Should I pursue her or just let it go?
Q. I just recently got dumped by my girlfriend which she has done this one time before but she told me that her feelings have changed towards me that i should be with someone better and every girl would look for a guy like me but we are both young and ...
A. 15 September 2006: hi there, i think the best thing you can do is not to push it. go away somewhere for a little while (1 week) and you will soon know after that if she still has feelings for you because if she does she will miss you. the worst thing that you could do ... (read in full...)
Someone is lying. How can I find out who it is?
Q. Hi all. Me and my gf of 2 years split up about 3 months ago. I dumped her, but very quickly realised my mistake. However, she didn't take me back, although she didn't say it was over - she simply said (quite understandably) that she was confused...
A. 15 September 2006: hey hun, well to be honest im not 100% sure that her friends would know when her sex drive went down and all the other things especially not at the particular time that they stated she was cheating on you. when your other half lies to you you can ... (read in full...)
We split and now he has someone new and I want him back...
Q. hi i am 16 and I split up with my bf a month ago, i went out wiv him for 4 months but now he has got someone new, he is happy with her but this leaves me still wanting him. Everytime i see him i want him back and i think how stupid i was to let it ...
A. 15 September 2006: sweetie its absolutly natural to want someone you cant have. but in the long run with the way you are feeling your emotions are all over the place you have to hurt before you can heal and move on. its a horrible feeling i know. i think the main ... (read in full...)
What is the average penis size?
Q. what is the average penis size?...
A. 1 September 2006: hi there have a look at this website http://wwwu.edu.uni-klu.ac.at/amiklaut/dr_nick/answer19.htm
if you really would like to know. but remember that any size is a good size it doesnt really matter ok. have a good night ... (read in full...)
How do you cope when you see someone your partner has slept with before? This is really bothering me. Help
Q. How do you cope when you see someone your partner has slept with before? I see them all the time, as there are lot's of girls my boyfriend has had one night stands with, and it kills me. I cause trouble with him or just ignore him after I've seen ...
A. 1 September 2006: sweetie the past is the past the thing you have to concentrate on now is you and him they missed out on his love and your the lucky girl that gets to be loved by him. the good thing is that he was honest honesty is the key in all relationships. you ... (read in full...)
I think Im in love with my boss!
Q. Help, i think im in love with my boss. Last xmas we slept together and yes it was awkard after we came back to work purely on my part because i felt guilty as he has a wife. I know its wrong and nothing has happened between us since. But he gets ...
A. 1 September 2006: hi there sweetie, i have been in your situation before and believe me its not pretty the outcome. my boss was married and we ended up sleeping together too not just once a few times. he got jealous of guys and when he saw me in bars with guys he ... (read in full...)
My fiancee is leaving me and I just can't seem to get on with life. Please help
Q. Hi there. I need help on how to get through what I'm going through. My wife-to-be is leaving me and I just can't seem to get on with work or life. Please help...
A. 1 September 2006: think to yourself why is she leaving me? if its a good enough reason then so be it but if she hasnt given you a reason then i dont think its worth panicking about hun. if its a reason that you can say well how about a break then then go for it.have ... (read in full...)
After being dumped so many times should I continue with this game??
Q. Hi all!Heres my story in brief.I have met the love of my life when we were both 20 but she dumped me.I did everything to get her back but I was hitting the wall. So, I found someone else and got married to forget her(I know its stupid)10 years la...
A. 1 September 2006: hi there, in my opinion it sounds like she only really wants to be with you when she wants or needs something. 20 years is a long time to be chasing her. we only live life once i think its time to move on and not be pulled into this game. delete all ... (read in full...)
What about the age difference?
Q. Hi Im a 16 year old who is in love with a 35 year old man, we hwere close friends since i was 12, but i started to see this guy as more than friends, then i told him.... i couldnt believe it, he felt the same, but never acted on it cos of the age ...
A. 31 January 2006: darling it does not matter at all im only 16 and im with a 45 year old man. as long as you are truely happy go for your life and dont worry your family will come around soon promise. guys like that are not cradle snatchers or perverts or anything ... (read in full...)
How can I fix my relationship?
Q. i am 16 years of age and im trying the best i can to fix my relationship. my partner is 28 years older then me and i love him too bits my friends and family have funally approved of him and we have been going out for 5 months. but we just cant seem ...
A. 9 December 2005: I know exactly how you feel sweetheart. I was in that situation a couple of years ago but the age diff wasnt as big. Get over yourself anonymous who said that this is fake. It does happen. If you feel unhappy talk to him. Do something special. Tell ... (read in full...)
I want to be with my sister
Q. When I was 14, being on holiday in spain, my 15 year old sister got drunk. And while she was asleep, being curious I performed oral sex on her. She doesnt know what happened but I want to tell her so that we can be together. What shall I do?...
A. 4 December 2005: don't tell your sister because you could lose that brother and sister bond it could definately make things worse some people would consider that as rape. i think you need to find somone different that isnt a family member and you need to get some ... (read in full...)
What kind of a Christmas present can I get my boyfriend?
Q. Heya, I know this may be a silly question but I was wondering what sort of Christmas present do you get a guy? I mean, me and my boyfriend are both 14 yrs old, and we love each other very much (yes I know, its only young love but this is for real) ...
A. 4 December 2005: just listen to him he will give you hints go out to a shop and if he sees something then listen to what he says about it. im only 16 and my boyfriend got me a new car and i got him a teddy bear and a keyring and i made a poem love book for him but ... (read in full...)
I caught my 10-year-old daughter masturbating!
Q. I hope you can help me with this because i just dont know what to do! I have a 10 year old daughter who is very happy- go lucky and has lots of friends. Last week i walked into her bedroom to find her straddling her bedcorner and thrusting. I told ...
A. 4 December 2005: no it does not cause long term affects what would you prefer her doing masterbating or doing the real thing having sex with a guy. todays generation of kids and sex is getting terrible kids as young as 10 are having sex and kids as young as 13 are ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is so completely changed... I don't even know who she is any more!
Q. This is a long and winded question. My girlfriend and I of four years recently split up terribly. Over the past four years her and I were best friends, companions and talked about everything to eac hother. For four years I truly felt like I knew ...
A. 4 December 2005: i guess you can find someone who deserves you better if you want to move on then just go ahead and do it when you feel the time is right dont let her pull you down and bad mouth you stick to your friends you have now and believe that you want to ... (read in full...)
I don't want to break up with my gf; I just want us to be together!
Q. Hiya, my girlfreind wants to break up. She says the relationship is going nowhere. We've been together 8 months and since she started her new job about a month ago we don't get much time together - maybe twice a week. I don't want to break up. I ...
A. 4 December 2005: just turn around and say to her that you feel that this is a rough patch and that there are plenty more things to come just wait until after christmas has been then hopefully get better... (read in full...)
Her online friend is making me feel so hurt...how can I get help?
Q. I have been with my partner for 3 yrs and we have a beautiful 2 yr old daughter. For the last few months our relationship has been really rocky. I feel like we are growing apart and I can't help blaming myself. The problem began with my partners ...
A. 4 December 2005: hey i have looked up support services in australia for relationships i know someone who did it and they have never been happier the information is RelationShips Australia Toll free 1300 364 277 they can help you and there email is natoffice@rel... (read in full...)
When my girl gives me a blow job-I can never come. Why?
Q. When my girlfriend gives me a blow job I can never come even though it feels like I should, then it goes and I feel like need a piss and I lose my erection, does anyone know why?...
A. 4 December 2005: maybe if you went to the toilet before she gives you oral sex that might help and if it doesnt the only other thing is it could be a mental block. you feel like you should come and your sub consious tells you not to think back to earlier in life ... (read in full...)
I am so worried...he says he is going to take pills and never wake up
Q. Hi I have a very serious problem, my bf has been away in the uk for 1yr and i'll be joing him early next year. I received a call from him that he can not take the pain of bein away from me, and that he wants to die, he said that he is goin to take ...
A. 4 December 2005: i think that you should talk to him and ask him is he serious that this is a very serious thing that he is saying he will do maybe it is for attention or maybe its true but the thing you have to let him drum into his brain is how you would feel if ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is leaving for the Army in a month. Should I try to stay with him?
Q. My boyfriend just joined the Army and he says he wants to still be with me, but ths past weekend and week he has not really talked to me or hung out with me. I have talked to him and he says he loves me and everyone needs time with him cause he ...
A. 4 December 2005: do what feels right my dear if you feel that you can be with him no matter where he is and if your love is strong enough then stay but if in your heart you feel that it is too hard or will be too hard let him know but if you do want to stay with him ... (read in full...)
Are we having sex too much?
Q. My boyfriend and I have sex on average once a day, and about every 2 days it's twice a day. While this is great for me, and for him too, I'm worried that this will become a problem at some point. Am I just being paranoid? Or is this normal?...
A. 4 December 2005: hi there, well many people experience problems with having too much sex and some people dont but the only advice i can offer is if you feel paranoid or some where along those lines consult a doctor like your gp and if you dont feel like doing th... (read in full...)
Should I be upset about him using drugs?
Q. I just found out that my bf is a pot smoker. I'm not just talking about doing it at parties, but that he has a hidden stash in his bedroom! I'm upset because my bf knows I am VERY against any drug use. He has always told me he can't stand drugs. ...
A. 4 December 2005: you have every right to be upset dear not only has he been lying to you but it goes to show that he has no intention of even trying to stop despite how you feel. i think you should think seriously before you confront him because things could turn ... (read in full...)
My feelings for him aren't as strong any more. I don't want to be selfish, but I want to explore the world before I settle down!
Q. I have been with my boyfirend for 2 years. After about a year we got so close and we even talked about marriage. I thought that this is what I wanted. About a year ago he moved away and I supported it because I knew it would be a great ...
A. 4 December 2005: hi there
i think you should do what you think is right. to me its sounds like he is getting abit to attached and it sounds like it is scaring you. you are not being selfish you are only 20 you have so much life to live you can do the family and hous... (read in full...)
No time is ever a good time for sex with my husband, and it's affecting my self-esteem!
Q. I'm having problems at the moment with my relationship. We are not having any fun in the bedroom and I'm feeling unatrtractive. Last night, when my little daughter was asleep in her own bedroom for a change, I tried to be intimate with my husband ...
A. 4 December 2005: thats a hard one there angel but simply when you are thinking about other males in a sexual or loving way just remember your wedding vowels and think about how it would affect your daughter. instead why dont you and your husband sit down and talk ... (read in full...)
Can't stop thinking about a girl at work, but she's engaged...
Q. I’m 21 years old and I haven’t had a steady relationship for the past two years. In that time all I have had is quick flings and a couple of one night stands. But there is a girl at work who I have known for a couple of years and I am absolutely ...
A. 4 December 2005: hi there,
i can honestly say the best position for you right now is to just leave it dont say anything instead try and make the most of it out of being friends i mean who says that you cannot go out for drinks with a friend even if they are the oppo... (read in full...)
His possessiveness and the age gap are driving a wedge between us. Is it over?
Q. Hey, I'm a college student and am in a relationship with a man 7 years older than me. We have been seeing each other for about 6 months, however I feel trapped in our relationship, he is extremely possessive and this is pushing me further and ...
A. 4 December 2005: hi there,
to be quite honest college kid i think that you should get out a possesive man is not a good thing. i lived with a man who i almost married but he became extremly possesive. it got to the point where i thought i had no where to go and ... (read in full...)
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