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How can I be more interesting?

Q.   Ive been with my boyfriend for over 1 year now and I love him to bits. But today, he hit me with a bombshell: "Youre so f***ing boring." I understand where hes coming from: I dont know what to talk about and basically, I crumble in social ...

A.   22 November 2009: Pick up some new hobbies, venture out and do new things. Be busy some of the time when he wants to hang out and make him WANT you and MISS you. In a social situation... ALWAYS smile, ALWAYS listen to people and don't just focus on him. Be a ... (read in full...)

My wife suddenly won't allow me to have sex with my girlfriend!

Q.   [Moderator note: question edited for clarity] Me, my wife, and my girlfriend have been involved for a while. My wife has allowed this because 1) she was my ex fiance and 2)I have an over active sex drive that would make a porn star blush. My wife ...

A.   22 November 2009: I wouldn't call that many times a week anything to make a porn star blush, I would call it normal! It's a shame it's taken 2 women to handle that. My man always gets it when he wants it. If you don't want a man to stray you have to keep them ... (read in full...)

We're trying to have a baby. How reliable are home tests?

Q.   Hi i need some advice. My boyfriend and I are trying for a baby. We had unproctected sex on the 7th 8th and 9th of november. My period was due ab 5 days ago. I have taken a test today and it was negative, however i was wondering is there still a ...

A.   22 November 2009: Totally possible. I have a gf with 3 kids and every single pregnancy the "pee" tests were negative and it took going to the Dr for a blood test! Good luck and keep us posted!... (read in full...)

Have any other men divorced their wives to be with their sister in law?

Q.   have men divoced their wives to marry their wife's sister? does this happen or am i the only one that is conteplating this?...

A.   22 November 2009: My God, that seems kinda wrong on a lot of levels! Is this something that's happened to you?... (read in full...)

Is it unhealthy to love someone this much?

Q.   Dear Cupid, I am absolutely in love with my boyfriend we have been together almost two years now. I am still very attracted to him, we have great sex and I can tell him everything. We have this relationship where we can tell each other how we rea...

A.   22 November 2009: To the contrary... no such thing as too much love sweetie! It's great that you have a relationship that keeps your heart jumping. Believe me, BOREDOM in a relationship can be the demise of it and you are blessed to have someone that you love so ... (read in full...)

Where can I get a sex toy without my parents' knowledge?

Q.   Hey, I am 15, male, and i am straight, but i recently have been using my moms vibrator for anal pleasure. i like girls, but i also enjoy anal pleasure. is there any way i can get a butt plug, anal beads, or vibrator without telling my parents?...

A.   22 November 2009: wow that's a tough one. I think most toy stores have an over 18 rule and ordering online is impossible without a credit card :( I'm all about people exploring their sexuality and believe me, most men like anal stimulation and just won't admit it ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend punishing me for the past....when will it end?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been on and off for about 2 years now. He is in the Army and ten years younger than me. 6 months into this blissful relationship he got sent to Iraq for 11 months. On R and R, mid deployment he proposed and I accepted. ...

A.   22 November 2009: Thanks so much guys for your wonderful answers and feedback. Took the advice to heart, dumped the zero and got a hero ;-)... (read in full...)

Teenage LDR: any suggestions?

Q.   heres the scenario.. we are both 16, in highschool, met when we were 14, have been dating for almost two years, i switched to a different highschool and we've been fine. I believe we are in love, we never have the stupid problems all of our frien...

A.   22 November 2009: yeah and trust is a huge part of that. I know when I'm away from the guy I'm seeing now (new one for the past month), he is a total angel and devoted to ME. It's a nice feeling... I'm sure he will deploy again within a year =(... (read in full...)

How do I deal with roommate temperature problems?

Q.   So I have a roommate who likes it cold and don't get me wrong I like it cool too, but she likes to keep it at 65 degrees Fahrenheit or below with 2 or 3 fans on in our dorm room and the window open even when it's snowing/blizzarding out. I've ...

A.   8 November 2009: OH HELL NO! It's not YOUR place it is OUR place and certain rules need to be laid out and followed. If she's not adult enough to be courteous of you..... be indignant and unplug them every chance you get, turn the heat on full blast and if she ... (read in full...)

Help needed! How can I get over her past?

Q.   I've been dating my current girlfriend for about 6 months now and everyhting was fine and dandy... We really felt we were in love with each other but we got into talking about our pasts and hers really upset me. She's young and has been with 7 ...

A.   8 November 2009: Wow... first of all, sounds like she needs a refresher course on the rules of dating, because rull number ONE is don't discuss exes... and especially don't discuss the sexual details of you and said exes!!! It's one thing to get a BRIEF dating ... (read in full...)

Is there too much trust lost or can it be salvaged?

Q.   Someone I really care about is hurting because of my past actions. I have been seeing someone who I met at work for a year who is much younger than me and we got along really well and enjoyed each others company. About 4 months into the relation...

A.   8 November 2009: God I wish I could lend advice... but your situation is ridiculously close to mine (read my question that's posted if you like). In reading your question I was floored at how similar they were. What is it with younger men and assuming that when we ... (read in full...)

How to make friends when I'm shy and overweight?

Q.   hi there! Friends, i am a student of 9th Class, i am overweigted and shy guy. All students irritate me, laugh at me without any reason and i don't have any in this class but last year i had many friends and they said that i am a good friend. Why is ...

A.   8 November 2009: Making friends has NOTHING to do with your outward appearance. Some of the fattest, ugliest people in the world are very popular! It's all about swagga... charm. Not letting little things get to you and BEING a good friend before you expect to ... (read in full...)

Flirting with a coworker...

Q.   Ok I was talking to my bf on skype today while I was at work and I put my headset down to answer the phone. Well the person that called was a co-worker, hes an older guy that flirts with everyone, I was being friendly with him but I know that I ...

A.   8 November 2009: Sounds like the major jealous type... and believe me I have been where you are. The thing he needs to understand is that we ARE different and we DO laugh different around people that we aren't comfortable around, I think the differences your ... (read in full...)

Am I getting my hopes up thinking he likes me?

Q.   I need some help. Please. I’ve been speaking to a guy I know on msn for about a year. We speak often and get on pretty well. I really like him. We have some mutual friends who we’re both close to, but it’s taken a long time for us to speak. I joined...

A.   8 November 2009: Sounds like you are both just really shy... and I'm hesitant to give too much advice regarding you and this guy until I find out why you are so concerned with what your friend thinks and why you are friends with someone like her that you obviously ... (read in full...)

Is porn to blame?

Q.   hi im 22 and iv been married for 4 years and i love my husband and i do everything i do my hair, makeup and ect. you name it i do it. but in the end i dont feel that hes intrested in me he sais that hes tired and he only wants it once a week, and i ...

A.   8 November 2009: Well... I think the best advice I can give to you is "if you can't beat em... join em!" When I say this I mean 2 things... 1. Have you thought about watching porn together? Even if it's not your thing, if you are this concerned and willing to at ... (read in full...)

Teenage LDR: any suggestions?

Q.   heres the scenario.. we are both 16, in highschool, met when we were 14, have been dating for almost two years, i switched to a different highschool and we've been fine. I believe we are in love, we never have the stupid problems all of our frien...

A.   8 November 2009: Been through a 11 month deployment where my boyfriend was in Iraq... doesn't get much more LD than that! It sounds to me like you 2 are happy considering the space between you. How often do you get to see each other and what is the plan when you ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend vs. best friend situation?

Q.   so im in a confusing, yet silly situation that i seem to have not alot of people to talk to. A not-so-close friend of mine brought up the subject of my bf, who i have just gotten back with after a long break, we had some issues, got back, and it's ...

A.   8 November 2009: I have been in similar relationships.. and I have lost friendships because of the way I let a man treat me... one thing I have learned over the years is that you have to do what makes YOU happy... and forget the haters. If a friend is willing to ... (read in full...)

Are women intimidated by an attractive male?

Q.   Hi, I'm kind of curious, I work in with a few woman and I not really after pulling them or sleeping with them at all, I've got someone else in my eye! However what I'm curious about it are women intimidted by an attractive male either at work or in ...

A.   8 November 2009: Speaking just for myself personally, I have to say no. I appreciate a good looking man, and secretly enjoy the "eye candy" lol but I wouldn't call it intimidation... but more like sexual tension. Probably not much you can do about it short of ... (read in full...)

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