant stop, ill just leave.... (read in full...)
Are the parents being irrational?
Q. So, this past year, we had Austrians come and visit our school. It's tradition to spend the whole week with them and just have fun. There was one in particular, who stood out for me.. and I wanted to get to know him. I didn't know where it would go, ...
A. 9 July 2010: i think they are being irrational. it shouldnt matter what religon someone is. but if there so worried just be carefull with him. ... (read in full...)
I'm scared. Should I tell someone what happened?
Q. so i was at my friends house the other night. it was around 1:30 am or sometihng close to that time when i fell asleep on her couch. her brother and her cousin where in her brothers room when i passed out. i woke up at around 2:30 to the feeling of ...
A. 9 July 2010: im so sorry this happened to you. im sure it was scary. maybe you should talk to your mom about it. i know that would be hard but that could have turned into rape. and if your afraid to stay there , then you definetly shouldnt he could try to take ... (read in full...)
Will he say I misused his brother in law? I consider it harmless!
Q. i am very open with my youngest BIL who is 22. started with he shown sexual interest up on me. when i spoke with my husband he told its just normal at his age and i shud not be very harsh to BIL. a day i noticed that he tried to touch on my boobs i ...
A. 9 July 2010: im not really sure what to say. it does seem kind of wrong. if you feel guilty about it then you shouldnt be doing it. but goodluck hope it works out.... (read in full...)
What should I say to his Mom?
Q. Okay so i dont really know how to ask this question so ill just explain! :)My boyfriend is working offshore right now and he likes to give me money from his check every week maybe like 300 just so i can have money, but i dont have his bank ...
A. 9 July 2010: just explain to her that you dont ask for it , or tell her to leave it in the mailbox, so you dont have to see her.... (read in full...)
Sex Stings Me But Not Her
Q. [Mod note: OP original title] Sometimes when I have sex with my girlfriend it stings in the head of my penis but it does not sting her. When I pull out the stinging stops and it does not sting when I pee. This does not happen every time either. ...
A. 26 June 2010: im not really sure what to tell you. you should type your symptoms in google, usually you can find info about anything like that on there. or try webmd.com goodluck hope everything is ok.... (read in full...)
Tired of not being allowed to date!
Q. Hey all, my mum has been very hard to deal with lately. Every few months or so i am asked out, but under her rules I'm not allowed until Sophomore year of High School. I've become upset because every guy that asks me out tells his other friends that ...
A. 26 June 2010: sorry it is making you feel bad, im sure its hard on you to have to tel the guys no your not allowed. maybe instead of saying your not allowed you could say that your not interested or that your not ready to date or just simply no. you dont have to ... (read in full...)
How do I know if he's actually single?
Q. heyy. right, i just started a new relationship today, literally 2 hours ago. :/ he's a great person and we got on great. he seems totally genuine etc. I'm 17 and he's 18. the thing is, i was looking at his msn updates when i was bored a minute a...
A. 26 June 2010: just ask him. if hes not single you need to know. just be like i saw on your status that some girl said she loved you 1 day ago and i was just wondering if its something i should know about.if your worried he will think your crazy for asking ... (read in full...)
Could I be pregnant when the cum ran down my body?
Q. So I was with my boyfriend and he "cummed" on my stomach and after a minute i went into the shower and washed it off.. but then i became paranoid because when i washed it off it ran down my body...it's not possible to become preagnant that way is ...
A. 26 June 2010: its doubtful, but not impossible i guess. if it just ran down your body and didnt go in you then it should be fine.... (read in full...)
Should I leave town or try to make it work with this guy?
Q. Hello all, I have a weird situation. I'll try not to draw it out too long, though. J* and I had been together for 2 years. We lived together and were engaged. (I am 21 years old.) We'd had our share of problems before; once when we were dating f...
A. 14 June 2010: i think if you and j made it through all that , then you must have some love for each other. maybe your just not in love with each other. this is a big decision especially about moving. i think its really up to what you want deep down. since you ... (read in full...)
Is his friendship with her MORE than just being friends???
Q. My boyfriend's best friend happens to be a girl. She has been tagging along on all of our dates. They have friends for along time. And the other day I called her to ask if she wants to hang out. We met at the mall and as soon as she found out he ...
A. 14 June 2010: i think something seems weird here. your not worrying to much in my opinion. if she left when she found out he wasnt going to be there, then to me she likes him and only him, if she doesnt want to be around just you. and tagging along on all your ... (read in full...)
I don't know if he wants me or her
Q. "OP Own Title"I met this great guy back in April at a party and we had a really good time together and kissed a few times, but I live half way across the country but I always go to his town every summer to visit my realitves and I am going in a ...
A. 14 June 2010: if he said to text him, then just text him. you dont have to text him and say im coming back so lets be together or anything. just text him and simply say hey you asked me to tell you when i was coming back and ill be there blah blah blah. then you ... (read in full...)
Is it okay for my cousin to ask her if she'll be my friend on facebook?
Q. Hey, i was just wondering do you think i should become friends with my boyfriends friend? When he had a facebook i saw that hes friends with this girl "b" and now i just found out my cousin is friends with her, and i kinda wanna be her friend to ...
A. 14 June 2010: its probably ok for her to mention you. or just add her and if she asks why , just say oh im dating one of your friends or say we have some common friends so i just thought id add you. ... (read in full...)
Need helping breaking up with my bofyriend!
Q. We were dating for a little while then he broke up with me and he broke my heart. I could not get over him and when I finally did, he asked me out and I said yes thinking that it will be better. Instead of it getting better; he calls me 27 times in ...
A. 13 June 2010: just tell him kinda what you just said. that you thought this time would be better and that you really did love him but things just arent the same anymore and your feelings have changed. goodluck.... (read in full...)
Do I confront my boyfriend?
Q. I met my boyfriend about 8 months ago. We started out really well and still doing great but lately some things have been bothering me. I don't know if I'm just insecure or there is something I should be concerned about. Before we became serious w...
A. 13 June 2010: yes you should but do so calmly so no violence happens. hiding your phone like that is a big flag. my boyfriend used to do that all the time and he wasnt cheating just talking to other girls, which is still wrong.i ended it but we made up like the ... (read in full...)
We argue when we're apart!
Q. me and my girlfriend have been having a problem. We are great together when we aren't away from each other for too long. I mean amazing. so much passion its like a dream. but when we are apart for more than two days, its hard for us not to argue ...
A. 13 June 2010: my boyfriend and i have the same problem sometimes. one thing we do that helps if were just busy and cant hang out every day is to send pictures to each other or just sweet texts or maybe a note on each others car or just talking more. we really ... (read in full...)
My bf thinks I cheated with my ex, but I didn't! Help!
Q. my boyfriend is in the airforce and while he was at basic military training my ex got a tattoo. my ex and my boyfriend are enemies. i asked my ex th come over so i could see his tattoo one day and a few weeks later he came over with my brother but ...
A. 13 June 2010: if you didnt do anything with your ex then just try to keep reassusring your boyfriend and tell him you wont let him come over anymore if it makes him uncomfortable. hopefully sooner or later he will forgive you. just keep trying to talk it out and ... (read in full...)
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