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anonymous
writes:i am very open with my youngest BIL who is 22. started with he shown sexual interest up on me. when i spoke with my husband he told its just normal at his age and i shud not be very harsh to BIL. a day i noticed that he tried to touch on my boobs i told him that i understand what he is doing. i told him i am ok with his playing around. then he put his hands in side my bra and it lasted for some time. i did enjoy the feel.some times we do the same thing. i enjoy it. at the same time it is adding to a guilt feel. when ever these things happen, on that night i am extra hot on bed with my husband. but again when i think of it afterwards i feel guilty for doing this way. am i cheating my husband.will he say that i misused his BIL? will be blame me for overdoing things?i exposed on the upper part of my body to BIL. he never tried to go down also. it is a harmless kink that we both enjoy, i am sure. but the society - i am concerned of it. i am concerned about society that it will blame both me and my BIL.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2010): i did not know how to tell him. i shown him this website and told it is my question. though i was very tensed about it, he was very supportive and consoled me.
he suggested me not to worry. he is absolutely ok with this. i don't know i am dreaming or not. he did not hate me. he did not blame me. he allowed me to be the way i am. nobody can not get a wonderful spouse like this.
he suggested to keep the privacy as others, if come to know, will not be happy about this. i think everything is going as i wish. i feel so happy...
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reader, xanthic  +, writes (10 July 2010):
 Pleasure doesn't justify it. You're entirely capable of stopping, you just choose not to.
If you don't stop and do in fact decide to tell your husband, you'll lose his trust and possibly even your relationship with him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2010): it is a mixed feel of guilt and pleasure i am in. i don't know whether we will do intercourse. i am sure the boy won't rape. he had a lot of chance to do and never tried for it.
i feel safe about it. i am unable to resist the pleasure i get with him - the satisfaction on his face.
one day i called him in when i was taking bath. he was very reluctant to come inside, he told that he don't want to see full nude of me.
i wish, till his marriage, let it go. i am bit embarrassed about telling this to husband. he knows that i don't care this boy touching me, but not about i am interested in it too.
i want to tell this to my husband.
i like it when this boy hugs me from back and searching inside my front. i know that it arouses him too. some times i felt his hardness.
i want to see this as simple fun in life. when ever i spent time with this boy, my urge rises and on those days i am able to take my husband to heights.
can some body tell me how can i tell this to husband. or shall i keep it as a secret.
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reader, mrvhappy  +, writes (9 July 2010):
Hi,
Dont let yr BIL touch you again. What would happen if your husband knew?
I suggest that you find a woman for yr BIL and dont be alone with him again or you will end up having consentual sex or you may get raped by him.
STAY AWAY FROM HIM.....this showing him yr boobs and doing things is wrong and you know that. Try instead to concentrate on yr relatinship with yr husband
Good Luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2010): Try and find a girlfriend for your brother-in-law instead of cheating on your husband. It will be better on all of you in the long run.
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reader, xanthic +, writes (9 July 2010):
It's not harmless, it's a betrayal of your husband's trust. Why else would you feel guilty about it?
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reader, tss18 +, writes (9 July 2010):
 im not really sure what to say. it does seem kind of wrong. if you feel guilty about it then you shouldnt be doing it. but goodluck hope it works out.
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