Whose move next?
Q. A man I like, whom I met several months ago and have bumped into a couple of times asked for my number when we randomly saw each other one evening a few weeks ago. I had a missed call 2 weeks ago and I sent a text back to say I saw the missed call ...
A. 26 May 2014: Its pretty simple. Let him be the gentlemen. A Man should make the move. If he doesn't, i think he give up easily and one who give up easily is not worth your time. ... (read in full...)
How can I get the girl I like to accept me? Is there even a chance of this happening?
Q. two boys and two girls. Boy B1, Boy B2, Girl G1 and Girl G2. B1 like G1 and B2 like G2. At this point, all of them are just friends, not in a relationship yet. Both boys treated both the girl they like equally. But the outcome is different. In th...
A. 8 November 2010: to Jmtmj: Alrite u made a good guess... by her definition of Masculine, its like she can handles alot of things by herself. No need to keep worrying about her for any little problem.. Why so dead set? Even at the stage of looking for the right girl, ... (read in full...)
Why do men have emotional affairs when they can just be friends?
Q. my question is very ckommon...why men have emotional affair..if the girl can be just friend so why the boys does not treat like other friends...why they remain texting....although it is simple but it is also a way of connecting and there becomes a ...
A. 8 November 2010: if this man is a married man. probably there is a feeling that he can find in another girl but not his wife. A simple solution would be he should sit down with his wife and talk. Talking about how he like things to be, and not about "i like this ... (read in full...)
Growing old vs growing apart?
Q. for a married couple to be together forever they should grow together and not grow apart. What is your definition of "grow together" and/or "grow apart"? give examples if possible...
A. 17 September 2010: that is so sweet of you. wish you and your mate be forever together.
that means in order to grow together we should find someone who is of similar interest? that way we can show interest?
Some say that its good to find someone with different i... (read in full...)
I don't know where I stand in her heart right now
Q. i'm so blur on where actually am i standing in her heart now. i like this girl but i don wanna confess to her yet. but this doesn't help because many weeks ago when she got injured on her ankle i took great care of her. a care that no normal f...
A. 17 September 2010: Precisely! coz a few nights ago she and i had a 'good' conversation. other than what johnnyrockets said, she also expressed what she is feeling now.
firstly, She said she doesn't have a feel for me now. she said she doesn't feel like i am the one.... (read in full...)
Should you pursue the girl you like or let someone else pursue her?
Q. A question for the guys out there (girls are welcome to answer) If you pursue a girl you like, probably a few people will be hurt. If you let someone pursue the girl you like, only you will be hurt. So. To pursue or not to pursue? ...
A. 11 May 2010: lets say the situation is like that:
if u pursue her, probably your ex will get hurt(since its just a few months after your breakup). Then probably their friendship will get hurt (your ex and this girl are close friends) ... (read in full...)
I'm worried if I leave my boyfriend for his best friend I will ruin their friendship
Q. I have a friend, a guy, and we kinda liked each other since 2 years ago but he didn't make any kind of improvement and signs to make this more serious and so I kinda flirt with his best friend too, at the time. And so, I'm now in a relationship with ...
A. 4 May 2010: Let me put myself into the shoe of your boyfriend. Let's see... I'll be very hurt... I'll be very emotional... I'll hate my best friend very much... I'll not want to see you any more but deep inside me I still love you... That's about it. I'd ... (read in full...)
I'm trying to be friends with him first but I really fancy him
Q. There's this boy in my form I really fancy. Aparently, he used to have a massive crush on me too. Unfortunately, I don't know if he still feels the same way. I'd ask him out if I had the confidence. He's not quite good-looking or anything, but he's ...
A. 4 July 2009: what is his status now? is he still single or do he have crush on someone else now?
I do suggest you be friend with him. start off by a few "hi" and some chat from the internet.
Let him have the liberty to ask you out. Soon you'll know what... (read in full...)
I can't stop fancying my girlfriend's best friend
Q. I cant stop fancying on my girlfriend's bestfriend. I've heard from others recently that she like some other guy. I started to feel sort of jealous. But i know that the other guy is about to start a relationship with another girl. What should i do? ...
A. 17 June 2009: Thank you very much.... (read in full...)
Is he interested or not? It seems he only wants to hang out at the gym!
Q. Hello, I was wondering if anyone could offer some insight into my problem So I meant someone at the gym I go to, a couple of months ago. We exchanged phone numbers and we would talk and text daily. A little over a month ago, he, finally, a...
A. 5 June 2009: My guess is he is stressed out. Maybe some problems with his family.
try not to bug him so much or speak of your problems in front of him for the time being.
I'm not sure if this works but maybe you sort of make it look like you are less int... (read in full...)
I want more financial freedom
Q. How do I tell my bf of 5 years that I want to continue saving for a home, but I want a life too? Everytime I want to do something (e.g. go away for a long weekend) he says we can't afford it... I am so young and I feel like I have no life. We have ...
A. 3 June 2009: you can do alot TOGETHER without spending so much. Such as going to the beach to watch sunsets. Going someplace nice but a little bit far away. Having a small bbq party at home inviting friends. Going to the pub.
Just don't focus on going to expen... (read in full...)
Her family doesn't like me. She's avoiding me. Do I break up with her?
Q. Hi,i'm 22 of age i being in the r/ship 2 and half years after 1 and half years we had sex and to find out she was a virgin after talkin about it to have sex in our r/ship we had it ones.After that all changed our r/ship,she came busy with r/ship,no ...
A. 3 June 2009: why sacrifice the whole forest just for one single tree?
there are much better girls outside. If you really do love her with all your heart u deserve more.
best of luck.... (read in full...)
Every time I ask a girl out I just freeze!
Q. i'm 18 and single because every time i ask a girl out i just freeze, she then asks if i'm ok, so i lie to her and say "i'm fine, just forget it" and walk off, i feel like such a failure and it's tearing me apart on the inside, how can i be more ...
A. 1 June 2009: try this next time.
when you start freezing, just try your best to ask her out then after that tell her that you are nervous when asking her out. She might find u funny n cute and probably she will agree to go out with you.
Best of luck.... (read in full...)
I ended it with her but will she take me back?
Q. Hi, after a year of dating, I broke up with my girlfriend a few months ago. In the first few weeks, she kept calling trying to get me to change my mind. Then, I guess, she gave up and I started missing her. So I started calling her. Now I call her a ...
A. 1 June 2009: Be a gentlemen. You want a girl to take the first step? Come on, Be the Man! Chances are she wants you back just waiting for you to ask it. Probably she is thinking the same way, "why he never mention anything about getting me back?".
Best ... (read in full...)
I'm sick of feeling nervous all the time...
Q. I'm just so sick of feeling nervous all the time. I get nervous over really stupid things. When i go shopping,and it's time 2 check out i just start getting all shaky. It makes me nervous 2 eat in front of other people. I drank Alcohol 2 keep from ...
A. 1 June 2009: i believe everything is controled by our mind. try to stay calm and let things happen normally while thinking of other stuffs.
for example, when you are eat in front of people, just program your body to 'eat' while your mind think of what you wann... (read in full...)
Why is he acting immaturely?
Q. my ex is really confusing me, he told me to get over him and move on, so i started to move on.. and there's this boy i like and he likes me.. my ex saw us flirting and had a go at me calling me a..slag and telling the boy to back off, but he was the ...
A. 1 June 2009: Anastasia is correct. Remember, who you like, who you dont, who you wanna be with is all up to you. Your life is in your hand. Dont let others to control it.
Best of luck. ... (read in full...)
I think I'm trying too hard in the relationship
Q. Well, I'm dating this guy, I'm 16 he's 19. Everything was going great, he probably still thinks it is, but I have my own personal problems getting in the way. You see, I've never been in a relationship before, and he knows that, I had never kiss...
A. 31 May 2009: Mars and Venus.
Men communicate through action whereas women through verbally.
Both of your should work together to a better relationship not only just by you. You should talk to him and make sure he understand how you feel. If he do love you he ... (read in full...)
Shoud I ask him out or something?
Q. Ok so here it is.. I am 13 ( i know it sounds too young but its not to me) i really like this guy and it is not just a stupid crush. When i am around him i feel happier and safe. He always sticks up for me and stuff, but he is just a new frien...
A. 31 May 2009: if you ask him out maybe it will make it looks easy for him. If he ask you out then ask if you can bring your friends along. This is like to see his reaction which could be the real him. It can also serve as a way of evaluation by your close ... (read in full...)
I want to break out of my shell!
Q. Hi, so i need advise. SO after my boyfriends prom (we go to diff. schools) we are going to an after party. I'm a very careful person and im scared to do anything bad beacuse my dad lives through me. But i want to break out for once. Neither my ...
A. 31 May 2009: you should ask your dad about it. Be honest with it. There is definately a reason why your dad dont want you to do some of the things. maybe ask for explaination then maybe say what you think of. parent's love is priceless.
best of luck.... (read in full...)
What was the meaning of her looking at me this way?
Q. sometimes in church our eyes usually meets that's i and a girl of about 17.when our eyes meet we shyly remove it.it was one sunday on which i went to church alone just by coincidence our eyes met we look ourselves for close to 25 seconds before i ...
A. 31 May 2009: she'd be interested in you. But dont jump to a conclusion that she love you. Maybe you should start off by getting to know her. You wouldn't want the girl to take the first step right? Be a gentlemen.
Start off as a friend. maybe a few short ch... (read in full...)
I don't think he's interested in me for me
Q. I feel like this guy who I'm dating isnt really interested in me for me. I feel like he doesnt really care about how I feel and my emotions etc. Often when we talk, he doesnt seem to really be listening to what Im saying. The times when he se...
A. 31 May 2009: i'm sorry to say this but its clear from what you stated. He doesn't seems like he love the inner you but your outer look. If this goes on, probably after he have sex with you he might dump you. Remembers, beauty doesn't last forever. To be together ... (read in full...)
My anger slowly builds up and I lash out, help?
Q. Hey again everyone. I'm worried about myself, as from time to time, I get fairly angry over a lot of small things parcelled up into one, as I try to suppress the fact I'm angry. And I fear this may turn me into someone violent, when I'm actual...
A. 31 May 2009: Words your mouth that made your angry, you cant control them. But one thing you can control is what you choose to store in your memory.
So try not to care what others said. simple as that. :)
give an example of the source of your anger.... (read in full...)
I have learning difficulties and feel incomplete, please advise!
Q. Hello, I have lost the will to live, I am a 21 year old male. when I was born I was deprived of oxygen and as a result i developed learning disabilitys/difficulties. I have a very poor concentration span, and co-ordiniation problems. This really did ...
A. 31 May 2009: i'm not a religious type of person. much towards a freethinker.
but i still believe god created us human all equally. for example my little cousin. he is born without fingers on one hand but when he was like 6-7yrs old he is playing cards, s... (read in full...)
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