He wants to sleep with me, but this would threaten my job. What should I do?
Q. im working as a housekeeper. my lady boss told me that her husband is in love with me. i was asked several times already by my male boss if i want to sleep with him which i refused, he didnt force me though. i like my job and dont want to resign. ...
A. 20 August 2009: If I were u I would find another job. If your worried about not having any income coming in u could find a new job and then quit. U could also file a sexual harassment suit. They have no business even coming at u side ways like that. Good luck!... (read in full...)
I need help in my decision to lose my virginity and have a baby!
Q. hey... im a 15 year old girl. and i jus wana no wat people think and if they have any advice.. ive been in a relationship with this boy for jus over a month. and i reli wana lose mi virginity and have a baby!! i no people are goin 2 say im ...
A. 13 August 2009: I really think it is in your best intrest as well as your childs to wait. One because your too young. U need to focus on your education and becoming employed with a steady pay check. U have to make sure u are finically stabled cause kids are ... (read in full...)
She read my e-mail, about her weight, and dumped me, any advice?
Q. My girlfriend of 11 months invaded my privacy, went through an email and saw an email I sent my best friend which said exactly this: "I love my girlfriend. She has a beautiful face, but she is letting herself go. How can I get her to drop 15-20lbs?" ...
A. 13 August 2009: U have made her feel insecure and not wanted. Especially since she had to read how u felt instead of u being a man and coming to her. Its not what's on the outside but the inside that is really suppose to be counted when u love someone. Yes ... (read in full...)
I want to wait before having sex with my boyfriend, but he makes me feel bad about it...and there are other problems too...
Q. My bf is trying to pressure and manipulate me into having sex with him. I keep saying that I want to wait. Im not saying no, just not right now as I want to know him better and I think trust needs to be built, and that level of trust can only be ...
A. 13 August 2009: U don't need him cause he don't respect u. U want a man that doesn't mind the fact that your not ready for sex and is willing to wait until u decide that your ready without cheating with someone else. A guy should never disrespect u in front of ... (read in full...)
What is the big deal about masturbation?
Q. What is the big deal bout masterbating/cuming/orgasm? I have never masterbated in my life, but even on this sight there's something bout it. You hear stories bout people using hair brushes and carrots and whatnot to stick them up ya, i think it...
A. 13 August 2009: I play woth my clit or get my boyfriend to do it for me. It's good to know that u don't need a man to please u. It's like u get weak from the strong tingle right before an orgasm. With me I've never cam from just sex. But if I'm getting ate out or ... (read in full...)
She's 13 and she wants me to have sex with her!!!
Q. Hi I'm 16 and my girlfriend has just turned 13 but she wants sex! What should I do? Is it ok to have sex with someone that age cos she has kept asking me almost every night for about 3 weeks....
A. 13 August 2009: She's not really ready for sex. She may think that once u have sex with her it'll make u want her more or be in love with her. If no one else has told her u have to tell her that its a sacred thing and if she's a virgin she should wait for sex. ... (read in full...)
I logged into his myspace to leave him a surprise but I'm the one who got the surprise!
Q. My fiance and I have been going out for almost 2 years now. I am no longer sure if I can trust him any more. I was just messing around on myspace.com I was going to sign in to his account to leave a message for him as a surprise when he log on next, ...
A. 13 August 2009: U don't have any physical evidence of him cheating besides what u saw. I don't know if u know this but a lot of times people use myspace to do harmless flirting. He's probably gonna do another page just not under his name. U just have to ask and ... (read in full...)
Why do people care if their partner cheats on them?
Q. Why do people care if their partner cheats on them? I mean I wouldn't care less if my girlfriend cheated on me with various men, it's her body so she can do what she wants. As long as the person uses protection I don't see a problem. Humans in...
A. 13 August 2009: If u don't care who she sleeps with then u don't care about her. Being with someone is being with them and only them. Maybe u put it that way cause your messing with other females and to keep from feeling guilty u tell her she can do the same. I ... (read in full...)
Why does unbelievable sex not drive a man to pursue it again and again?
Q. I've known this guy for a few months and he called me out of the blue. I go over to his house, we hang out all night and day, and have sex 11 times, I repeat, 11 times!!! He goes on to tell me he thinks that this is the best sex he has ever had. ...
A. 13 August 2009: Maybe there was only chemistry in the sex and not the conversation. In order for a guy usually the ones that don't like being with a girl just for sex wants more out of it like interesting conversations. Or maybe he just wants u to initiate it ... (read in full...)
Shouldn't he remove her from his contact list?
Q. I have been seeing my boyfriend for 8 months now. he broke off the relationship with his former girlfriend before we met, but because it was winter he still had his motorcyle and car stored in her garage. that bothered me because i felt there was ...
A. 8 August 2009: He should infact move her from the contact list if u are that uncomfortable out of respect of u and your feelings. He may just be thinking that your insecure as most guys do. Guys fail to realize that they are usually the ones who make u insecure ... (read in full...)
I can't deal with the affair I'm having with my teacher knowing I will lose him one day
Q. Am in emotional turmoil. Please don't pass moral judgment on me because I know that I will seem wrong. I lost my virginity the other day to my married former teacher. We have the most intense, intimate, amazing friendship I know I will ever expe...
A. 8 August 2009: It's never a good idea to put yourself in a relationship where the other person is already in a relationship especially if it is something as sacred as marriage. When u do this your allowing your heart to be crushed everytime you share a intimate ... (read in full...)
Does watching gay porn make me gay?
Q. hi, i am 14, and a male, and i am straight, but sometimes when im watching porn i like to go to gay porn and watch it and when doing so i fantasize about my male best friend and i like it alot and it turns me on more than women do, but when ive ...
A. 8 August 2009: U may just be curious there's no need to ask yourself whether or not your gay. Most people wouldn't admit it but damn near everyone wonder what it will be like to be with someone of the same sex. Majority of those people will act on it while others ... (read in full...)
Our marriage fell apart, now he's seeing another woman after 3 weeks! How could he move on so quick? And what did his silence mean?
Q. My husband asked for a divorce after 7 years because I put my children (from a previous marriage) before him. Three weeks later he is dating another woman. For closure I needed to know how he could move on so fast and just act like I never existed. ...
A. 8 August 2009: Most men are ignorant and selfish. To me no matter who the person is children should always come first. Him being your husband should have understood that. Children need guidence and they need that feeling that someone is always gonna be there for ... (read in full...)
Is it OK to be 34 and be strictly platonic friends with a 15 year old girl?
Q. I know that guys in their mid-30's shouldn't really be friends with teenagers (especially girls), but one of my friends has a 15-year-old daughter who really wants to be my friend. I think she is really awesome and I would like to be her friend ...
A. 8 August 2009: In my opion a grown man cannot be platonic friends with a teenager. How would her parents feel and more importantly how would u feel if this was your 15 year old daughter and your friend wanted to be her platonic friend. You probably would want to ... (read in full...)
What's the difference between making love, and just having sex?
Q. whats the difference between making love, having sex, and fucking? do you think guys know the difference or they just ask for one or the other?...
A. 8 August 2009: Love making is filled with passion, caressing, kissing and most importantly endless touching to let your partner know exactly how u feel anout them. The sound of your partners heartbeat, breathing, and moans together as one is the best feeling. Sex ... (read in full...)
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