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*oughdough
writes:me and my girlfriend have been having a problem. We are great together when we aren't away from each other for too long. I mean amazing. so much passion its like a dream. but when we are apart for more than two days, its hard for us not to argue constantly. i don't know what to make of it or what to do about it. anyone have any ideas? Reply to this Question
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reader, doughdough +, writes (13 June 2010):
doughdough is verified as being by the original poster of the question we have only been together for 3 months even though the amount of experiences make it seem longer,moving in would be to soon.
i think your right tss18. we miss each other to the point of agitation. we miss each other so much that we can stand it. thats why we probably talk on the phone too much. part of it is insecurities on both of our part. if she didnt live an hour away, i would put flowers and a not on her car.
her son lived at her other sons house for a few months and she could stay at my house for a few days or a week but now that hes back in she cant leave very much and we cant go back and forth a whole lot. once or twice a week and some times she cant stay the night.
i though about trying to find a business online or other wise that we can do with each other so that i could let up on my fixed job and stay over there more but im not sure what kind of bisiness we can do
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reader, rivi +, writes (13 June 2010):
Why don't you try moving in together ?
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reader, person12345 +, writes (13 June 2010):
 Maybe you should limit your contact when apart to texts and letters and emails? If you guys aren't conversing then you can't be arguing!
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reader, tss18 +, writes (13 June 2010):
 my boyfriend and i have the same problem sometimes. one thing we do that helps if were just busy and cant hang out every day is to send pictures to each other or just sweet texts or maybe a note on each others car or just talking more. we really arent having this problem anymore and i think its because we did those things above and he really made me feel loved. like if i was in class and he was on lunch break from work he would leave me a note and flowers or bring me food or just something sweet. it really helped and i did repay the favors if i wasnt busy and he was. i think the problem is caused because when your together you both feel loved and like you said have passion going on and happiness but when your not together all that stuff is in the background and you miss each other and that causes some irritability but if you do things to let the other one know you love them and are thinking of them it really helps.
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