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writes:I just found out that my bf is a pot smoker. I'm not just talking about doing it at parties, but that he has a hidden stash in his bedroom!I'm upset because my bf knows I am VERY against any drug use. He has always told me he can't stand drugs. So he has been lying to me all these years. I've known his for 3 years and I used to notice that sometimes his eyes were bloodshot, and when I asked he would just say he was tired.I don't know what to do, should I confront him? Also, I think he should know that I would never want to marry a man who smoked pot. So if he can't quit, i should break up with him.Do I have a right to be upset?
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reader, fairyangel  +, writes (4 December 2005):
 Yes my sweet, you have every right to be upset. He HAS been lying to you all there years, because he knows your high moral standards would not stand for it. He should go for rehabilitative help if he wants to save the relationship you have, other wise, you have to decide whether you are willing to be with him and his pot habit.You might first want to give him an ultimatum and see what is more important to him? Put the ball in HIS court and let him choose? Best of luck, hope it turns out the way you wish, be strong and take care.
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reader, Taija +, writes (4 December 2005):
 you have every right to be upset dear not only has he been lying to you but it goes to show that he has no intention of even trying to stop despite how you feel. i think you should think seriously before you confront him because things could turn nasty just find the right moment and say what feels right say what is in your heart for example i dont think i can trust someone who has lied to me when they know how i feel or something like that good luck and remember if things dont work for some reason there are plenty of honest trust worthy guys out there i know i have just found one good luck sweet :-D
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