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writes: I’m 21 years old and I haven’t had a steady relationship for the past two years. In that time all I have had is quick flings and a couple of one night stands. But there is a girl at work who I have known for a couple of years and I am absolutely crazy about her, I can’t get her out of my head. The problem is she is engaged to another bloke and they have been going out for the past 18 months and I don’t know what to do. Do I tell her how I feel? Or do I try to forget about her? What shall I do?
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reader, Taija +, writes (4 December 2005):
 hi there,
i can honestly say the best position for you right now is to just leave it dont say anything instead try and make the most of it out of being friends i mean who says that you cannot go out for drinks with a friend even if they are the opposite sex. they are still a friend. this has happened to me before and i can honestly say that its just best if you leave it and carry on a woman might feel different to how you do and if you say something you could lose a colleague and a friend and that would just be worse. hope this has helped Good Luck mate :-D
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reader, shania  +, writes (4 December 2005):
 This letter reminds me of one that i answered before.Anyway going back to you,im afraid it looks like she is out of bounds.She sounds like she is happy with her fiance and unless she has said that she is not happy with her boyfriend i think it would be wise to not say anything.If you decide to tell her how you feel then you will run the risk of jeopodising your friendship with her. Its a bit too risky.I think you should try and look else where,there will be plenty of other girls who are unattached and who could make you really happy but while you are pining for this woman then it is stopping you from looking elsewhere.
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