I wonder if he prefers shaved pubic area...
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been going steady for three months, i think we're ready to take the next step. We've touched each other through our cloths, but never actually 'touched' each other. I'm slightly worried though, would he prefer me to be ...
A. 2 November 2008: yeah i think a trimming and tidying is in order (if needed) its a hygine thing too so yeah! you will always feel better and cleaner your self after its done consider waxing mibi? but at the end of the day you might be in the same possition with him ... (read in full...)
Can one person bully you, or is it only when a group gangs up on you?
Q. What is bullying, i'm not sure if i'm being bullied or not. Is it when a group gang up on you, or can it be just one person?...
A. 23 October 2008: Bullying is a abuse, verbal, emotional and physical.
It can be exclusion from activities or peopley saying bad things about you, just things that happen on a rebular basis (not a one off thing) that makes you upset and feel bad.
Its not often br... (read in full...)
My anus is bleeding from a foreign object. Too embarrassed to go to the doctor..will I be ok?
Q. I am a young woman. I have stuck a foreign object in my anus and it started bleeding last night. It is still bleeding when i try and make bowl movements. Its only been a day but i am worried that it will keep bleeding. I know i probably only ripped ...
A. 23 October 2008: Hey anonymous! Every one is different juast cause its not your cup off tea, doesnt mean shes a mental case! besides your not moent to be judging but helping!... (read in full...)
My anus is bleeding from a foreign object. Too embarrassed to go to the doctor..will I be ok?
Q. I am a young woman. I have stuck a foreign object in my anus and it started bleeding last night. It is still bleeding when i try and make bowl movements. Its only been a day but i am worried that it will keep bleeding. I know i probably only ripped ...
A. 23 October 2008: Id hit the Doctors, if you have torn your insides with what ever this is, then bacteria can likly cause infection causeing an umberella of problems
GO DOCTOR NOW!
Lesson learned? stick to proper butt plugs!... (read in full...)
I've been invited to go on a trip to Florida ! Problem is I will probably het my period. Is there any way I can delay my period ?
Q. okay, so my best friend and her parents are going to florida next year, june and they have invited me, well who wouldnt jump at the chance to go to florida?! i was well exited! even though its still seven months away im still really really exited! ...
A. 23 October 2008: I say pill! Its a genius little invention and i swear by it saved my holiday to egypt! See your doctor about getting put on something, :) and talk to you mum about it first so she doesnt freak out thinkin your up to stuff, (my friends mum did ... (read in full...)
Strange vagina!
Q. Hi, I am a teen and I have had my fair share of boys, I have messed around like kissing etc and I'll do anything to him but as soon as he goes to touch me I hesitate and tell him to stop. There is a reason for this, I believe I have a weird vagina. ...
A. 21 October 2008: Its one of these things, its like finger prints they are all different, no woman is the same! Dont be thinking you are weird, every one is different, I used to think the same, it's a case of realising it for your self... seriously its like guys, you ... (read in full...)
Debts piling up, should I do some topless modelling?
Q. hi, I'm having a problem regarding my future, I'm a college student and working as a part-time model to afford my college expenses. I've been doing some simple body modeling, lately business been slow and I need money for pay my college fees, my...
A. 20 October 2008: Im a self funding student my self and i know it is really hard, but think about it will people in the future take you seriously if they recognised you, you will manage might mean gettin a second job though, sucks i know!... (read in full...)
I don't want to turn up at uni as an unexperienced virgin, what can I do?
Q. im 17 and i havnt had a proper bf before. ive had one lousy kiss. no lad has ever called me pretty/cute/beautiful etc. i leave for university next year. i have no prospects for a bf before then but i really really dont want to turn up at uni an ...
A. 20 October 2008: I was just the exact same as you when I left for college, but let me tell you, when you go to college you will meet all kinds of like minded people and open new doorways for you, and besides Lu is right your virginity is a very special thing, once ... (read in full...)
I want to tell him I love him after a year and a half but am afraid of his reaction!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and a half. The problem is neither of us has said I LOVE you. I love him but cant bring myself to tell him because im scared of his reaction. I like the relastionship as it is but just really want to ...
A. 20 October 2008: Lu is right! A year and a half is a long time he wouldnt be with you if he felt nothing. Sounds like your going to be the one to take that leap! Im sure he'll catch you! Good Luck!... (read in full...)
How can I spice things up in the bedroom?
Q. Hey all. Just looking for some advice. basically I need some help on spicing up my sex life! I can't believe I am asking this at 20 years old!!! We have been together 3 years, he is 30. Recently we have gone through a rocky time, I just lost someone ...
A. 19 October 2008: It is very understandable after loosing some one!
I know some people would suggest toys and things, but for me personally im fine with out, take it one step at a time, be cuddly and show affection, let him feel appreciated, then play it by ear. ... (read in full...)
BigSis and Bitchology
Q. {Please read to the end} When I stand up for myself and my beliefs, they call me a bitch, and when I stand up for those I love, they call me a bitch. When I speak my mind, think my own thoughts or do things my own way...they call me a bitch. ...
A. 19 October 2008: BO YA!... (read in full...)
Having a smaller-than-average penis, can I find women willing to commit?
Q. Is it worth trying to find a woman this day and age, that is interested in a "commitment relationship" when you only have a 4" penis? ...
A. 19 October 2008: Mr Q down there is right, to put it in the words of a friend: "its not the lenght of the stick, its the magic in the wand!" and its true what they say, size doesnt matter, so cheer up sunshine!... (read in full...)
Should I propose on her birthday? How to make it the night she will never forget?
Q. I been thinking about proposing to my girlfriend of 7 years (haven't got the ring yet). Her birthday is coming up (she's turning 25) and do you think I should do it on her bday? How to make it the night she'll never forget? ...
A. 19 October 2008: :) awww! I love these things! oki this is how I would have done it were i in your shoes, 1. at her birthday so something really nice for her like a movie, dinner, dont forget to "ties your shoes all the time" buy her a nice pair of earings or somet... (read in full...)
How do guys really feel about small boobs ?
Q. Hey I'm 15 and I have small boobs and I wanna know why guys like big ones so much ? are small boobs bad ?Does it really matter to guys ? I need some guys to be honest here. it doesn't matter how old you are but I need answers!!!! i...
A. 19 October 2008: Lucky you! big boobs are a nightmare, trying to get nice underwear is a nightmare! I was a late developer my self and I really wish they stayed small! so thank your lucky stars, who cares what guys think as long as you're comfortable with yourself, ... (read in full...)
His porn hurt me so much, but I kept going back. How do I stay strong now I threw him out?
Q. dearcupid, because of my husband, i have put up with crystal meth and porn for seven years. about 2 years ago is when i started leaving. i have left my husband for those two reason many times, and at one point joined the army to get rid of him. ...
A. 19 October 2008: If I could first I'd give you a hug! Well done he deserved that and you deserve better! The self esteem thing I think it's the hardest thing, I had low esteem problems because I was bullied at school, how I got over it, was that I had to make an ... (read in full...)
I swallowed and my mouth and neck burned - is this normal?
Q. I just gave my bf a blowjob today and I swallowed... and my mouth and throat burned so I chewed some gum and it went away after like ten minutes... is this normal or is something wrong?...
A. 19 October 2008: happens to me some times there is a lot of salt through it its made me sick a couple of times, big turn off i can asure you hehe, but sweet fruits take the salty taste away and wont burn so much... (read in full...)
I swallowed and my mouth and neck burned - is this normal?
Q. I just gave my bf a blowjob today and I swallowed... and my mouth and throat burned so I chewed some gum and it went away after like ten minutes... is this normal or is something wrong?...
A. 19 October 2008: Yuck! I know what you mean! Im not a swallowing fan, to me it sometimes tastes like paint stripper! If its something that you are intendin to do often or even again having your man eat sweet fruits like pineapple takes the nasty salty edge off ... (read in full...)
I want to be his first but I'm terrified I'll lose him if I have sex with him!
Q. There's a guy on my school's football team and his body is close to perfect and he is absolutely gorgeous!!! I've liked him for a while (I've had band with him for 2 years, I see him everyday) He's 17 and I'm about 2-3 years younger than him. A lot ...
A. 19 October 2008: Look kiddo hes only lookin for the one thing, that he could get any where else! Think about that, it doesnt sound like he cares for you, please dont tell me that you only want it to be him because he is a hot guy... Have you talked to your parents ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is allergic to condoms and our sex life is somewhat confusing to me...
Q. me and my boyfriend dont use condoms but are very careful on what we do. he doesnt use them as he is alleric to the lube on them. the thing is, we could be haveing sex, and all of a sudden he would stop, and then about 30 seconds later, he ...
A. 18 October 2008: The good old withdrawl method, doesnt work well though, he'll pause, so that he doesn't cum, essentially... There are other methods of contaception, the pill is a good one, if you remember to take it, I'm awful at remembering, but you have to use ... (read in full...)
I want to be his first but I'm terrified I'll lose him if I have sex with him!
Q. There's a guy on my school's football team and his body is close to perfect and he is absolutely gorgeous!!! I've liked him for a while (I've had band with him for 2 years, I see him everyday) He's 17 and I'm about 2-3 years younger than him. A lot ...
A. 18 October 2008: yeah, but still if you havin doubts you know your not ready, you are still young there is always time its not a race to loose your virginity it will happen when its meant to, this guy just seems like a plonker! like i said it wont bother him if you ... (read in full...)
He can't enter me... am I too tight?
Q. Every time I try to have sex, the guy can't seem to enter me :( I don't know if it's because I'm too tight, or he doesn't get hard enough, but it's happened with more than one guy, so I'm guessing I'm the problem. What can I do? How can I make it ...
A. 18 October 2008: more foreplay!... (read in full...)
He's enlisted for the army and I'm so upset over it. I don't want him in danger...
Q. My boyfriend of 4 years has enlisted in the army and I am so worried that he's going to have to go overseas and fight! He enlisted without even telling me, he did it and THEN he told me, he never gave me a chance to tell him how I feel or to ...
A. 18 October 2008: I know how you feel chicken! My boyfriend is in the RAF and is in Iraq at the momentso that sucks...
Personally I have my on and off days, i miss being able to hold him and tell him i love him and being held too!
its funny but we both made an... (read in full...)
Best mate's father... and me!
Q. I don't know what I should do as I'm in an awkward postion here.. I am actually in love wih my best friend's father, and I know he feels the exact same way. We always talk to each other about our feelings but how we can't do much being around my ...
A. 18 October 2008: this guy is old enough to be your dad! think about it, its a dangerous game that shouldnt be played no matter how "mature" you are still under age and he is taking advantage of you think of what this will do to the relationship you have with your ... (read in full...)
I am wondering what this is doing to my body?
Q. Hey, I was just wondering what this is doing to my body. At the moment I am eating nothing all week apart from on Fridays when I have a binge. After this binge I am sick but I only make myself sick three times after each binge, no more and no less....
A. 18 October 2008: why... its not healthy... this is how eating disorders start...... (read in full...)
I want to be his first but I'm terrified I'll lose him if I have sex with him!
Q. There's a guy on my school's football team and his body is close to perfect and he is absolutely gorgeous!!! I've liked him for a while (I've had band with him for 2 years, I see him everyday) He's 17 and I'm about 2-3 years younger than him. A lot ...
A. 18 October 2008: any doubts about it then your not ready there a large emotional part to sex that they dont always tell you about, I wished i had waited, but hey what can i do about it now, other than remind people like you that, it only happens once and when its ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my parents about being sexually abused when I was younger?
Q. I was sexually abused when I was younger (I think between 5 and 8). I think it stopped when I was 8 because we moved to a differnt county. Anyway, I'm 17 now and I know I need some help. Ii never told anyone, I hate thinking about it and I don't ...
A. 18 October 2008: you have to say something, perhaps before this, why would your parents think you dirty, they love you and it would make them feel bad if you didn't, as though they were bad parents not being able to look after you properly, remember YOUR their ... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin and worried she has too high expectations of me, sexually! Any ideas?
Q. ok well i think ive found the rite girl that i want to lose my virginity to...the only problem is she thinks im going 2 b real great durin our 1st time. Can u help me out? Ur advice could help me out alot...
A. 18 October 2008: listen i agree with the top post why "plan" to loose your virginity, especially as you are so young!
but seriously do you see your self with this girl in the very far future? Talkin from experience i wish i waited till i met my partner its some... (read in full...)
Mom won't let me date a 30 year old guy!
Q. my mom wont let me date a 30year old. I am 16 years old...
A. 18 October 2008: what ever is wrong with guys your own age anyway, men never grow up, so it cant be the more mature thing
there is a likely hood if you were to start dating a guy nearly twice your age, you are going to feel it important to grow up to fast
... (read in full...)
I was having sex with a guy then it all went wrong...
Q. hi I went to have sex with a very gorgeous guy, it was going all ok, and then it went very wrong.. he put the condom on... and we started having sex... then he stopped.. and he started having problems with keeping it going and gettin the condom on ...
A. 17 October 2008: there is some strange statistic which i cant remember, but it bangs on about guys not wearing the right size condoms if they are too small they risk splitting, too big they slide off...
so no it isnt your fault! dinny fret!... (read in full...)
What pet names can you call a guy?
Q. A guy calls you 'baby, huni, sexy.' But what can you call a guy? ...
A. 17 October 2008: In all honesty I dont think it bothers all guys, I call my boyfriend My Eskimo, private joke really and his um... yeah hes called Bing-Bing adapted from his surname which worked out oki, its all about finding something meaning full for you :)... (read in full...)
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